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Hey Everyone. My name is Barbie. I am 22. Working full time and in college. I'm here to give advice to serious questions, not to share my whole life story. I've not been active until recently. All of the questions I've answered on here, as you see are very old and out dated. I will no longer answer silly questions, but only more serious ones. If you want my opinon, ask me a question. I'm 100% honest to the best of my knowledge, blunt, and to the point. If that's what you're looking for, then you've come to the right place. If not, then my apologies, but you can go to some one else who will sugar coat things for you and make you hear what you want to hear.
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well i like this guy.. duh lol.. so anyways during the summer he told me that he liked me and i didnt like him then but i was really good friends with him so i was flattered but didnt like him back.. so then during the school year we kinda "hooked up" and we went to 3rd base.. and so ever since them i have had feelings for him... whenever hes around other girls i get jealous and it sucks.. i told him that i liked him and said i dunno if it is because we did stuff together or not.. and he just said "aww" and i still have these feelings for him and to make it worse we hooked up again so my feelings are even stronger.. but i dont really want to go out with him.. but i just like him a lot.. sry its so long --please help-- =] x3
well for one you have nothing to be jealous of. even if he is out screwing around with other girls, you cant be jealous and pissed off about it because you arent going out. there is a name for you two... FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS!! thats it.
for two there is no question here to answer but i am, however, going to preced on telling you my thoughts about this.
when you said "i dunno if it is because we did stuff together or not.."... "but i dont really want to go out with him.." , that there just asnwers your retorical question. Your feelings you are having for him is mainly just becuase you have done sexual things with each other. nothing more. and by this you think that he is obligated to be with you and only you. you think that there should be no other girls involved with him, well thats not going to happen. you have to get over yourself and think if you like him just because you two can get together and "do stuff" then there is no connection between you two. he is aloud to talk to other girls and do whatever he wants with them and to them. nothing you can do about it. nothing you will do will be able to change that.
all it is at the moment is just a way to get some pleasure out of each other. pretty much just a booty call and a way to get a piece of ass.
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thank you tons!!! =]
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