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Q: Okay here is my problem, I have a boyfriend and i was sorta upset... i shouldn't of done what i did..... i went down to my ex boyfriend's house and i was talking to him and then one thing led to another and we sorta kissed... okay we did kiss ALOT! I love my boyfriend with all my heart and i am afriad if i don't tell him what happened that my ex will, so he could break me and him up! So should i tell him or not.... maybe i could get away with him not knowing and everything will be fine! But then again i am always thinking about it and it gets to me. Please help me Thanks alot.
Relationships are based a million percent on honesty. maybe you'll get away with him not knowing, but what about the next time you have something to hide from him. And think about it- don't you want your boyfriend to always tell you the truth? i would tell him- he'll probably get mad, but if you guys love each other like you say you do, a hookup with an ex can be gotten through. and i hate to be straight foward, and idk about you, but if i didn't tell my boyfriend, id feel pretty guilty the next time i kissed him.
i hope this makes sense...good luck and message me if u need anything else.

Thanks i think you helped me with my problem right now also! my boyfriend tryed to kiss me last nite and i backed away! So that means i think i should tell him! Thanks

-Katie-

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