About xOMsRunninAwayOx
Sammy Sam's Advice Column...
Theres not much! I mean i help alot of my friends with there problems. Even though i have problems of my own doesnt mean i cant help other people. I learn to learn from my mistakes. Also, from alot of my friends in Texas.. I had many friends and they had alot of issues. I have been able to help them through anything. Here in keywest i havent had that many people come up to me and ask me for help because either one.. They hate me or two.. they are scared.. or three... they just dont want to be known. So i thought this would be a good thing to help anyone who needs some to talk too and has an idea who they are talking too and how much i care about everyone. I really think its better to tell your feelings people and help get a re-action back to help you get though your problems. My family has helped me through everything and my friends. Its not that i give bad advice. Because i really dont. I try not too i think hard and long about what i have to say and figure if i was you what would be easier and better for you. I try to be in your shoes. I have been through alot im trying to get over a rape that happend and it really screwed up my life. But im back on track thanks to my friends and family there to listen and help me through. So if u need anyone to talk to im here for you. Ill answer u asap im always here. Leave me a message.
Ask Me For Advice
View Feedback
Make Favorite Columnist
E-mail: mssammerz89@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: .: TUCSON, ARIZONA :.
Occupation: .: Rocker.Emo.Punk.Lovin Sum1 :.
ICQ: .Huh.
AIM: Emo Gawdess x
Yahoo: mssammerz89@yahoo.com
MSN: sammysue2827@hotmail.com
Member Since: November 14, 2004
Answers: 90
Last Update: March 22, 2005
Visitors: 6347
Main Categories:
Work/School Relationships
Babysitting
Random Weirdos
View All
Favorite Columnists
selectopaque
PuReLuVeR143
A-reynolds-C
buckems
xxpinkeyeliner
SammyPie
Advicenators.com
|
|
|
I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and we really love eachother. We've talked about the whole sex thing and agreed that we'd wait until we were together for a longer period of time. My boyfriend said that he's ready whenever I'm ready but he doesn't want to pressure me into anything that I don't want to do. The thing is, I really AM ready. I know that he is the one that I want to lose my virginity to him and he wants to lose his virginity to me. Every time I see him, I get tempted to do more and more with him but I have to stop myself. It's not that I'm scared it's just that I feel that we haven't been together long enough to be doing anything like that. I trust him and I know he won't hurt me. I don't want to become tempted and do that. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I can avoid myself from being tempted? I can't have sex with him, it's not the right time for us yet. Thanks so much if you can help! If anyone is in or has been in my situation, tell me how you handled it or how you are handling it.
Wow! Gurl im in ur position right now! My boifriend and I have talked about it and im just like you!!! everything u have explained is what i am like right now. I still do things with him and i want to have sex with him too and we feel like we need to lose it to each other. I am ready anytime and he is too. We havent been together that long. I just still do things with him and do phone sex it helps me. But if your touching each other and want to have sex really bad just stop! and breathe and think is this right? am i ready? if not then dont youll know when your limit is. Im always tempted too. But once your down being tempted dont you think to urself. Yes i wasnt ready then but i liked doing things with him. You'll know when your ready if you are thinkin like this. You let it happen when your ready. But wait! please its better. So you know it wasnt a mistake if you guys ever break up! So if you need to ask me anything else you let me know iight chicka! Im here for you 24/7! Yes.. sooo just think about it. Talk to your love one and let him know that if u do let him hanging when he is rlly horny and want to have sex and you back out.. its because your not ready and that when you are ready it will be the "BEST" because you made him so tempted and making him want it more n more. So when the time comes it will be "AWESOME" so just sit down and think about it and then talk to your love one. Ttul hun! im always here.
[view]
(Rating: 5)
Thank you SO much hun! Great advice. I'm glad you know what I'm going through! Thanks again!
| |
