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I really need your help so please do not delete this.
Ok, I have been dancing for 8 years. I am known for dancing by friends, family, and neighbors. This year, I hate it! I dread it. I mean I whine to try and stay home. ONce I get there it isn't that bad, but I still hate it. Well, I costs my family ALOT of money so I can dance. They have to pay like 100 dollars a week practically. My mom thinks I should quit and she said I could, I mean I don't like dance so I am bascially wasting all our money. There are reasons why I wnat to stick with it, one of them being my friends there and I'm almost all the way down to my split, and you obviously know why I may quit. I am on the Field Hockey Team at school and love it. Please help me, should I quit? Would you quit? Thanks a million!
Sorry it was a bit long.
if u dont want to dance anymore.. then dont do it..but if u think ur good at it and it could go somewhere.. stick with it!! hope i helped
Hi everyone! I wanna be an actress so bad! I'm 13/f. I live in Grafton, WI. I love making my own movies and acting in them and I'd like to be a famous actress. How could I get a start?
try calling an acting/modeling agency. theyll tell u to get ur resume together and then theyll instantly start finding u jobs!! good luck!!
I have bitten my nails for as long as I can remember and now they are very short and small. I have tried absolutely every trick in the book to give up but I always give up and start biting again. I can't help it, I always set out with the willpower to give up but I'll get bored in a lesson and start to chew. My boyfriend and all my friends and family think it's disgusting and are always trying to get me to stop but I can't, what should I do?
get fake acrylics and let them grow out underneath.. then ur nails will look so good when u take the fake ones off that u wont want to bite them off!!!
i need to lose 15 lbs beacuse teh doctor said i was overwieght i would like a really good exercise or/and a really good diet thats not slim fast !!! thank u
try the south beach diet!! it doesnt limit u that much..they have good chicken fingers :)
hello i just moved to wesley chapel florida and i would b interested in a theater school or in drama clubs .... thanks
search google or join drama club!!
Wats some good websites that are free that have really good games that are really fun
addictinggames.com
HELP i really fancey my paper boy danny but ive liked him for ages but the problem is that im really shy and cant seem to speak to him i always stare at him and he looks back and smiles, once he even waved help me to get him please ill rate you.
roxie xxx
i wish i had a paper boy! go talk to him one day
for and entering and leaving popup, umm, where do u put the code?? :)
in ur bio.. thats where u put all the codes . any where in the bio.. it doesnt matter
i took a girl on a first date with a girl and she is a sophmore and i am a freshman. she made me pick the movie and i accidently picked a blood and guts movie. she said she liked it and i asked her the next day for a second date and she said yes. do you think this is a second date out of pitty?
could be! maybe she just likes how different you are than the normal date!
March 04 - through a friend of a friend we are both spending an evening at a mutual friend's place taking the mickey out of eachother
April 04 - I found an excuse to email him (lives on the other side of the world)
email contact for 6 weeks progresses to him saying "so why don't you have a boyfriend, you're lovely"
July 04 - he calls me, 3 hrs on the phone trying to get him to realise that yes, I fancied him
one week later - he wants to see me again and suggests I take a trip, I suggest that if he want to see me that much, he'll take the trip to see me"...he agrees and we find a time that suits my work schedule
between july and September we spend 2-3 hours on the phone each mornign & evening - mostly him calling me, countless emails, texts, msn messenger etc...
September 04 - we spend two weeks together, it's amazing in every way.
Before he returns home we talk about what we do from here, I suggest trying to get my work posted to where he is , he agrees saying that would give us theopportunity to test living together
October 04 - I have a more fantastic offer from my boss than the one I proposed (sebatical allows me time off with job guaranteed at the end, holiday pay paid out up front, plus my boss will set up a job over there for me) I'm elated...call the man
He gives me reason after reason why moving to his country is a bad idea right now (weather, flatmate doesn't want additional person in the house, flat lease requires 2 months notice to leave, no girl has made an effort for him before, I love my career and he's worried that my boss allowing a 9 month sebatical will result in my not getting my job back at the end of it)
I give him space, don't contact him
He tells me I don't call anymore
I ask what's happening, I need to give my boss an answer, he advises, I'll call you after work babe...
