ok so I love my b.f, I do, we have our issues, like majorly but I'm still, for some unknown reason, crazy about him. Now, there's this senior (I'm a freshmen btw) and I've fallen completely head over heels for him. It's not just another one of those "oh he's older and he's so cute" crushes. He is extremly intelligent, cute, helpful, and sweet. He is unlike ne guy I've ever met. We talk every single day and seriously, he can make me smile just by looking at me. I don't know what to do! Every one else can tell I like him but I deny it and I don't know if he knows but I hear it's kind of obvious and even my bf seems to know but he doesn't care at all, he thinks it's funny! I am soo confused!! I like the senior so much it hurts but Idk how to stop liking him. I'm soo confused, Please help!
sally91 answered Sunday April 15 2007, 1:00 am: hay
it sounds like this wont effect your relationship with your boyfriend so thats good. the only thing you can to is to let go of liking him(senior) and try to focus on calling him just a friend, cos really thats what he is. your boyfriend must trust you a lot for this not to bother him. maybe try this every time you think of the senior and how much you like him stop and think about your boyfriend instead, that might help you to stop liking you. its all up to you to let your feelings for the senior go and to stop liking him hope that helps! xoxox
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XSugarPieX77 answered Sunday April 15 2007, 12:48 am: Well, you can't go out with this guy and your boyfriend, because that would be just wrong. If you want to have a relationship with this other guy, then maybe you should go for it. Its good to date different guys, to figure out what you want in the future. This current boyfriend seems like a nice guy, but if your having issues, why continue it? Make sure this other guy isn't going to blow you off, make sure he likes you before you make a final decission. Hope I helped! Happy Spring!
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