hi everyone....
hay im sally, im 19. i love to give advice so ask me anything and i will answer as best i can!
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i am currently studying family and children studies certificate III at wollongong tafe and i love it. i love kids and one day i hope to become an early childhood teacher and work with 0-3 year old children. i'v been writing poetry since i was 13 and i hope that one day i can publish them in a book! that is one of my dreams.
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so keep those questions comming...please comment back, i'd like to know if iv helped or not thanxxx i have a blog! feel free to check it out: http://justsallyy.tumblr.com/
xoxoxoxo :) xoxoxo xoxox
E-mail: xxsalxxx_@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Woonona in NSW AUST.
Occupation: student
Age: 19
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Member Since: January 31, 2007
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Last Update: June 7, 2010
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Hi sally, i knew you when you were younger... hi. I have a cat and i dont know what to name her. My bf reckons SALEM cos she's black and today i thought of the name SOOKIE... Cos the cats a total sook. What do you think? Imogen loves u! (link)
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hay katie...yer time has gone fast hasnt it!
i like both names you picked,sookie is cute but if you want to name her cos shes black maybe..
felix?? hes black or pepsti or lucky..
hmmm i think lilly is a good name for a cat its my fave name.. well i hope you like these names.. tell me wat u end up naming her! aww i love her 2!! n you!
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so this guy and I went to the movies... he broke up with his girlfriend of 1 1/2 years not too long ago and I broke up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago [Please keep in mind that I am not really looking to be in a serious relationship right away.]
He was basically flirting with me the entire night...and then once we got to my house we sat in the driveway for like a hour just talking. when i went to get out of the car I went to give him a kiss on the cheek and he moved away saying "Don't do that" when I asked why he said "because I dont want to hurt you"
So later he sent me a text message that said "I'm so sorry" and I was like "For what?" and he said "I just don't want to hurt you...I seem to do that"
I really like him. He gives me butterflies...
I feel like we are kinda in the same position so I know how he feels...We both dont want to get hurt again and we dont want to hurt someone else like we've been hurt before...
I'm not sure what to do....I'm afraid if I IM him he will be like "Oh god shes stalking me" but then if I dont i feel like he will be all "Oh man, now she wont even talk to me"
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hay
you can tell that he wants to be more then friends but he doesnt want to hurt you or get hurt again. thats is probably why he acted like that & coz hes not ready for a seriouse relationship just like you. well i think you should IM him so he doesnt get the impression your not talking to him but dont IM him heaps or too much then he ewont get impression that your stalking him.
you will work it out sonner or later
hope that helped xoxo
sally
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um me and my boyfriend both want to make out.. it's both of our first time and do you have any good places where we should do it? and if u say movie theater can u put a good movie??? (link)
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hay movie theatre is the best place distirbia is a great movie, that way everyone will be watching the movie not you. you could in the park under the trees, in a pool/spa or when you two are alone together...
my first was in a spa it was romantic lol
xoxo sal
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How do I get my good friends to be my BEST friends? Please help.% (link)
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hay
just be yourslf around them like random and funny... you know just be you and hang out with them more out of school so when your at school you can talk about what you did, call them up and organise to hang out and you just gotta gain there trust then theyll love you
xox hope that helped
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Can someone help me how to type properly? There was this program like Mavis Becan at school to help me type properly but I still didn't get it.
I don't type properly but I don't type in like a weird way or anything but my cousin was in high school and he's like if you don't type properly the teacher can give you a low mark in computer class.
I'm going to high school next year and I'm worried (link)
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hay
google free online typing and you should find a good site yu can join that will help you a lot thats what i di and i can type so much better then before and properly to.
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I cut myself (for personal reasons) but i do it below the wrist. And I try to hide it. But I can't. It's not cold here, so wearing long-sleeves doesn't make sense. When people see it, they get really freaked out. What are some reasons, that make sense, which I can tell people, so they won't think I'm cutting myself? (link)
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hay
you shoudnt cut yourself... i use to about 2 years ago and i got the scars to prove it. i wish i hadnt coz of the scars that make it oviouse that id cut myself before.. trust me its not worth it.
but anyway just if your not going to stop then you should get help or if NOT the best thing is to cover it up or say the cat scratched you or something but you cant use that excuse all the time and people will soon realise.
