Allow me to introduce myself, I am the Knight Owl. Or, as my friends know me, Sean. I can't guarantee that I can solve your problems. But the majority of the people I know seem to come to me for advice. I listen to people very well, and I assess. Sometimes I can offer suggestions, other times there are no suggestions. But I promise to try my best. Remember, everyone has problems, I know I do. All you need to do is ask. I invite you, to talk to me on AIM or Yahoo, if you want to ask me privately for some advice.
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Okay,me and my bf had been going out for like a month now..I love him somuch and i think he feels the same..well he definetely said he did.And like today i was just like "do you think maybe we should just be friends since school is starting in like 2 weeks?" cuz he lives like 25-30 min. away so i only see him like twice a week :( and he was like "i don't know :( what do you think?" and i was just like "idk either cuz i think ur gonna like other girls at ur school" and like i just wanted to see if he would wanna do that and I dont know...we did break up and now i feel horrible..everyone that talks to him about it says that he is really heartbroken and he loves me a lot...but i dont know!We live far away and I think just maybe hes hiding his feelings :/ but I just dont know..help plz.. I MISS HIM! (link)
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Your answer is simple, and yet complicated. You too love each other, we've gathered that much. So be with him. Who cares about distance, the thought that you belong to him and he belongs to you should be enough, you have the phone, you have the internet. Its not like he's being launched into space with no means of contact. Love conquers all. PLEASE! Don't make the same mistake I did. I screwed up my one true chance at happiness with my ex, and I've never forgiven myself. She was still in high school, and I was getting ready to start college. We lived right down the street, and yet we had no time for each other. But we were happy when we were able to get together. But I was an idiot, I told her that we weren't spending enough time together, and that it was going to be even harder when she graduated. I miss her more than anything. And I screwed it up, I've never forgiven myself for that. So please don't make that mistake, love will find a way. As John Lennon put it, "All you need is love.... love is all you need." Smart man, so take a lesson from the book of Beatles Rock and Roll, and a lesson from the History Book of The Knight Owl. Be patient. I hope my advice helped. Good luck.
-The Knight Owl
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