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This kid in my school asked me to this party and I turned him down because i knew no one would dance. I want to know if he still likes me but i'm scared to ask. What do i do??

I assume your interested in knowing if he still likes you because you like him and are interested in getting to know him better.

You could also ask him how the party went, and then, since your talking about it anyway ;) mention that you really don't like parties that don't have dancing. If it turned out there was dancing, you can express regret at not going. Just to make things crystal clear to him, you can follow things up by inviting him to do something. If he says no, part with something like "well, if you ever want to go dancing [or whatever - something different than what you asked him to do with you], I'm interested in going with you." That lets him know a few things that you like doing, and that your still interested in him.

Alternatively, if approaching him is too hard, you could write him a note to say that you rejected the event, not him, and how he can contact you to get together sometime. Make sure you mention a few things you like doing so he can invite you to something you'll say yes to.

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