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Hey everyone! My name is Jessi and I'm 15/f/IL. I've always been excellent at giving advice...or so I've been told by my friends. So you can ask me anything and everything...although I have a rather special talent for makeup emergencies (considering my mom sells it) and for dealing with affairs of the heart. (Some of my friends automatically come to me for boy problems.)And, without further ado...my advice column!
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My mom actually needs help with this one, but I'll explain.
Last night my neighbors who are around my age (I'm 14) came over. My mom rented 3 movies (even though we really couldn't afford it) but being the whiners they are, they didn't want to see any of them, so we let them bring their own movie over, for my and my 11-year old bro to watch with them. They chose Scary Movie and I have no idea why their mom let me! It was really inappropriate for my brother, who's going in to sixth grade. I mean, people were giving each other bjs and hjs, a girl got stuck to the ceiling by cum, etc. It was really digusting. The worst part is that they thought it was hilarious, Nick (older one, around my age) in particular kept going, "Noelle, come here" (my mom's name) at the grossest parts. Their mom is normally a pretty good mom but I just don't understand how on earth she could think it was appropriate for my brother. Obviously her boys were too immature for it too. My mom is going to call their Mom, Denise, whom we've been friends with for many years. Denise can get offended and mad very easily, so what should my mom say? And what should she say next time the boys want to bring over a movie?
Sorry about the long question. I rate!
Your mom should probably just say, "I think the movie the kids watched last time was a little inappropriate for my youngest son (I didn't catch your little brother's name). Did you know they brought Scary Movie over? It has a lot of sexual content," and see what Denise says. Maybe she didn't even know how gross it was. And if she did, and she gets offended, your mom should just tell her that she doesn't want her kids to be watching stuff like that at this young because it could be a little misleading about sex. Sex should be a beautiful, loving act, between two mature adults who love each other, not between teenagers for raunchy fun. Maybe then Denise will agree, if your mom presents her case politely and gently.
Good luck!
(Rating: 5) thanks!