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ok so I love my b.f, I do, we have our issues, like majorly but I'm still, for some unknown reason, crazy about him. Now, there's this senior (I'm a freshmen btw) and I've fallen completely head over heels for him. It's not just another one of those "oh he's older and he's so cute" crushes. He is extremly intelligent, cute, helpful, and sweet. He is unlike ne guy I've ever met. We talk every single day and seriously, he can make me smile just by looking at me. I don't know what to do! Every one else can tell I like him but I deny it and I don't know if he knows but I hear it's kind of obvious and even my bf seems to know but he doesn't care at all, he thinks it's funny! I am soo confused!! I like the senior so much it hurts but Idk how to stop liking him. I'm soo confused, Please help! (link)
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hay
it sounds like this wont effect your relationship with your boyfriend so thats good. the only thing you can to is to let go of liking him(senior) and try to focus on calling him just a friend, cos really thats what he is. your boyfriend must trust you a lot for this not to bother him. maybe try this every time you think of the senior and how much you like him stop and think about your boyfriend instead, that might help you to stop liking you. its all up to you to let your feelings for the senior go and to stop liking him hope that helps! xoxox
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Okay, so i just started dating this guy. But he's in rehab, like, 10 states away...And i really want to go to junior prom! I would probably just ask a friend, but my boyfriend...well, he can get really jealous...Im not sure about what i should do. Should i ask someone to go with me, and just have fun, or should i not go, so that he wont get mad. There is always senior prom.
Much luv
~Mwah~ (link)
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hay
you should go coz afterwards you will regret not going! talk to your boyfriend about it explain that your sorry he cant make it so your going with a friends. im sure if he loves you he will understand. xoxo sally
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Hey guys,
(14/f)
it is really important for me to lose weight in one week. I would like to drop like 10 pounds or around there. If anyone has any methods to help he do this, can you PLEASE tell me!! I will not eat seriosuly if that is what i takes me. Any advice is GREATLY appreactied!!
Thanks in advance:) (link)
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hay
if you really wanna lose weight in a week well you just need to eat healthy foods, and excersice for more then an hour each day, but so you can really feel the burn. BUT dont push yourself to hard and do fun things or you will get bored. go crazy swim, run, play a sport, bike ride, walk with friends. just be sure to do something every day of the week that gets you up and moving to work up a swet but just have fun or youll get no where!!! good luck! xoxox sally
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eh my stomach has been hurting really bad i dont get my period for another 15 days or so. But this morning i got really sick and ended up waking up at 5am and throw up for like 10 mins. I layed around all day and couldnt get up i feel horrible. Whats wrong with me am i pregant? (link)
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hay
i think you might just have a bug or something, wait till it goes away and see if you get your period but i dowt it
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if a boy you like looks like he likes you would he call you ugly oh and how can u tell if a boy likes you (link)
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hay
if he does like you and he said that you were ugly maybe he is to embarrassed to addmitt he likes you or afraid what people might think including what you might think. he might not be sure if he likes you. a way of telling if a guy likes you is that he might treat you different to other girls by goin out of his way to do things for you or be really nice and sweet to you. hope that helped :)
xoxox sally
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i'm underconfident. its kinda weird coz ive just started going out with this guy who has a ton of confidence...he doesnt care what anyone thinks. i feel a bit shy or intimidated around him sometimes. when im around my friends and stuff im confident but i really really need help in becoming more confident, coz i dont wanna seem like a total innocent loser. :S
please help! (link)
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hay
just act like yourself around him, it might be awkward at first to just be yourself and relaxed but youll get there. just remember your his girlfriend coz he likes you for you so dont be afraid to just be yourself. thats what he loves about you so dont hold back. once your comfortable and relax around him it will just come naturally. hope that helps
xoxo sally
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Okay so I was talking to this guy from school last night and he just so happens to be the hottest guy in the grade. We've talked a few times in school but we aren't tight or anything.
