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hey, me and my boyfriend, were both 18, want to get married, and his mom has absolutely no problem with it, because she already considers me her daughter, but my dad is totally against it. what should i do (link)
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Yes, you're 18, a legal adult... but are you ready to live independently? Are you and your boyfriend ready to support yourselves financially? Marriage is a big step- do you have a job, the ability to buy or rent a house or apartment, finances to buy food, clothes and other monthly necessities?
If your answer is no, then you should probably listen to your dad. Yes, you and your boyfriend are in love, but until you're ready to move out of your parent's homes and support yourselves, you shouldn't be getting married.
On the other hand, if you think you can handle all the responsibilties of living independently, then talk to your dad. Show him that you're mature and responsible, and that you and your boyfriend have a plan.
Or just run away and elope. ;-)
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weve been thinking about eloping. the reson my dad doesnt want me to get married is because he doesnt like my boyfriend. he says im ready, but he doesnt like him. ive been with him for 7 years and we've never fought.
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