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Q: I talk to the guy I like alot on AIM and alot in school. We're great friends but it seems like I always IM HIM! I don't know if he doesn't want to talk to me but when I IM him we usually get into long conversations but he never starts them. It's always me. Is this a hint he doesn't want to talk to me? If it then why do we always talk up a storm? Pleae help!!

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i was actually recently having a really similar problem...and i finally just convinced myself that guys are just as shy as we are sometimes, and just as afraid of rejection. one of my best guy friends once told me that its kind of divided up fairly- if you always im a guy first, if u guys talk on the phone, he'll be the one to call. or vice versa... if your having awesome conversations with this guy, than i wouldn't worry about it all : )..leave me one in my inbox if u need anything else

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thanks so much... u really made me feel better :)

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