I wait about a week (he's overseas with work)
He calls but hasn't spoken to flatmate properly yet
I get drunk at a party in the weekend, call him, get emotional, cry (ok, cry a fair bit)
When he finally phones a few days later it's to give me that cheesy "I don't know how to say this but I think we should just be friends" line
He gave me these reasons:
there are reasons (nope, I have no idea what these illusive 'other reasons' are)
if would be different if we lived in the same country, met and dated, then lived together.....but me putting everything on hold and us living together after 12 days and one evening makes him feel pressured
Over the week previous to our last conversation I too decided that living together was a bit of a big step and would mean I would rely on him too much, so arranged alternative accommodation with family, hence removing that pressure from us both. Unfortunately he had already made up his mind when he gave me the friends speech, so I didn't get the chance to let him know.
I think this guy is fantastic, he is everything I never thought I would find. He has said the same without my prompting.
I don't understand why he has cut me off, please help I'm devastated.
if he lives on the other side of the world.. forget it! lifes tough sorry
what do you girls use to get rid of pimples/acne, to wash ur face, lotion, what kind of foundation/cover-up/concealer? ps ... i dont have to much money and i would love to have clear skin by halloween! thanks gurlies!
if its really bad use proactiv... if not use that blue astringent stuff just to wash ur face!
Well this girl who I'm good friends with has invited me to watch some DVDs have have pizza at her house tomorrow night. There will be some other people there who I know but I don't have much in common with them and we aren't great friends. I want to go but I don't want to be left out of the conversation. What should I do?
probly shudnt go if u feel uncomfortable around this guy. if it wasnt for him i would say u should!!
Before you get your first period do you aloways feel angry and stuff and do you always get cramps? Thanks!
i dont.. but alot of girls do!! hope i helped
Im a really big guy. Im 7 feet tall, im 450lbs. My questions is, why is it that girls just want to be friends with me. They dont want to think about anything more than a friendship. I thought girls didnt care as much for looks as guys. Big guys need loving too.
whoaaaa im 5 foot UR TALL. but hey! girls are always lookin for tall guys! extra tall is even better!
Does anybody know any famous ppls screen names? If u do i promise i won't annoy them to death. lol i just really want to talk to someone famous, cuz i've never done that
famous people dont get online and chat. niceee try tho! u can get their address from some sites and write them a nice admiration letter and then they send u a signed picture of them. ive done it before!! ihave lalaine's(frfom lizzie mcquire) um drew barrymore cameron diaz and sarah michelle geller!! good luck with that
I just started here at the advicenator yesterday. So far its great. I love giving advice. But I was wondering how to get some great designs as backgrounds. My advice column right now is kind of boring. So, if you could please help me that'd be greatly apprciated!
I rate high::all 5's!
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hey! welcome to the site!!hAha!! well i went to google and clicked on the images tab and then typed in sunset. they have a ton of pretty ones hope i helped!!!
ok, um i completely deleted my history and now i want it back, lol, um how the heck do i do that?! ne one, help please!
you cant sorry!!
well i want to put conditioner on my hair and then sleep with it on... sounds crazy i no but i think it would help. i mean my hairs not really dried out of anything but it could prob use the shine and moisture. what do u think?
lol thanx
buy a leave in conditioner thats MEANT to stay in.. the way ur saying will just make it greasy looking... hope i helped
Anyone know websites for homecoming dresses? I've checked jcpenny's, macy
s nordstroms and those department stores..but anything else?
i hear filenes basement has name brand ones for cheap!! good luck!
Hey, at lunch my friend always eats really junky foods, i mean tons, and i think shes gonna gain tons of wait quite soon. Should i tell her???
luv,
Rachel
i think you should! just dont be like UR GONNA GET FAT!! just maybe say when other ppl arnt there so she doesnt get embaressed like.. wow if i ate those id be humungus or something so u start talkinng about it! then maybe shell say something and u can say maybe u shud start limiting down on the calories!! hope it helps