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i have unlimited texting, can i go on aim mobile for free?
i don't think so. i know that on the bill aim messages and text messages show up as different things. i woudl just call your phone company
JOBROLOVER
16/f.. don't really wanna hear about how i'm too young to be having sex..
so i know that people say that you know when you orgasm but i've actually been told by guys that i cum when they go down on me. so is it possible that i just like don't feel orgasms?
i don't think so. i think the guys are mistaking you getting wet for cuming.. and there's a big difference there.
JOBROLOVER
16 f
How do you know when a guy is trying to get inside your pants? Like what are the signs that lead to this conclusion?
they ask you how far you've gone
they ask you how far you would go
they want just a 'hook up' but have no intention of a relationship.. this one is tricky. sometimes a guy may like you but just wants to hook up with you and doesn't want to go out with you. usually if the guy actually likes you he will want to hook up with you more than once. so basically, a sign would be if the guy just wants a one-time hook up.
they flirt with you a lot in sexual ways just after they meet you
they tell you you're hot, sexy, fine, etc. all the time but never compliment anything else or say you're beautiful, pretty, etc.
JOBROLOVER
can some one translate these lyrics. plz and thk you. :]
I never promised you a ray of light,
I never promised there'd be sunshine everyday,
I give you everything I have, the good, the bad.
Why do you put me on a pedestal,
I'm so up high that I can't see the ground below,
So help me down you've got it wrong, I don't belong there.
Chorus:
One thing is clear,
I wear a halo,
I wear a halo when you look at me,
But standing from here, you wouldn't say so
you wouldn't say so, if you were me
And I, I just wanna love you,
Oh oh I, I just wanna love you
Verse 2
I always said that I would make mistakes,
I'm only human, and that’s my saving grace,
I fall as hard as I try
So don't be blinded
See me as I really am, I have flaws and sometimes I even sin,
so pull me from that pedestal,
I don't belong there.
Chorus:
One thing is clear,
I wear a halo,
I wear a halo when you look at me,
But standing from here, you wouldn't say so
you wouldn't say so, if you were me
And I, I just wanna love you,
Oh oh I, I just wanna love you
Why you think that you know me
But In your eyes
I am something above you
It’s only in your mind
Only in your mind
I wear a
I wear a
I wear a Halo
One thing is clear,
I wear a halo,
I wear a halo when you look at me,
But standing from here, you wouldn't say so
you wouldn't say so, if you were me
And I, I just wanna love you,
Oh oh I, I just wanna love you
Haaaa ha-ha halo (x9)
i don't know if you actually watch one tree hill or you just found this song.. but this song is from one tree hill and it describes what is happening in the show. i suggest you watch the show if you want to fully understand it but basically she is saying that he views her as perfect and she doesn't deserve it.
JOBROLOVER
So I would like to do something different to my hair, but something that would look good.
My hair naturally is dark brown, but I currently have light (carmel and blonde) highlights on the top, and its dark on the bottom. I really would like something different though, but that would look good!
Anyway this is my hair normal & highlighted;
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v330/MqSoCcErSwEeTiE/n583148295_88537_6926.jpg
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v330/MqSoCcErSwEeTiE/chloeee.jpg
i think your hair looks good lighter. here's some ideas:
- get more highlights
- dye your hair lighter brown
- get lighter highlights
JOBROLOVER
This is kind of funny but is there a website where you can go to find out who has products cheaper than other stores? For example a certain type of shampoo from stores like target wal mart dollar general...etc? Thanks
i don't think there is. i think you just have to compare the prices yourself. go on the target, walmart, etc. websites and check the prices and then write them down. good luck
JOBROLOVER
How bad does waxing hurt? Would you say it's worth it?
i have pretty good pain tolerance, and i don't think it hurts that bad. my mom thinks it kills though.. so it like depends on the person. i get a brazilian and i can deal with it. it's like ripping off a bandaid kind of. it's over in a few seconds. it's definetly worth it to not shave. i'm not really sure where you're planning to get a wax (like on your body i mean.. legs, bikini, underarms, eyebrows, etc.) but i think any of them would be worth it. i get my eyebrows waxed too and i don't think that hurts AT ALL.
good luck
JOBROLOVER
My boyfriend and I got a little tispy at his parents huge, fancy hotel party and we ended up checking out a room and having sex. I know it was really foolish but being inebriated, we couldnt control ourselves. I did not plan on ever doing it while I was drunk and that will certainly be the last time. Anyways, we were doing everything safely and using protection so that part is over. But this morning, when I looked down at my underwear, it was soaked in blood. I hadn't started my period or anything and I thought that was strange. My boyfriend and I have been together for a very, very long time and two months ago, we decided to have sex for the first time. Since then, we did it 4 times, not including the drunk night at the hotel. I bled a little the first time, I bled a lot the second time, I didn't bleed at all the third time, but the fourth time I bled again because we hadn't done it in so long and I closed up a little. I was really confused to why my underwear was drenched in so much blood. I don't think I've ever bled that much before. I remember him going in pretty deep but he's been really deep before so I thought I had already torn my hymen. But the next day, i defecated (err..umm pooped) and I noticed my anus was really sore and that's when it hit me....did he put it in the right hole??? I noticed my vagina hole wasnt that sore and it usually is..the part that hurts is below it...kinda towards the taint...and it would make sense to why I bled so much.
