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15-F
I HATE my height. HATE it.
I'm 5'5"
And a buncha people are shorter then me. I feel like I tower over them.
Is there any natural way to make myself shorter?
I doubt it, but I'm really tired of my height. (link)
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hun, when i was 15 i was 5'10" !! youre lucky how SHORT you are. there is no way to make yourself shorter, and dont slouch either because that will just cause you to have bad posture. youre fine the way you are.
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19/female. usually i'm a confident girl, that is only when i KNOW i look good. if i'm having a bad hair day, or my make-up doesnt turn out, if i don't have anything cute to wear it has an effect on my self-esteem.
& the real problem is with this guy i like. well i have mixed feelings, i'm really attracted to him. all the girls love him! me and him are kinda close friends and so he's seen me with no make-up on and my hair NOT done, and i felt so ugly! everytime i feel good, i never see him and it seems like everytime i feel horrible, i see him! and it's not helping the situation.
why can't i see him when i look hot!? hahaaa.
it's ruining my game!(: (link)
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i used to really like this guy, but EVERYTIME he saw me i was super drunk. not the most attractive thing huh ? but one time i was like 'DAMMIT! im gonna see him at my best!' and i called him up to hang out. we ended up havin a reallly good time.
basically, ask him to chill ! that way you can have control when you are, and since youll know ahead of time you can make yourself all dolled up.
good luck
x sweeethoney
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I am a 19 year old guy who has fallen for a 16 year old girl. It is a bit strange of a situation but I really do love her. She is amazing and beautiful. I would do anything on earth to help her or to make her happy. We are not officially BF/GF, I think we are both holding ourselves back, for fear of what it would mean. I know she loves me, I don't know to what extent. I can't seem to find a good way to ask/find out either. I have never really had a girlfriend before her, although I was always very observant of others and feel I know most of what I need to about relationships. She was outgoing and I was shy so we kinda met in the middle. We fit each other very well, have a lot of the same beliefs, ect. But the fact that she is still 16 really bothers me. It's not like I want to have sex or anything, I do not agree with premarital sex, I just worry about legal things. I hate to say it but, I almost feel guilty for dating her. Like I don't deserve such a wonderful person. What is everyone's take on this? (link)
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im 16 and my boyfriends 19 turning 20 in october. i dont think there is anythin wrong with it at all, sexual or not. love is love, no matter what gender, age or color. if you guys are worried about her parents, talk to them! get them to like you. id leave my boyfriend alone with my parents to talk to them and they ended up lovin him!
GO FOR IT! because you might not find someone like this again...
good luck :)
x sweeethoney
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there is this boy i really really like at my school and he knows i like him but every time i speek to him on msn he never reply's how can i get him to like me? lots of people have said to just tell him how you feel about him but i am scared he will just laugh at me. wot should i do ? (link)
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to be honest hun, you should stop IMin him on msn. if he doesnt answer, thats a sign. just try to talk to him AT school because cyber stalkin is a little creepy. dont tell him how you feel if you dont talk to him often because that will creep him out as well. just take it slow and be his friend face to face.
x sweeethoney
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hello i'm 17 year old woman and i'm pregnant and don't know if i should get an abortion or not both me and my boyfriend havent told our parents and i'm scared of there reaction because my parents are very religous Catholics and would kill me if they found out if i did anything like this i'm leaning more towards getting an aborting because i can't take care of a baby and i have a career to look forward to this is my senior year in high school and me and my boyfriend have a very good chance of getting noticed for sports and a baby would heavily destroy that so what should i do? (link)
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you should be able to take responsibility for your actions. i just told my parents 3 days ago i was pregnant, and i thought theyd be furious and they were actually supportive, and im 16 ! now i can take care of my baby and go to the doctor.
personally, im strongly against abortion because its murder. if anythin, id suggest givin birth to it and givin it up for adoption so you can bring someone else into the world and make someone else happy with a baby ! your parents love you, they wouldnt hate you for somethin like that even though it isnt ideal for them. man up, do what you gotta do.
if you do indeed decide to get an abortion, make it as quick as possible.
x sweeethoney
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im 5'2 and 100 lbs, and i started my period last month, and i thought you were supposed to start developing them before your period. not only that, but im 15. ive never met a girl who still doesnt have them my age and im starting to worry if i will ever get them. all the other signs of puberty are there, but i dont have any boobs at all- and by that i dont mean they're small- i mean theres actually nothing there, i might as well be a ten year old boy. i just want to know if anyone is in the same position as me or was but eventually got them, but any answers at all will really help. (link)
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it all just depends on your body type. you're a petite girl with not a lot of body fat on you which probably is the cause of you not havin anythin on the chest.
