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different days, different self-esteems!
19/female. usually i'm a confident girl, that is only when i KNOW i look good. if i'm having a bad hair day, or my make-up doesnt turn out, if i don't have anything cute to wear it has an effect on my self-esteem.
& the real problem is with this guy i like. well i have mixed feelings, i'm really attracted to him. all the girls love him! me and him are kinda close friends and so he's seen me with no make-up on and my hair NOT done, and i felt so ugly! everytime i feel good, i never see him and it seems like everytime i feel horrible, i see him! and it's not helping the situation.
why can't i see him when i look hot!? hahaaa.
it's ruining my game!(:
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Ask him if he wants to go out and eat something sometime or go see a movie...anything. Most guys don't care if your wearing makeup at all. It's actually been scientifically proven that more guys today would prefer a girl to not wear makeup than wear makeup. I do know how you feel....I can't leave my house without wearing makeup and my boyfriend says he thinks i'm hot without any makeup on. You need to be you all the time. Don't let the entire makeup thing bring you down. Anyways, if you have anymore questions i'm here for you.
Your friend, lulabell aka lulu
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well to me it seems like he keeps spotting you on days when you arent ready or prepared. what you should do is just make yourself look good, do your hair, dress nice, ya know the usual, and do that whenever your about to see him and run into him. before you leave the house look at yourself in the mirror. i know this may sound kinda silly but look at yourself and think to yourself do i look good? do i look hot? do i look attractive? do i feel good with the look i chose for today? well you get the idea, try that and see how that works for you.
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i used to really like this guy, but EVERYTIME he saw me i was super drunk. not the most attractive thing huh ? but one time i was like 'DAMMIT! im gonna see him at my best!' and i called him up to hang out. we ended up havin a reallly good time.
basically, ask him to chill ! that way you can have control when you are, and since youll know ahead of time you can make yourself all dolled up.
good luck
x sweeethoney
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well its hard but it happen all the time guys like girl that are natural and if you look too hott and its a good friend it might make him uncomfortable he could ask why uour all dressed up
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Hey there,
I know what you mean, and its pretty much coincidence. But, if you want to prevent seeing him when you don't feel your best, always be wearing a little make up, and carry a clip/ponytail in your purse/vehicle so you can put your hair up quickly and easily.
You know what? I don't know why girls fuss about how they look all the time.. because the first thing and the main thing a guy notices about a girl, is her SMILE! (And then her eyes, or visa versa). If you smile big, you are basically guaranteed that he will hardly notice you even feel gross.
You shouldn't worry too much about how you look anyhow. Confidence always wins a guy over more than looks do. And if he is a sweet guy that likes you too, he won't even care what you are wearing/look like. It is what you offer and what is inside you that matters ;) <3
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