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But I'm trying to be on the flag team, stepping team, cheerleading team, and dance team and volleyball. I love a challenge.

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hey ok here is the thing i know its a lil confusin but plz try and help..last night 2 of my closest friends one as my best friend and one whom i know and im a lil close with who i saw twice, they both r in 8th then me so there still in the jr. high so i dont know what goes on between them since im in the high school now. well my friend comes on and tells me that my friend slapped him across the face and called him a jack@$$...but then again i dont blame her bc i would have done the same thing most likely...the thing is that i still want to be friends with him but i dont know if i want to, i dont want my BFF to get mad..though we have gotten into a fight over the summer me. vs. her n my X-BFF and anyways we became friends again and all n my X-BFF was ok with that...now i dont know if i could do this because i miss him and i do want to see him again..i just dk where i could go to hang out with him n still be friends bc im not allowed to go to the movies with guys nor can i go to their houses or have them over till im 16...we have gone to the mall twice but she was with us so i dont think the mall would be such a gr8 idea...he said well see how things work out between us and well work from there on where we can see each other or we would just have to wait till next school year to see each other again..which i dont know bc she'll also be in the school with us and i really know what to do...
i know she liked him and i liked him too @ the time but he was in a grade younger so i know i wouldnt be able to see him much till next year...so i just backed off think i may like him...i dk i how that would effect her..i asked them both if they would ever be friends again..she said she didnt know n he said he doubts it...im feel like im stuck in the middle of this and i dont want to take sides..since i was right there on-line in the chat when the whole fight broke out.

btw he is in a grade younger...yet he is 2 months older so he is now 15

Well, that was kinda confusing, so I'm sorry if I misunderstood any of the info.
But you're in a really sticky situation, so I'll try to help:)I think you shouldn't kill your friendship between you and him. You really like this guy, so you could try to be friends again.
But you should ask your friend if she wouldn't mind you being friends with him.

She doesn't control your life and who you wanna be friends with; but if she doesn't like the idea and you really don't wanna lose her friendship, then she may have some control then.
So, all you can do for now is ask her. Then weigh out the two people. Which could you imagine you being friends with for a long time?
If she's a good friend, then she shouldn't try to stop you from being friends with anyone, whether she likes them or not. You don't have to feel like you're stuck. I really hope things work out, and I helped you! Need anything else? Feel free to come back:D
*Diamyn*

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