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Q: I like this guy. We flirt a lot, but he really likes someone else. Some people said he likes me, but i know its not true because of how much he likes this other girl. i know its not a cover up because, you can easily tell how much he really does like her. anyway, we have these dances on friday nights like once or twice a month. There's one tommorow (feb 4) and me, him, and the girl he likes will all be there. He's already saving a dance for her. She said she doesnt like him enough to want to go out with him, plus she wants to be single. She dumped her boyfriend a few weeks ago even though she still loves him just so she could be single. Im really not sure what to do, i was going to ask him to dance tommorow, but if hes gonna be dancing with her, than i dance with me would mean nothing since im obviously no match for her. what should i do? should i just forget about him and move on?
you should deffinitly dance with him. regardless of his feelings for him, you still like him, and have every right to dance with him. just be confident, go over to him, smile at him sweetly and tell him he's dancing with you. don't let her intimidate you.

im not intimidated by her. i just dont think it would have any meaning at all because he gets to dance with her and he actually likes her. so obviously it would mean something when he dances with her but it wouldnt mean shit if he danced with me. it would just be pointless

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