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i guess this might be a stupid question, but something kind of depresses me. my boyfriend asked me last night would it be okay if he spent new years with his guys this year. he said that him and i spent the last 2 new years together and he wants to hang with his friends. ofcourse i said yeah, because im not the controling type. well, even though i said yes, it makes me a little sad knowing that he doesnt want to spend it with me. its like, why cant i chill with his friends too? its not like i never had. do any of you guys think i should tell him how i feel? or do any of you think that im wrong for feeling the way i feel?

thanks for your time.
18/f

I don't think you're wrong to feel that way, but I think you should keep it to yourself. He did spend the last 2 new years with you. And when guys hang out alone, they can do stuff that they can't do with girls around. Like they feel more comfortable and don't have to worry about upsetting you. I'm not saying your overly sensitive, that's just how guys see girls and it really isn't going to change. Why don't you hang out with your girl friends on new years? If you've spent the past 2 with your guy, that means you haven't spent it with them. You'll have fun.

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