So this is how the conversation went:
(after like an hour of talking)
Me: Im so bored. My life needs some excitement. ANYTHING.
Him: You need a boyfriend.
Me: Yeah but they're no decent guys around.
Him: Yes there is *lists a few including his name*
...and the conversation went on.
So I was just curious to see how this looks. Would you say he was interested in me? Or was it just a random topic he brought up?
Please be honest. (link)
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hay
i think he was definatly hinting something there and he sounds like he's interested in you. it also sounds like he has thought about it before coz i dont think he would just say it if he didnt mean it. so you should go for it! keep me posted.. i wanna no what happens
xoxox
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i think i have a funny and enjoyable personality.
but compared to my friends, i feel like im boring and stuff. but when im not with my friends i can tell that my personality changes..
why does this happen, and what can i do to be the same.. ?
help is appreciated (link)
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hay
maybe its that your not being yourself around your friends.when your with your friends just relax and dont be afraid to say what your thinking. be random and funny like you usually are and you'll be fun. hope that helps.
xoxox sally
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I feel that me and her are made for each other, but she doesn't feel the same. What can i do to change that? I really, really love her, mind you and i don't want to lose her. (link)
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hay
you cant make someone love you, but why not try and show her how much you love her and see what happens. hope that helps
xoxo sally
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o-k... i have a problem, well not really, but i really love to act! my parents wont take me to any auditions- they think its stupid (waste of time). i've always loved to act, and i've always wanted to be famous, but how do i get there? please- give me advice?!?!?!?
thanks! (link)
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hay
why not start by doing drama at school. Or join a drama class, if you do then after a while get your parents to talk to your drama teacher and she can tell them how good you really are. you never know by doin that your parents might realise your a good actor and taking you to auditions is worth it!
hope that helps you, let me no what happens and if it works xoxoxoxo
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i moved 2 years ago to the place i am now, but the problem is that i am finding it hard to make more friends. Almost everyone at my "new" school has been here since they were in preschool and all know each other. i have climbed my way up a social ladder while i watched other people take the elevator. i have really great friends, who are the ditzy kind of people who are outrageuously outgoing and know everybody. you'd think that that'd make me more in depth with everybody, but it hasn't. all the "unpopular" people as my friends refer to them as have been friends with the "popular" people but have then drifted away. i don't know how to reach out to people i want to be friends with. i am becoming more and more outgoing with everybody but i cant find an easy way to make friends with everybody. i mean, not everybody is my type, like the gothy people and the sorta gangsta people, but i try with the regular persons. any advice? (link)
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hay
i know its hard to make more friends but youll get there, just try to talk to everybody at school even the people your not really friends with. talk to them about what there interrests or be random and funny; yourself and everyone will love you. when your at school besides just hang around your normally friends wonder from group to group mingling and talking to everyone, that way your social with everyone. so i hope that helped you i'd love to hear what happens keep me posted
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i dont see whats wrong with sitting on a boys lap...i havent done it...of course not because everybody makes such a big deal out of it but isnt it sorta just like sitting next to eachother? (link)
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hay
its a little bit different to just sitting next to a guy, cos hes gotta want you to sit on his lap u cant just do it you no. but its no big deal.
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alright well theres this guy that i like and he likes me too and when we hug i wanted to whisper something really like sexy/sweet in his ear...any ideas?? thanks (link)
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hay
cant really tell you wat to say but do it as a spare of the moment thing and just go with it, it will make it more exciting and random. if you think about what to say to much you might stuff up or get embarrassed besides at the right time it will just come to you and he will love it.
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my sistesters ipod just like froze. how do i fix it? she has the ipod video. and it froze with the apple sign on. (link)
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hay
wait till it dies, then charge it up and then see if it works if not read the instructions or get it checked out
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