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well i havn't used this site in FOREVER!!! but i use to give people advice every single day i love it and i hate it when i can't help the people.

well i'm 14 years old i'm short lol 5ft 1in. i have brown hair and brownish goldish eyes. i have some freckles but they fade out in the winter.

on the weekends i like to hang out with as many people as possible. i usually go to the movies bowling the mall or anywhere else that is fun. but of course if i'm there its gunna be fun!!!


well i don't no what i am i dont' like to label myself but i would have to say i'm out going crazy hyper loud. i dress preppy and skaterish depends on my mood.

my fave color is pink it deff. describes who i am.

well thats all i can think of right now so i'll talk to yawl lata

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Okay i like this girl in my school....I dont think she likes me.But she dont know I like her like that too....We met this year but we are really close.....What should i do!

get your friends to start asking her questions about you and see what she says.

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how do you tell a guy you arent interested without breaking his heart?

tell him you don't want a b/f right now

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Ok i talked to this guy on the internet and he goes to my church and i have never seen him b4...well last night i asked him if he wanted to go skating and i would meet him there...well he said when he saw me he was about to die...he said i was an ugly ass bitch..and he said that it was a waste going there...i told him that if u dont like me for who i am then we shouldnt talk or be friends...well i gave his sn to my friends are now he is hitting on them...he said he was gunna call me tonight but i am not talking to him...he can talk to my friends..i really like him because he is cute...but what should i do? stop talking to him? because all he wants is ppl to do it with...and i am not that kind of girl...if he dont like me for who i am and who god made me then we dont need to be friends...so what should i tell him??
Thanks!!

just tell him you don't want to be his friend anymore because all you think about is sex and your not the kind of girl.

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they say theres somebody out there for every one but how do you know when you find that person and what if you never find that person?

well the part is you don't know well that may not sound like fun but it is because trust me you know when you find that right person.

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Hey, I am Leigh-Anne, I am 35 years old, a week ago me and my husband were working late, my 12 year old son was home alone, when I came home I went to his room and caught him having sex with a 17 year old girl who is a friend of the family. I was schocked. She was giving him oral sex and they immedietly stopped, please answer thanks ~Leigh-Anne

oh my goodness. well hes a boy so let him do what ever he wants. just because you ground him or whatever hes still going to do it. your not going to stop him if he likes it.

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I volunteer a lot for a non-profit organization, and everyone in the group puts in TONS of hours. There's this one lady though who drives us all nuts, because she always has these ideas about stuff "we" should be doing, but she never wants to put a real proposal together for it or take on leadership of the project herself. We would all totally support her if she took on a project, but none of us have the time or initiative to make it happen just because she thinks it's a good idea. Plus, I think that if *she* thinks it's important for us to have a fundraising dinner, *SHE* should plan it!

So I have two questions: first, what's her problem?! second, how do we get the point across that if she wants something done, she's gonna have to do it herself?

haha thats funny the way u asked whats her problem. well i don't know what the ladys problem is but shes got one alright. you should just tell her that you are always getting these ideas but there your ideas so u have to be a leader and fulfill them. hope i helped

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ok I really like this guy ever since... whenever and everyone says that he wants a girlfriend really badly cause he's so desperate. thats why the girls he asks out break up with him cause hes not really worth it. well I really like him i really do and he started flirting with me the other day in one part he said "i'm afraid to ask you out cause you might say no" then i started giggling and he said "what do you have a thing for me" and we just started flirting. then i asked one of his close friends about it and she said that he usually does that when he wants someone to ask him out. and the flirting was like for only one day. after that my best friend asked him if he liked me and he said "no i dont like anyone right now." soo he is desperate but i really wanna go out with him cuz i like him. should i tell him? what about the flirting? please help! thank you soo much!!
-shy girl

flirting is what every guy does. i think you should take a chance and tell him. if he says no then i'm sorry. after like a week after he says no be like i don't like him anymore or something like that. but maybe he will say yes you never know if you don't take a chance.

