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i think your advice was the best i got so i wanted to thank you but i have a bit of a problem. He liked me about 2 or 3 weeks ago and it might be too late now and we both liked eachother last year but we both didnt know. Now im afraid its too late. Also after i told him that i didnt like him, we had a long talk and we became better friends, i still dont even see him every day. also he said something that i found a little creepy. he said "ill look forward to seeingyou in the halls" and wrote a few other things that made me less than comfortable. I was in such a weird mood then and went and told my friends and they think of him as creepy. he was known by a few people for not leaving his ex alone. I was very flattered when he said i was pretty because no guy has ever said that to me and i consider myself as ugly. some of my friends think of him as annoying and i just dont know what to do. he is also one of my best friends, best friends ex. she would be fine with it but still. and ive never had a boyfriend so i dont know how that would work, we dont have cars so if we wanted to go out how would we get there? ask our moms to take us? my mom would make weird jokes and i would be embarraced but as the days go on i think i would stop liking him but i like him more and more and every time i see him in the hall i get butterflies in my stomache. I see him only once a week and maybe not even that. im so confused.

thanks for saying my advice was the best.. i feel soo special =)... anyways this is a very strange situation... you said how he makes you feel uncomfortable and that he's a little creepy... it seems like he has the qualities of a stalker...=/... idk wat to tell you... but i would keep my distance... never go out with this kid... if he asks you again... just tell him that you don't think it would work out... and i'm sure that you are pretty.... you don't have to feel obligated to go out with any guy that says this you are. If you feel like maybe you should go out with him... first get to know him better.... like sometimes if you're going to the movies or the mall with a BIG group of friends then get to know him. If you still feel comfortable and you get to know him enough... maybe you could be friends with benefitz...??... hope i helped.. and tell me how it goes =)

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(Rating: 5) Thats what i was thinking, the movie thing. After i mentioned his name to one of my friends she gave me a weird noise and said how he tells one of her best friends that he loves her every day. I think i am way over him now!

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