16/f.. don't really wanna hear about how i'm too young to be having sex..
so i know that people say that you know when you orgasm but i've actually been told by guys that i cum when they go down on me. so is it possible that i just like don't feel orgasms?
alisonmarie answered Saturday July 12 2008, 6:37 pm: The only person who can tell if you're had an orgasm is you. A guy might have a lot emotionally invested in you having one, and naturally he would want to convince you that you had!
An orgasm is a powerful feeling that's hard to miss. You may want to spend some time on your own exploring your body, as this is the way most people learn what pleases them - and what an orgasm feels like.
Once you know what you should be feeling, then you're in a better position to negotiate with partners. After all, you deserve to enjoy yourself (always staying safe, of course!) and should not have to just go along with what the guy says you have felt or are supposed to be feeling.
jobrolover3725 answered Tuesday July 8 2008, 10:14 pm: i don't think so. i think the guys are mistaking you getting wet for cuming.. and there's a big difference there.
thelaura answered Tuesday July 8 2008, 10:09 pm: You'd know if you had an orgasm.
They're probably just referring to you being wet and the muscles down there tightening. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
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