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Q: (15/f) My friend totally didn't invite me to his 16th birthday party. It's actually a couple of us that weren't invited, we're all on his tennis team and we've known him since 7th grade when I showed him around the school, on his first day. We hung out a lot freshman year, not As much this year but still. I saw him everyday. nI actually went through a stage of liking the kid, and he liked me for awhile to. Basically, we've *my friends and I that weren't invited* laughed about it but it still hurts! How can we 'jokingly' approach him about it?
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Go up to him and just be like...listen, im not mad, just a little hurt. whats the deal? even if your really mad, just play it off and be calm. your more likely to get an honest answer, rather than him just trying to defend himself. if he gives you a ligitimate, honest sounding answer, be the bigger person and tell him you understand, but that he might wanna consider some of his friends feelings next time he decides to just avoid the topic. if he gives you some bullshit answer, than tell him you really thought he was more considerate than that...and walk away. as long as you stay totally cool, you'll have a bigger effect on him than if you yell at him.
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Hey...im risa, known to some as Reeses : )
I love the feeling of knowing that something i said helped someone when they were feeling confused, upset, or just in need of hearing someone elses point of view. i know it sounds corny, but im always here if you ever just need someone to tell you your not crazy. : )
Because maybe...your gonna be the one that saves me.
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Gender: Female Location: New york Age: 15 AIM: Member Since: October 25, 2004 Answers: 93 Last Update: May 9, 2005 Visitors: 6759
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