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Im 18 years old..born & raised in northern va. I love to have fun with my girls, and ofcourse love to shop. Im a goody goody and damn proud of it! Feel free to ask me any questions, thats what this website is for : )
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I'm not sure but I may be a victim of emotional abuse. I've been with my guy since high school, more the half of a decade ago, and we have a child together. Now he doesn't call me names and put me down to my face, though he's come close before, but it's like whenever he's in a bad mood he takes it out on me, he blames EVERYTHING on me that comes to his mind. It makes me feel really low. I think he does it to make himself feel better but then I feel like total crap and I hang my head down and sigh for like hours. Sometimes I get so sick to my stomach over it. It's just this vicious cycle that keeps on going. He acts nice again and I love that person that he is when he is nice so I forget everything and am able to relax again for a little while. But when he changes faces again I'm like, "Oh why do I put myself through this, here we go again." I feel like such trash for putting up with it. I just love him so much, and I know he loves me but wonder if there's a part of him that hates me because he has to blame so much on me. And if I say anything when he is angry, ANYTHING, it makes him angrier and he doesn't listen to anything I have to say. His father treated his mother like this and I think he's following in his footsteps. I don't want my son to think this is how a man is supposed to treat a woman. So I'm just wondering if this is considered emotional abuse. Thanks.
Girl, ofcourse its emotional abuse...why are you still with him? Just because you have a son together doesnt mean you need him...* Yes a husband/boyfriend is suppose to tell his girlfriend things and she's suppose to help him get through his deals n all but he shud never blame her for nethin she didnt do! Even if you have done something, he still has no right to yell at you and make you feel so bad. There are many guys out there that know all this, and you should be with someone who respects you and gives you the love you deserve. How do you know he loves you? Just because someone says sweet stuff to you doesnt mean they love you, I think you should definately leave him, and find someone who respects you. Respect is part of love, if he doesnt respect you, then how can he love you? Yeah couples argue, but this isnt argueing, if he's yellin at u and making you feel bad. I think you deserve better than him , this is definately emotional abuse....verbal abuse.
(Rating: 5) Thanks!!