i know a girl just like you who has no boobs what so ever just because shes so little.
im sure as you get older youll start to develop.:)
x sweeethoney
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Well as you read i have a problem with my friends. My friends dont like aeropostale and i well pretty much luv it. My friend John says hollister all the way. Shawndeep says ew aeropostale. On the first day of school i wanna wear an aeropostale shirt but am afraid. I dont wanna be like a follower but if i wear it i dont want to not be stylish if they don't like it. I wouldnt want to change my friends and jerpodize my friendships rite now. So should i wear my shirt or just put on a shirt with no aeropostale on it? Oh and p.s. my bff Karina likes aeropostale and i am a 13/f (link)
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i agree with what the first answer says. if you base what you wear off of everyone else's opinion, then how are YOU gonna be happy ? wear, loook, and do what and how you like it. live to impress yourself and not anyone else.
x sweeethoney
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19/female!
so i always hear guys talking about how much they love girls with CURVES.
curves; what exactly is it? does it come from working out, is it just having more "meat on the bones?" i've always been tiny, and i can't seem to gain weigh nor get any curves like i wish i had.
is there any way to get themmm? and loook healthier!? (link)
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girls with curves are sexy, to me and a lot of other people. some people dont like it though.
anyways, it can mean the wider hips with the skinny torso, big ass, big boobs, thick thighs.
excersize your butt by doin squats and this other excersize. stand with legs shoulder-length apart, hold on to somethin, and kick one leg back forming a 'bubble' with your butt cheek.
you can increase your calorie intake while workin out to gain weight and turnin it into muscle. look up things on google that will be good for your weight and height.
good luck ;)
x sweeethoney
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15/f
iwant to know more faster chirsitan bands and music so i can put it on my myspace. i love hawk nelson and family force 5. i also love tobymac. that are good songs that other bands sing like those? (link)
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nevertheless, run kid run, the classic crime, edison glass, grits, eleventyseven, the rocket summer
i dont know if youre into more hardcore music, but these are some good christian hardcore bands:
project 86, showbread, he is legend, with blood comes cleansing, demonhunter,
hope i helped !
x sweeethoney
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So my breasts are a 34 C cup and i was wondering how big my nipples should be. They look kinda big to me, and i dont know if its normal or not. (link)
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its verrrry normal to have bigger nipples if you have bigger boobs. im a 36 D so i feel your pain. the reason they look big to you is because all the big boobs in the world that you see other places are fake which doesnt make your nips stretch out.
but some people are blessed to have little ones with huge boobs, but that rarely happens.
its natural and normal. :) dont worry.
x sweeethoney
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Okay, can anyone tell me an AMAZING product they've tried that actually works for UNBELIEVABLY frizzy/curly hair. My hair is AWFUL and i can't do anything with it. Suggest creams (any kind), shampoo/conditioner, products you use before straightening, ANYTHING. Also if you have any good ideas for a really good straightener or any hair styling tips.
ANY help is appreciated. Thanks guys! (link)
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straightenin your hair will just make it MORE frizzy. i suggest layin off the straightener for a while to let your hair chill out for a while. but if you insist, my favorite straighteners are CHI's. they work brilliantly and even though theyre kind of pricey they're worth it. just make sure it has a warranty on it.
http://www.johnfrieda.com/products/products_main.asp?section=products&subSection=frizzEase&lineID=4
i love this stuff ! it has stuff that protects your hair from heat damage (blow drier, flat iron, or just the sun), plus shampoos and conditioners, a smoothin serum, and curl spray. it really helps to bring out the natural smooth beauty of your hair. you can get them at walmart !
also, since your hair is damaged from heat and its frizzy, get a mask for your hair. they come in little twist off containers, and you can just look at publix or wherever. look for one for frizz and you usually use it once or twice a week.
