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Hey, it's Kristen. I'm 17. I'm here to give you advice honestly and straight forward so ask!advice
This is gunna be long so be ready, but please help! im driving myself crazy not knowing what to do... ok, i've been going out with my boyfriend for a little over 3 months, and i like him alot, but our relationship is 'dying' and he doesn't know what he wants to do with it and i wanna know how to bring it back up again, i think that we should hang out more like we used to in the summer but then school started and we stopped hanging out, but it doesn't seem like he wants to hang out now. but hes so odd, cuz at times he wont even acknowledge my presense, then 20 minutes later he'll be all over me, and hes so protective of me... like there this one kid that keeps calling me and he's trying to get with me and my boyfriend hates that and wants this kid to stop, and i dont see why he would be so protective of me if he doesn't want to go out. and i know if we just hang out once outside of school then our relationship would be great again, cause then we could do wat we used to.
soo....
1) what do you think he wants to do (break up, not break up etc.)
2) what should i do to bring my relationship back up?
PLEASE HELP!!! i rate high
I don't think he wants to break up. If he wanted to break up he wouldn't even acknowledge you period most likely and he would not be protective over you. It is perfectly normal for him to be so protective over that kid who wants to get with you, don't sweat that. First of all, talk to him. Find out what's goin on. You'll never know the truth behind his actions if you don't ask. To get the relationship back up, communicate more. Try calling each other a little more and writing notes to each other and such. Keep each other informed on each others life. Try to hang out sometime. After school, get a pizza or something. Chill on the weekends. Get the chemistry flowing again. Try doing little things for each other such as walking to each others classes together at school and stuff. Eat lunch together. :) If you need anything else just ask me in my inbox.
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