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Ok, this might be kind of long but here goes...I have been going out with my boyfriend for 9 months, and we are really getting on eachothers nerves, we fight over little things a lot and its getting old. He's always by my side and following me, hes really clingingy and hes just getting annoying. Don't get me wrong, he is the best boyfriend I have ever had--literally--and the longest relationship, but I just want to be friends right now. I don't want any boyfriend at all, but I have issues with breaking up with people. I don't like to hurt people's feelings I hate makeing people feel bad or cry, and I need some ideas as to how I could break up with him, but let him know I still love him, we still have a very big chance, I just need a break and want to be friends for awhile?
I rate high to answers that don't offend or piss me off.
Thanks for you help. (link)
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I bet he might feel the same way. He could be getting annoyed just like you. You just need to start by stating exactly how you feel. Emotions can't be helped and he should understand that. He loves you very much and he'll totally understand. And I'll be your shoulder to cry on. But you should tell him you love him and just need a break. It's not the end of the world and if you tell him that he'll be fine. Just be totally open. You may dread doing it and hate yourself for a bit afterwards. But if its driving you nuts, you're hurting him more staying together with him and not explaining your feelings. I hope I helped.
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Rating: 5
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Thanks Lindsay that helped a lot. I know I'm going to tell him I need a break, 'cause when we were walking to lunch, me you, Chad and Jess and he asn't touching me, its like a flood of releif, then he put his arm around me and I just wanted it gone! But yeah, thanks a tun!
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