good luck, us curly frizzy girls gotta stick together :)
x sweeethoney
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my boyfriend and i's one year annivarsary is ina week and im not sure what to get him. i have $70 left to spend. i was thinking about getting him a guitar but i cant find a cheap yet good one. shud i get him that or somethin else? he does concerts and is amazing at many different instruments so i dont wana get him a beginners one. i also wanted to customize it, like write on it or draw since he loves my art but what shud i write? we really love eachother and he goes threw soo much for me just an example, i have had cancer and ben hospitalized so many times for bein psycho and it hurts him so bad as hes ben with me threw it all.. we're both 15 nearly 16 (link)
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guitars are usually pretttty expensive. i have a crappy one and it was $250. bongos are realll fun, and a great gift because you can paint them on the sides and stuff. and if you get the bongo set with two of them together you both can play them :) they have some cheap ukulele's out there as well which are cute, and if you get a plain one you can draw on it as well.
you should tell him how thankful and lucky you are to have had him be there through everythin with you and not givin up on you (in your own words of course). tell him how hes kept you goin through the best and worst. and of course that you love him (if yall have gotten to that point)
good luck hun !
anymore questions or ideas just ask :)
x sweeethoney
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13/f
i am getting my hair cut and my hair is so thick and very curly. i have gotten it layered but my hair is still very poofy.. do you have any suggestions or better looks for my hair??
kjam21 (link)
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gel and moose work great for poofy hair. it wont make it less curly but itll make the frizz go away. with layers, the curls will just add up on eachother and make it stick out more. let your hair grow out. dont get it chemically straightened because that can realllly damage it.
good luck :)
x sweeethoney
just get some inches off if you want to cut it, you can get thinned out layers ! if you want bangs those are doable, and it looks cute when you just straighten your bangs. theres no hair cut that gets rid of poofy hair, just makes it look a little better.
look at this website:
http://www.fullerheadofhair.com/a/haircuts-for-naturally-curly-hair-2.shtml
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13/f
i was wondering if the knowing..(a movie with nicolous cage) was scary.. like not disaster scary but horror and death scary. i was watching the first like 5 minutes of it and it seemed scary.. in the begining espesially i would like to know. thanks!
kjam21 (link)
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its not like horror movie scary. i know the first part is kind of creepy but the rest of it is basically just adventure/mystery kind of thing. the only bad stuff youll see are stuff like graphic images, violence, and scary situations. but its nothin like the first part made it seem.
its a really good movie, i suggest you watch it :)
x sweeethoney
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I've been wanting choppy layers for quite some time now. Everytime I go to a salon, I never get what I want, even though I explain what I want and show pictures. x.x So I would like to try cutting my own choppy layers. Yes, I have some experience with cutting my hair. xD I've cut my own bangs and hair before... Does anyone have any tips or strategies on how to make my own choppy layers? Preferably simple tips/strategies? Like maybe I should use a razor or something? Please don't tell me to go to a salon to get it 'professionally' cut... and also, please don't answer if you truly don't know what you're talking about. I'm asian, so yeah, I have that thin asian hair. xD Also, when you answer, PLEASE be specific. I would like to know how I can cut my own choppy layers correctly. I don't wanna screw up my hair. xD My hair is a little below my shoulders, and it's the same length all around. (Which I hate D:) Here are some pics I found that I like:
http://i91.photobucket.com/albums/k300/cherryroze321/choice19.jpg
http://i91.photobucket.com/albums/k300/cherryroze321/thDSC07122.jpg
http://img231.imageshack.us/img231/1936/1469668813lji0.jpg
http://img175.imageshack.us/img175/7148/greatwebhairsd2.jpg
http://i7.tinypic.com/47i3jo1.gif
I don't want anything too dramatic though. I also don't want to tease my hair, or mess with hair spray, I just simply want choppy layers. Also, does anyone know a way that I can thin out the ends of my hair? It just looks like a bulky box shape to me, if you get what I mean. Probably because my hair is so short... If anyone knows how to cut my bangs to match the rest of my hair, that would help too. Cutting choppy bangs seems complicated to me. o.o Thanks in advance!! (link)
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i cut my own hair like this a few ages ago, and its takin foreverrrrrrrr to grow back. so make sure you really want this hair cut because youre gonna have the layers for a while.
if you want the bangs to go short to long across your forehead like them. first cut INTO them, not across your face. make little snips with the scissors facin upward. then, take a razor (like what you shave your legs with) and start goin over THE ENDS of the bangs.
for the layers, cut into your hair again, shorter up top and then the next layer make it a lil longer, then a lil longer...etc. make sure you get the back of your hair too, and you might want a friend to be there just so they can tell you if the front layer is even with the back layer. then go over it with the razor again. if you razor and cut layers in your hair then ends will definitely be thinned out. you should get the layers you want if you do it correctly.
