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Hey Everyone. My name is Barbie. I am 22. Working full time and in college. I'm here to give advice to serious questions, not to share my whole life story. I've not been active until recently. All of the questions I've answered on here, as you see are very old and out dated. I will no longer answer silly questions, but only more serious ones. If you want my opinon, ask me a question. I'm 100% honest to the best of my knowledge, blunt, and to the point. If that's what you're looking for, then you've come to the right place. If not, then my apologies, but you can go to some one else who will sugar coat things for you and make you hear what you want to hear.
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* My Weird School Dealy*
Posted Monday November 15 2004, 1:30 am
Okay. here it is. I was raped a few days ago. By my neighbor. He lives like three houses down. We went to a house that my brother broke into, so they could have a cigarette break before going to the gym. Well they brough some alcohol and we started drinking shots of all kinds of stuff. I done atleast a whole bottle of GIN! I was drunk of my ass. We played some games. I wasnt all together. My neighbor who is 16 and is my NJROTC Commanding officer, locked me in a room when i was drunk and raped and he had a condom. (how and why did he have a condom i have no idea) I remember him shovin his dick down my throat when i was on the ground and chocking me. The picked me raped my ass and the detective said i passed out and he raped me in my vaginal area. I was so sad. I went depressed after a while. Almost scuicide but i told my parents. The cops and detective wanted to arrest him. They had SOOOO much evidence its not funny. But the detective went to the state and the state said i wasnt drunk enough and dropped the case. Can you please explain to my why would they do that to me? and isnt that wrong? Now im locked in my house and cant go to school. What should i do?
Any one who helps me the most ill leave them a GREAT COMMENT and A BIG RATE!
-Unknown-
You just have to keep fighting for it. Get together with the cops and detective and have them go to the state again. Explain to them how scared you are to even go outside and how you dont go to school so you dont have to see him. I honestly couldnt tell you why they even dropped the case. The only thing i can say is try and get a court hearing. Go to court and let the judge decide. It may be tough to get a court hearing but you can't give up. It shouldnt matter about how much alcohol you consumed. People get raped all the time, even if they are sober. You should also fight them on that too. The only thing they could say was if you were drunk then you were impaired. They may tell you that you were too drunk to remember that you thought and said it was ok to have sexual intercourse with this person... that you regret doing this on your own free will and now you want to switch your story around and put the blame on him and make him suffer. But it isnt true, you were raped and something needs to be done. So it is a good thing that they said you werent drunk enough because now you have more to fight for. Dont let him get away with what he did. What he did was wrong and he needs to pay for it. So once again sweetie, dont give up. Just keep fighting for it. I hope this helps. And if you need anything leave one in my inbox or IM me.
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Thanks!!! Yea i know this pissed me off so bad. Thanks for everything. Well im a Advice Columnist on here but i just wasnt sure if it was right. MY family and friends and neighbors are pissed they let him off the hook like this. So i just wasnt sure if i should just let him go... or fight for my rights? and i wasnt sure. They do this all the time. Im not the only one. Well thanks. -Sammy Sam- Aka: Unknown
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