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My girlfriend & I dated for 3 years and she was the love of my life. Well, I decided to take a job that I couldn't refuse in Michigan. I wanted her to move up there w/ me, but she said she couldn't leave her home in TX. The long-distance thing was too tough, so we mutually broke up on good terms. She then started dating someone new who she was "miserable" with. After over a year of staying in touch w/ her, I moved back home. A short time later, she ended up breaking up w/ the other guy b/c she wasn't happy. Well, we started slowly seeing each other again and things were great, but she wanted to "take things slow and not jump back into a relationship" since she just got out of a bad one. So, not trying to force her into a relationship, we just hung out and did everything that a normal 'boyfriend/girlfriend couple' would do. Well, after a few months of dating each other (and me thinking that we were gonna get back together), she met and started dating a new guy! I WAS CRUSHED!!! Here was a girl who was my best friend, someone I thought I was going to marry, & the love of my life........and now she wants to date this other guy out of the clear blue?!?!?! I was devistated. She's still together with this guy.
Now, it's months later. We still talk (fairly often) via email and sometimes on the phone (I NEVER call her...she only calls me), but I'm still not over her. I truly loved her w/ all of my heart. Part of me hates her for ripping my heart out and the other part of me still loves her very deeply and wants her back. Someone told me "if it's meant to be, then she'll come back to me one day". I just don't know what to do and I need help..... Any advice?

yeah i got advice but its not happy advice. just try and get over her. try new people. if it doesn't work out then i'm sorry. she could figure it out that you and her were ment to be together and you and her will be together again, but i just don't know it happens to a lot of people. just try and move on. yeah its going to be hard but just try. thats all you can do.

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My best friend is moveing to new york and she said she would call me when she gets there it has been 2 weeks and i have heard no phone call ... i dont know if she is there or not or she just forgot. i dont want our friendship to end. please help me.

maybe she forgot ur fone number or well one time my bestest friend in the whole world moved and she said we will always be friends well she lied she never called me or anything. so i found out what her number was and called her and she said her mom said i was a bad influence when it was really my friend saying that. yeah i know you still want to be friends with her, but there is really no point i'm really sorry just telling the trutch

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Heres the story I weigh 140 and I am 15 years old, that is not normal for a 15 year old! I am Fat and people may say i'm not but I am and I've been working out and everything and all that does is makes me hurt all day long the next day, i'm not asking this for people to say oh your not fat i'm asking it because I am very unhappy with how much I weigh and i'm unhappy with the fat on my stomach and legs!I was wondering if there is anything I can do to make all the fat on my stomach and my legs go away and fast I'm so sick of looking and feeling fat i'm sick and tired of it so if anyone can help me out with this please help me! I'll rate very high for anyone who gives me an honest answer, like are their any diet pills I can take that you can buy at wal-mart with out my parents knowing? please who ever can help me with this please do! Thanks in advance!-Signed wants to be thinner

ok well don't use diet pills thats just stupid. just eat less of what you are eating now. don't work out to much like just do crunches or sit ups and maybe run for like 10 minutes. thats what i am doing an i have lost 10 pounds in 2 weeks.

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i just want to know if anyone has any answers to this. thank you
i was born in 1957 but on my full birth certificate i was registered in 1972. on the authority of the registra general what does this mean ?

it means you can drink and smoke and drive and everything else you can do after your 21

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Hey does anyone know a real easy to get rid of pimples fast without popping them please help.

yeah proactve or differin dermatalagist recaminded

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I never get to talk to my bf since we been going out. It seems kinda weird cause all my friends talk constantly on the phone with thier bfs and i dont.

yeah that is weird. you should talk to him on the phone. theres nothing wrong with it. yeah you may be shy the first time, but after that it should be easy.