for a good, very easy look when you cut it, just get some hair wax, put a tiny in your fingers and put it in your hair. it will make the layers stick up a little or jus make them look messy which is kind of what the looks about.
if you have any more questions feel free to ask !
good luck
x sweeethoney
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what are popular songs nowadays that you can dance to
(slow dancing or fast, upbeat works)
any ideas would be great (:
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i got some good old and new songs for ya
days go by - dirty vegas
this is how we do it over here - busta rhymes
lose urself - family force 5
photoshoot - gucci mane
i like to f*ck - tila tequila
turning me on - keri hilson
what them girls like - ludacris ft. chris brown
lock u down - mya ft. lil wayne
futuristic love - yung LA
wetter - twista
fan or foe - tech n9ne
come on girl - taoi cruz
play play - suave smooth
my hood, my block - suave smooth
set it off - skindred
swing - savage (of course)
bamboo banga - M.I.A.
do the thick girl - lady sojourner
lovegame - lady gaga
put your hands up for detriot - fedde le grand
shake that ass - eminem
move for me - kaskade
booty music - deepside
theres a mix of slow and fast rap and techno
a lot have profanity in them so sorry if thats a problem. but theyre good for dancin and excersize, i personally think.
hope i helped !
x sweeethoney
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So lately my friends are telling me I'm flirting, but I'm thinking their meaning of flirting is different than mine. Plus I have a boyfriend, so I have no intention of actually flirting or taking anything anywhere. Anyways, do you think having a conversation with someone and laughing and what not is flirting. Maybe I'm just blindsided and don't realize I'm doing it or something but yeah. Also, if I AM flirting and have a boyfriend, is there anything wrong with innocent flirting, either knowing you are or not? (link)
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ive had the same problem as you. i have way more guy friends then girl friends, and my boyfriend and some friends think its weird. jus like, touchin of the arms and legs and stuff, bein real close. THAT kind of thing is flirtin. also talkin about sexual things and stuff is trouble.
but if you are just talkin and laughin then you arent flirtin.
i think if you know that you ARE 'innocently' flirtin, thats not good. i wouldnt want my boyfriend doin that.
x sweeethoney
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My friend is taking lots of drugs.
I asked her what she's taken and she listed a lot of things including Crack and LSD...
Shrooms, E, pot... Much, much more.
)': It hurts me a lot to know this...
What can I do?
I want to help her...
But when she's not on drugs, she gets really depressed. and Cuts her self...
She use to cut herself, then got on drugs... now doesn't cut herself...
What can I do or say? (link)
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when you trip a lot, like on shrooms or acid, then youll eventually lose yourself and itll stick with you. my boyfriend used to do a lot of lsd and now he gets flash backs from it and his mind isnt the same.
weed is the least of your worries. but when shes doin CRACK (which is highly highly physically and mentally addicting) and ECSTACY (which ends up makin you veryy stupid) thats what you need to be worried about.
find out the root of her problems. was she abused ? does she have many friends besides you ? do her parents neglect her ?
my best friend started doin a lot of drugs when someone died in front of her. she started with coke, moved on to crack, doin roxies and other pills, and ended up in rehab.
shes usin drugs as an escape, but an escape from what ? thats what you need to find out from her. encourage her to seek help from parents or a therapist. this could end really badly for her if you dont help her realize how life is a lot more beautiful without drugs.
good luck ! if you need more help with this, then please please contact me.
x sweeethoney
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How do you take LSD? (link)
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it comes in little tabs on a sheet. like you know those little different color tabs that you put on homework and stuff ? kind of like that. you put it on your tongue.
http://wrighttownshippolice.org/drug%20f9.jpg
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14/f
My boyfriend and I were screwing around and I hate to be graphic but we were basically dry humping with just me underwear on.(sort of the this string type) Other than that we were both pretty much as nature intended and I was wondering if there's a chance that something could have maybe slipped a little and gotten me pregnant. There was no penatration but we were touching skin every once and a while so I'm not sure. I'm really freaking out because I'm worried that something might have gotten in there while we were being rough and yes, so please if you could tell me if there's a chance I could have gotten pregnant. I've missed my period by A LOT and am very worried. I'd appreciate any advice or info on this very much. thank you. (link)
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thats 99% impossible unless it were a freak accident. your period is late because youre stressin about it. its common for girls when they think theyre pregnant your body will trick you because thats how your mind is workin.
take a pregnancy test if youre still really worry, but i highly doubt it will come out positive. dont worry about it :)
x sweeethoney
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