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Hey, I am Leigh-Anne, I am 35 years old, a week ago me and my husband were working late, my 12 year old son was home alone, when I came home I went to his room and caught him having sex with a 17 year old girl who is a friend of the family. I was schocked. She was giving him oral sex and they immedietly stopped, please answer thanks ~Leigh-Anne
ok well first off... grounding him isn't going to do anything. it will only make things worse. you can talk to him and let him know how you feel about it, but that may not work either. nothing you are going to do or say will cange what happened. and nothing you can do or say is going to change how he feels about sex. i dont really know how to tell you about how to deal with this. I dont know exactly what you can do to him, to make him realize that to you what he has done was wrong of him. i know it may sound stupid but when workin late, maybe get someone to keep an eye on him to make sure he isnt doing anything that he shouldnt. maybe have a neighbor just keep watch or check on him for you and your husband. but i do know that grounding him will only cause him to argue and fight with the both of you, your hubby and you. i wouldnt recommend it, however it is your choice. you and your husband should sit down and discuss together, what you both think is the best way to go about your son. i dont know if any of this is exactly what you were asking, and i also dont know if my answer has helped or even if it was good. either way... only you can decide how you want to handle this. no one else can tell you how you and your hubby should go about this matter and how to punish your son.
as for the girl, you should maybe talk to her and let her know that you would rather her not be around your son unless there is an adult present. i really wouldnt recommomen that you make them stop seeing each other all together. once again that will cause alot of hostility between all of you. let her know that you are willing to let them continue to be friends, but you are not going to guarantee trust to eith one of them while they are together. let her know that you will abserve the way they are with eahc other and if you find that they are doing anything else together or with each other, that you will no longer allow the two of them to be together. as with telling your son this also. once again this may not be the best advice. and also, once again, only you can decide what is best.
good luck. hope it has helped
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btw... i was just wondering, did you catch them having sex or was it head. you first said they were having sex then you said that she was giving him head. which one is it? and also..
why would you be asking a bunch of teenagers what to do? your the adult, your the parent, you should know what to do.
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Actually she was molesting our son. Once we had her arrested other parents came forward and it turns out she had molested several little boys.
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