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Okay - here's the deal. I have a lot of friends, but this problem includes two imparticular ones: Josh and Dana (guy and girl). They are probably the closest of my friends. I can tell them both ALMOST anything. I'd say I'm probably closer to Josh - and that's it. I have a crush on him. Here's the hard part: I think Dana likes him too. I told her awhile ago that I had feelings for him and ever since then she's been sort of hanging around with him too. i.e: I'll be standing next to him and she'll come over and just go right between us; she'll sit down next to him when I was right there next to him. It's getting me upset. I can understand if she likes him too, and I don't mind. I mean you can't control who you like and don't like. But I just wish she would tell me instead of flirting with him right in front of my face - and she knows that I like him. And the bad part is that I think he likes her too. They talk in front of me and leave me out sometimes. A few days ago I heard Dana talking to him and she said something about the mall and this weekend. It's really hurting me. I like Josh so much - he's my BEST friend and I love Dana because she's my friend too. I can't help but feel jealous, though. Help!! If you need more information, LET ME KNOW PLEASE AND I WILL POST ANOTHER QUESTION FORM!

-confused and hurt :(

aww it's going to be okay don't be hurt. Dana is doing this because she thinks josh will like you. and yes i do think Dana likes josh if she is doing this. i guess when you told her you liked him she liked him too and she new she had to start doing something about it and show him that she likes him but not actually tell him. this is what you do. talk to dana ask her if she likes josh if she says no tell her it looks like it because she is always flirting with it. she shouldn't get upset. if she does just be like o ok well i'm sorry i asked u i just thought u liked him and it was hurting me because i really like him. you can also ask josh if he likes dana. if you want. hope i helped!

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i've been living with my best friend for about a month (on and off), my parents are getting a divorce and they've been fighting a lot so we desided that i should stay with my best friend. (we've been friends for 4 years), lately me and her have been fighting a lot, but over nothing. i dont' what to do cause i don't wanna go home but i dont' know if i should stay at her house... i'm a 15 year old female... please help...
- friend in need.

your just getting tired of her and you miss your own space just ask her if u can have some space for awhile but still stay at her house and stuff just invite other people over or whatever and on the weekend u should go over to other friends houses

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I have this friend and when she is mad she talks behind my back. But she isn't mad seh is like really nice caring and so forth. Well so then recently on sunday seh told another one of her friends that she liked this guy James. Well seh told me she didn't and seh swore to god. And then she told that friend that seh was her best friend but seh told me seh was my best friend. I am soo confused and i am beinning to think that she doesn't trust me. Help!!

well this is called life it's confusing this so called friend of yours doesn't really like you sorry but you asked for help. you get revenge and get all of her secrets out of her and tell everyone. don't tell her anything not one thing if you have too make sumthing up. and sweeti you can have more than one best friend.

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I'm really upset. I just recently tried out for Grease. And I don't think I got in. And I think the only reason why is because the director couldn't read my e-mail address. I think I did good because the man I sang to for my audition said I did excellent. I am wondering should I e-mail the director? She didn't send out all the cast things yet but it's just not fair that she is sending out roles on different days. What should I do?

yeah e-mail and be like sorry i emailed you but i was scared you couldn't read my email so i disided to email you just to make sure if i made it that i wouldn't make it just because u couldn't read my email address

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I broke up with my boyfriend because he was slacking off on his school work and getting in trouble. But other than those things, I still really like him. I can't get over him! Today we hung out and had a lot of fun. I think want him back but I'm scared to ask. And what about the reason I broke up with him in the 1st place? Has anyone got any ideas on what I should do?

yeah well just because hes slacking off it doesn't mean you shouldn't like him. if you have fun with him and you can't get over him u oviously like him so take a chance and ask him out i'm sure he'll say yeah.

