My boyfriend and I got a little tispy at his parents huge, fancy hotel party and we ended up checking out a room and having sex. I know it was really foolish but being inebriated, we couldnt control ourselves. I did not plan on ever doing it while I was drunk and that will certainly be the last time. Anyways, we were doing everything safely and using protection so that part is over. But this morning, when I looked down at my underwear, it was soaked in blood. I hadn't started my period or anything and I thought that was strange. My boyfriend and I have been together for a very, very long time and two months ago, we decided to have sex for the first time. Since then, we did it 4 times, not including the drunk night at the hotel. I bled a little the first time, I bled a lot the second time, I didn't bleed at all the third time, but the fourth time I bled again because we hadn't done it in so long and I closed up a little. I was really confused to why my underwear was drenched in so much blood. I don't think I've ever bled that much before. I remember him going in pretty deep but he's been really deep before so I thought I had already torn my hymen. But the next day, i defecated (err..umm pooped) and I noticed my anus was really sore and that's when it hit me....did he put it in the right hole??? I noticed my vagina hole wasnt that sore and it usually is..the part that hurts is below it...kinda towards the taint...and it would make sense to why I bled so much.
we've both been against anal sex so im quite terrified..how can I tell which one he put it in or whether or not i've had anal sex?
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