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ok i like this guy at school. he is in my gym class and i always look at him like he is the man of my dreams. he's nice funny cute sweet.anyway i can't seem to get his attention. i see him look at me when i'm looking at himbut i immeditley turn away. i'm shy around him but loud around his best freind. i don't even have the guts to call him. his name is matt and if you know who he is please help me out.when i was in 2nd grade i liked him and i still do now. he invited me over to his house three times in 2nd grade and i even saw a picture of him when he was a baby and when he was naked!
i guess my question is can u please help me to ask him to a dance at the end of the year which is on june 7th. if you know me please don't tell matt that i like him ok
signed please help me!!!!!!!!! (link)
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You need to stop placing him on a pedestal. Right now, it sounds like you think of him as the dreamiest hottie on the planet. You're so concerned with how you act/look around him, that you're unable to be yourself.
Make a list of his bad qualities, or if not "bad" qualities, then stupid stuff he's done, or qualities that make him normal. If it works, you'll be able to see that he's as normal as you and me, and maybe you'll be able to look at him as just another guy, rather than almost-a-god.
Try talking to him. It'll probably take babysteps, but you've got a couple months yet. Start with stupid conversations, like talking about the weather, or your gym class, or cafeteria food, or a favorite movie or band, just normal stuff like that.
Try to become friends with his best friend. Since it's too hard to talk to your crush, you can get closer to him by getting closer to his friend. Who knows, by May you might be close enough to the friend to get him to ask your crush out for you. (not always the best option out there, but it works for some people)
Anyways, good luck! Smile, try to be yourself, and keep reminding yourself that this guy is NOT perfect.
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i forgot to say that he is only in my gym class and then we r in groups and we can't talk. i also forgot to say that used to like his best friend and his best friend hates me and won't look at me talk to me and everytime i try to call him he has caller id and knows who i am. but any way i loved the advice thanks
signed i need help
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