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i am thinking about asking my boyfriend to this carnival thats going to be at my school next week... it would be a double date because his best friend would come with his girlfriend who i am friends with... but the thing is... my friend really wants to go with me... so i said im gonna go... but i don't really no.. i don't want her to come with us to the carnival because she is always there when my boyfriend and i are together... we don't really hang out outside of school so this would be like our first date and i really want to go with him... how can i tell my friend that i can't go with her without us getting into a huge fight like we probably will

ohh umm well i think you should just tell your friend that you have never gone on a real date with your boy friend and this will be the first one and i want to go to the carnival with him. if she was a true friend she should understand. hoped i helped

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*SORRY THIS IS REALLLY LONG, BUT I NEED YOUR HELP*

okay so , ever since the beginning of school there was this guy that I liked, Rob. Hes really cute and everything, hes a freshman and im a sophomore. Well. I never did anything about it because well, Rob seemed as if he were out of my league. and he never paid attention to me. Well I know his mom because his mom works at the school and i have 2 classes with her. So what happens is, last week. I go to lunch and my friend has bible study with robs mom....my friend told me that Robs mom said that Rob has been trying to talk to me for the longest time and everytime he gets a chance,I walk away by accident...So I didnt believe it at first, but then my friend goes, and she works at a resturaunt, and Rob went to the resturaunt alone...So since he went alone, my friend had a waitress friend of hers go talk to him so she goes up to him and askes "Do you know a girl named Kelly" and he goes "Yeah" and she goes" Do you think shes hot" and he goes " I think shes pretty, shes not ugly" and she asked a bunch of questions...so it ended up that he was supposed to talk to me the next day at lunch, I knew he wasnt going to , so my friend was like * FINE im gonna go talk to him* and im like * FINE i dare you* i didnt think she would...but she did...and i dont know WHAT she said, but i deicided to try to be unnoticable, but she pointed right at me when i was sitting on the cafeteria floor... well i got home, and i asked my this friend of mine Justin, who also knows Rob...for Robs sn...he gives it to me, and i told him to keep it all on the downlow that i asked for it...then he goes "lol do you know who he likes" and I was like " no who" and he goes " I donno 0:)* and he puts the angel face, and everytime i asked him ... he put the angel face. WELL then I go onto my myspace, and i see that Rob commented on my page and he says "Heyy this is Rob. Whats up? Oh, and your friend, really did ask me those questions just so you know...oh can i have your sn if you have one, comment back on my page and give it to me byee* and so i was like * woooowwww he asked for my screen name* but yeah, then i talked to him twice already online...and hes extremley nice, and well the second time i talked to him , we were talking about Napoleon Dynamite, and randomley he goes * so are you going to the dance* and the dance is on the 26th...and i was like * neh , who knows, I dont really wanna go if i dont have anyone to go with you know? If not, then im just plannin on going to the movies that night or something who knows :-)* and i was like what about you? and he goes * idk i might not sure yet* and so i was like * ooo cool* and then i told him that i saw him at the other dance with his ex, and he tells me how much he hates his ex now and he asked me if i had any x's and i go * nope* and he goes * oh you dont? Im sorry* and im like * nah its fine, ive had my chances blah blah blah * and then he goes * so im guessing youve never done anything with a guy...or have you* and i go * nah i havnt lol, id rather have a guy who likes me for who i am, rather than for what i do* and he says * good choice* and then he had to leave, but, yeah, me and him dont talk at school i guess its cuz were shy , but i mean... why would his mom say * hes been trying to talk to her for a while* you know? I dont know, do you think hes interested in me...do you thimk he likes me? or what....OH and I asked Justin if Rob liked a freshman and he said * yeah he likes a freshman girl* so me being a sophomore..its not me...and then Rob goes and tells me that Justin is dumb and that I shouldnt talk to him and i asked if he lies and he said * ummmmm yeahh* and i go *even when it comes to keeping friends secrets?* and he goes * yup* and so I dont know...what do you think?! HELP!!!

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awww thats so cool. well to me it is. i think this rob guy really likes you. i mean come on he told his mom or some how his mom found out. he asked for ur s/n and all this stuff. ur friend justin may be dumb and i really do think rob likes you. you should ask him to the dance or get saome way he asks you. thats like just so sweet. you should get the nerve to talk to him at lunch or something or just wave. take it slow. hope i helped.

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