hi, okay so i like or liked this guy, (my bffs brother-----> lets call him a) and im kinda getting over it but at the same time i still like him.(even though he is always mean to me... yea i got no idea why i like him either ha) but there is this new girl(lets call her b) at school and not many people like her so me and my best friend(callin her m, we call eachother sisters... yea we r really close) hang out with her. well b likes the guy i like i like. i know a would never go out wid her because well, (not to be mean but b aint all that great to look at), but she can be nice. well she knows dat i liked him n stuff but when we hang out she is like attached to my bffl. it is starting to kind of get on my nerves. like she will follow m around in a way and i think its because the boy she/we like is m\'s brother. well, i can bet you that if i hadnt talked to b n got to know her n stuff, then my bff wouldnt have either. but anyways me n b talked for a while and i know that almost every girls fav. subject is boys so that is wat we talk about. well i read a note from b to my bff sayin, omg idt that c (c----> thats me) is over a and stuff like that bc that is all i talk about with her. but thats not it at all. i dont know what else to talk to b about. she sticks to m when she can and i know that my friend would never replace me wid her but i am the one who tried to be friends off the bat with her! i mean, if she could pick to ditch me or my bff it would b me :( i dont know what to do or how to get this irritated felling off my chest. that girl is after my crush and best friend. :\'(. it really just gets on my nerves, but i need help on how to just over look her sometimes.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? JabberJay answered Thursday September 3 2009, 3:43 pm: Dear help, i hate this feeling,
This has happened to me multiple times. All you have to do is talk to your best friend and say that you don't want to lose her because of "b" and maybe you should not tell who you like to "b"
beucase she'll probably go after other boys that you like. Say to "b" that you like this boy alot and you liked him first and say that you would appriciate that she could back off. Say this in a very polite manner so you don't get into a huge fight. Just try and deal with it and always stick with your best friend at anytime you can too. good luck! [ JabberJay's advice column | Ask JabberJay A Question ]
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