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I have liked this guy for over 3 years , since i was only 11 . Is this normal ...?
okay , i used to be real tongue tied around him , coming from an all girls elementary school and all , and i haven't started speaking to him since this year . We talk mostly on MSN , because i am still shy in front of him . He even commented on how different i acted on MSN , compared to how i act with him . the thing is , how i act on MSN , is how i would act in front of him , if only i wasn't so shy . I have barely exchanged more than about 30 sentences with him !! What can i do ?

First of all, it is normal to like a guy for more than 3 years. It shows you are mature enough to stick to one guy for long enough to have a relationship. Tell him that you like hanging out with him, but sometimes you just don't know what to say, but on MSN it's easier to talk to him. Move up step by step. Call him on the phone. Talking on the phone is harder than talking on MSN, but easier than talking in person.

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