|
| |
Hey...I don't really think you can help much with this, but I'm curious to see what you think of it all. This is probably gonna be long. Sorry.
Okay. My boyfriend and I are really close in every way. We love each other completely, and we're technically engaged. The only thing is...he'd told me he was staying here for college, but then he went on a trip with his family to see the rest of their family this break, and all of a sudden decided he wants to go there for college. That would be a four year separation, maybe more, and I don't know how to handle it. He went away this summer for 2 months and it, like, killed me. I can't imagine not seeing him for a year. We're not going to break up or anything, and I'm not going to try to make him stay (though I'd like to) because he'd resent me, I'm sure, if I did. I don't want to make him stay here for me, but he's planning to go to tech school. Can't he just stay here? I would go with him, but there are absolutely no good vocal programs where he's planning to go, and I already got accepted into a college here that does. (I'm doing vocal performance as my major).
Anyway...I don't know what to do. I almost don't want to talk to him about it because I'll end up crying and making him feel bad, then feeling bad about making him feel bad. Lol. Plus, I hate for him to see me cry.
So...anything to say? (link)
| |
aw hun i'm sorry, maybe if he goes to the college down there he will make better money because he might be going to a better school, you know how that works.. but hopefully he'll decide to stay around here, i dont really know how to put it, but my bf and i have been together for over a year now, and hes a senior and hes planning on staying here and going to a local college until i'm out of highschool, but then sometimes he has these crazy ideas about going to the marines, and i dont wanna bring up about anything after highschool, cuz the same thing happens to me, it just makes me want to cry because not seeing him like for a long time just hurts me! well i hope he'll change his mind or something. x0 Renee
|
|
Rating: 5
| |
Thanks. I appreciate your sympathy. =)
|
|
