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Hey I'm the girl wanting to talk to my friends ex. I have another question..srry! imma go out with this guy and like we went out before and it wasint working.(he cheated twice).and I dont trust him but i still wanna go out with him. what do i do? thnx and your soo awesome at advice

Well.. I don't quite understand why you would want to go out with someone who cheated on you twice and whom you do not trust. That stuff hurts deep, I must say. I cheated on a guy once, and we stayed together but it was never the same again and started fights. That could happen with you. But I can't past judgement. I think you if you really want to go out with this guy and he means a lot to you then, you need to lay down the rule. Let him know that he has lost trust with doing what he has done. He needs to prove he can be trusted. Be calm in telilng him of course. Personally, I wouldn't date him. No girl deserves to be cheated on by someone. And if it happens more than once, chances are it'll keep happening. But you never know, he could change for you depending on how much he truly cares for you. Try it out and see what happens. The first time he starts acting shady and cheats again, I'd let him go. You don't need that. Good luck sweetie. I hope it works out for you. I am not trying to change your decision or anything, but seriously, thinking about it. I don't want you hurt.

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(Rating: 5) thnx i guess i wont go out wit him..

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