we've both been against anal sex so im quite terrified..how can I tell which one he put it in or whether or not i've had anal sex?
i don't think you can really tell... but you probably should have been able to see where the blood was coming from. just ask him?
GOOD LUCK
JOBROLOVER
Where do i get them.I dont want my parents to know i take them though cause then they'll ask me about sex..which is why i want to ge themjust in case???
as the person below me said.. you can go to planned parenthood and get them for free. just type it into google and you can find the one that's nearest to you. also: if your parents do find out you can tell them you wanted them for irregular periods. or you can just ask your parents to buy you them for that reason. because i know a lot of my friends take them because they have irregular periods.
JOBROLOVER
Last night I got a littleee drunk, and went on facebook. I had a friend request from a guy from my drivers ed class, so I accepted, and then I decided to message him. In it I said "you are soooo hot lets have sex" haha :(
Anyways, he wrote back "i think we should"
Now I'm SO tryna hook up with him (not have sex you know) so what am I supposed to write back to that? Like in a way that keeps us talking so that we hang out and hook up. Lol its a weird situation...
Thankss :)
i wouldn't do what the person below you said. it could get you into trouble. he might think you actually want to have sex with him and yeah that might lead to bad things if you don't want to. what i think you should do is just be honest. people do stuff like that all the time. just say something like "sorry i was a little drunk last night but you are really cute.. maybe we could hang out sometime?". something to let him know you're still interested but not to the extent of having sex with him. good luck :)
JOBROLOVER
well i've done everything but sex and when my boyfriend does anything to me i reach a point where i cant handle it anymore and i tell him to stop, i dont orgasm but then like a few hours later i will. sometimes when he fingers me i randomly do but it doesnt even feel good or anything, i think i have a medical problem but i dont know what to do!! help please
okay well, maybe you should let him keep going when you 'reach a point where you can't handle it anymore' because that is like what an orgasm is. like once you reach that point. this is really hard to explain but when it builds up like that it doesn't just like go away. for example: if your boyfriend fingers you and then stops for a few minutes and then starts again you don't have to start over in like building up to an orgasm. if that makes any sense? so that could explain why it happens a few hours later. because after he fingers you or whatever you are that much built up to having an orgasm and then some stimulation like a few hours later creates the orgasm. if you are really worried talk to your doctor about it. it may be embarrassing but it's definetly better to catch problems like this early.
JOBROLOVER
ok so my bone (i assume its a bone) in front of my pelvis and right in front of my vag sticks out. so it bulges is w/e i wear. i hate it. do you think there is surgery? if so should i get it? or should i try to hide it? if so how?
yeah i know a girl like that. i think there probably is surgery. you should talk to your doctor next time you go and ask about it. it may be embarrassing but it will make you feel a lot better about yourself! i don't think there really is a way to hide it except wearing really baggy pants. good luck!
JOBROLOVER
Does anyone know a place that sells one peice black bathing suits? Thanks
usually big sports stores:
-sports authority
-sportmart
target probably has some.
or any other swimsuit store
JOBROLOVER
Why is it that guys think that girls want nice jewlery or that they have to buy them it? I dated 2 guys who insisted they wanted to buy me nice neclaces but I'm not really into that kind of stuff and neither of the guys had the type of personalities where they would want to do that.
i know how you feel. this guy that wanted to ask me out apparently bought me a $1200 diamond necklace, i'm only 16 btw! like jeez. from what he explained, he really wanted to impress me and he liked me a lot so he wanted to get me something nice. something to remember him by. basically, he just wanted to top any other guy i've ever been with. so that is pretty much why guys feel that they need to buy girls nice jewlery.
JOBROLOVER
My best friend hooked me and her boyfriend's friend up and we've been going out for a couple of days. Well, today, we had our first kiss. And now it feels like there are butterflies in my stomach and I have this really read feeling in my chest. Like electricity flowing through me. What does it mean? I mean, I don't think it is possible to love someone if you just started to date them, right? So what is that weird feeling?
you just really like him. you're excited to have a new guy in your life, it's totally normal. also, i'm not sure if this is what you're talking about but after girls kiss someone or do something else of that kind, their faces (or their whole bodies) feel hot and that is completely normal. that might be the feeling you are talking about. you can love someone that you just started to date. it's all a matter of how you feel. i would get to know him a little better before you decide if you love him or not.
