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Hey Everyone. My name is Barbie. I am 22. Working full time and in college. I'm here to give advice to serious questions, not to share my whole life story. I've not been active until recently. All of the questions I've answered on here, as you see are very old and out dated. I will no longer answer silly questions, but only more serious ones. If you want my opinon, ask me a question. I'm 100% honest to the best of my knowledge, blunt, and to the point. If that's what you're looking for, then you've come to the right place. If not, then my apologies, but you can go to some one else who will sugar coat things for you and make you hear what you want to hear.
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Alright, well I'm a 14/f and I'm not ugly( not in a conceited way at all, please) but I'm not the 'hottest girl at school'. I'm friends with many, but I just can't get a boyfriend. I have been asked out about 3 times, but turned them down because I knew I didn't like them. But now, as a nineth grader, I'm craving for a boyfriend, not so much for 'action' but I just want to be in love, one of those' aww how cute' sort of things? And I guess you can say I've fallen for this one guy, but I can feel he only considers me as one of his friends, I mean I think he's great, funny, cute, nice, smart..and all that -jazz-. But one of my biggest I guess you can say fears, is if he I ask him out and he says no. I don't want to go straight out and ask him out, I think it'll be better if he does. But me and him have only met this year, and I'm pretty clueless now, I just really want a boyfriend, and don't know whether to ask him, we don't know each other as well as he knows other girls. And, agh. Please help if you understand. I rate, I guess.
well first try asking him to hang out with you one day, just you and him. go to the movies or to the mall or go do something you both will enjoy together. whether that be going to the arcade and playing video games or going and just hanging out at the house, whatever. then see where it leaves you guys at the end of the day or night. if you feel like you two have conncected better in some way or another ask him if he'd mind doing something again sometime. if he says yes, then you know that he atleast considers you a friend who is a fun person to hang out with. then after maybe hanging out a couple of times with each other ask him out. that is if he hasnt already tried to ask you, or you two havent already made a move on one another. if he says yes, then congrats and good luck. however, if he says no, dont worry about it. its not going to be the end of the world for you. it is just that he sees you too much of a friend than a girlfriend. he doesnt mean to offend you by that, but just letting you know that he likes and enjoys you more as a friend who he can hang out with and have a great time. and if you like him, you will respect that of him. just remember that if it doesnt work, it wasmeant to be and it will work out for the best in the end. good luck babe. hope this helped.
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your advice seems to be the best. thank you very much. Def. a 5.
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