JOBROLOVER
ok so i like this guy and today we were on the bus together. (not school bus, i live in england so we were on the red kinda bus :P)
he was sitting downstairs in the back and i was standing at the door and was about to go off. i looked at him and he looked back at me smiling a little (but he always smiles so i dno if that meant smth) then i thought maybe i should look at himn one mor etime before i go off and then this girl came downstairs and he was looking at HER.
so i was a bit dissapointed because i thought he fancys me since he notices me alot in school.
i dno if him looking at at her meant smth so i'm jzst asking, would a guy look at a interesting looking girl even if the girl he really fancies is standing next to her?
(sorry if im making a big deal, and dont tell me that, just answer my question :/)
thankss :]
just because he looked at another girl doesn't mean he doesn't like YOU. think about this.. when you like a guy don't you look at other guys and think "oh that guy's hot" or "oh that guy's cute"? guys do the same thing. they notice lots of girls.. even if they only truly like one.
JOBROLOVER
14/f im going on a movie date tonight, our first one acctual and I need tips :) whats cute, whats attractive. What would be an appropiate movie for us to see tonight. We've hung out alot so a kiss wouldnt be out of the question so all tips and advice would be great!!
And if anyone can relate, im kind of the pants in this relationship because sometimes hes more nervous and can be awkward because im his first. He doesnt always know like how to act in this relationship
okay a few things...
1. WHAT TO WEAR(i'm not sure if this is what you meant by "whats attractive".. but i'll tell you anyways haha): just wear jeans and a cute shirt, maybe wear a little makeup (not too much. guys usually don't like girls that have a face full of makeup), don't dress up too much you don't want to make him feel underdressed, do something cute with your hair or maybe straighten it.. that always looks pretty on everyone
2. APPROPRIATE MOVIES: probably not a chick flick. at least not for your first date. most guys don't want to see these types of movies but if their girlfriend wants to they will deal with it. i just wouldn't choose one for your very first date. something funny or an action movie would probably be the best. try to agree on a movie so you're both happy.
3. WHERE TO SIT: back- if you want to kiss him a lot and you want him to KNOW it sit in the back. the back has more privacy. middle- this sends the message that holding hands is okay and maybe a little cuddling but probably not very much kissing. maybe a quick peck or two. front- this sends him the message that you DO NOT WANT TO KISS HIM. you are in the front (in front of everyone) and that would be pretty uncomfortable if everyone could see you kissing during the movie. make sure you send him the right signals by choosing where you want to sit. try to get to the movie early enough so it's not full by the time you get there.
4. BEING THE PANTS IN THE RELATIONSHIP: i know exactly how you feel. for 2 of my boyfriends, i was there first girlfriend. and for all of the guys i've hooked up with, i was their first also. this gives you a bigger responsiblity because you're the one that knows what's supposed to happen and he just kinda has to follow you. he probably wants to kiss you but he may be a little nervous. you need to give him signs that show him you want to kiss him. lean close to him during the movie. make sure you aren't turning your body away from him. look at him every so often. he will see it out of the corner of his eye and hopefully he will get the idea. he might be scared to do something like hold your hand. i know this does not sound fun (at least for me because i know that i like the guy to make the first move) but you should be the one to grab his hand. at least for the first time. on dates after this one he will probably get the idea. this is your first date so you just need to guide him a little.
GOOD LUCK :) have fun!
JOBROLOVER
If a girl is recieving oral sex, what would be considerd bad smelling for a vagina? Should it smell like soap, or like nothing? Is it okay for it to smell like discharge? Can it smell like sweat? Should you use personal wipes before sex to freshen up or should can it be like natural, when you wake up in the morning? Is it okay to be hairy too? I know its a lot, but thanks!
everyone has different opinions.. but this is the general opinion. i wouldn't purposely try to make it smell like soap.. but definetly make sure you wash it. most guys don't like hair so i would either wax or shave. :)
JOBROLOVER
hi, this may be a weird question but is it still possible for two people to make out, even if one of them has braces? and is it any different from making out when neither of the people have braces? thanks for the help!
yeah its completely possible. all of the times i've made out i've had braces.. i don't know what it's like to make out without them! haha. but they don't get in the way or anything.
i have somewhat a lot of dark hairs on my stomach and lower back. i dont mind my back hairs much, probably because i cant see it haha but anyways, i hate my stomach hair, especially wearing short shirts or swimming suits. should i shave, nair, or bleach lighter? i was thinking about nair..does it hurt and will it make it go away for a long time? i dont want to have to shave every day to keep it smooth but i guess if i have to =/ i cant afford a big procedure thing to get it removed but, any advice is very appreciated!
i would just bleach it. that way you don't have to worry about stubble growing back in when the nair or shaving wears off.
JOBROLOVER