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MY NAME iS JAMiE.. iM 15 YEARS 0LD, AND iM A HiGH SCH00L S0PH0M0RE.. i AM N0T SiNGLE.. iM TAKEN BY THE BEST B0YFRiEND EVER .. 7.24.04
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hey! i dont have bad acne, just breakouts here and there! but i was wondering you were talking about...durac or benza .... where do u get that? (link)
i also don't have bad acne, but my parents think i do. but, we went to the doctor and asked for an acne medicine that will prevent break outs. at first.. i got the benza ... (idk what its called) and you had to put that one twice a day. i switched to duac and i have to put it on once a day and it will help your acne. hope that helps you!


Well I am kinda in a long distance relationship and it is hard because i dont get to see him like everyday. I am only 13 and i am a female and I think he is the one and I love him every much. Do you think this will last forever????? NEED HELP FAST!!!! (link)
hunny, ur 13. nothing will last that long. believe me, i thought me and my boyfriend we're going to last awhile, and we broke up last night. considering long distance relationships don't last, it probably won't last forever. if he is the one, you need to make an effort to see him more often. good luck! hope i've helped!


I don't have any guts when it comes to dumping a guy. Well.. OK I must admit this is my first time and we never went out on a date. I just don't want to be in a relationship right now. So, do you think it is ok to write a note to the guy I want to dump and say I don't want to be in a relationship? Or, does anyone know another way where I don't have to talk to him face-to-face. Or, do I have to talk to him like that! PLease help! (link)
you can do it over the internet, write a note like you said, you can have a friend do it, or something like that. good luck!


i have a huge zit in between my eyes....is there anything i can do or put on it to make it go away really quick?!?!...like in a day?!?!...thanks so much!!! (link)
this won't help now, but it will help in the future. if you have acne on your face, you can get medicated acne medicine. it's called durac or benza something... put it on your face every day and your acne will go away within three days. i hope that helps later on! talk to ur doc about it


I'm inviting 4 of my best friends over for a small group gathering party. We're going to the movies, which'll take up like 4 hours.. But do you guys have anymore ideas.. Thanks XO (link)
you can go bowling, go to the mall, go shopping anywhere else, go out to eat, stuff like that! good luck and i hope i helped!


Well, I got into a fight with my friend , shes been my friend since 1st grade. and i'm in 9th grade now. I got into a fight with her because she gave my purse to someone without asking me, and she wouldn't tell the person to give it back. so i said until she gives it back im not talking to you. she started flipping out swearing, calling me fat and ugly and i couldn't get a boyfriend. THEN, i was going to forgive her until she told my other ex-friend marie that i talk about her all the time, and told her everything i said about her (which was true), but i don't think she should do that, i can't trust her or anything . i don't think i can forgive her.. what would u do?! (link)
i think any money is enough. even the smallest amount of money can contribute to something big like that! i hope i helped!


I cheated on my boyfriend with my ex do i tell him?or keep it a secret. (link)
if your like me and have a horrible guilt conscience, then i say tell him. if your different, i wouldn't tell anybody.. not even your best friend bc it'll spread around like wildfire. good luck ! hope u make the right decision!


OK, I said yes to this guy when he asked me out. Now, I don't want to go out with him.. so I'm going to, well not exactly dump him cuz we didn't go out by tell him I don't want to go out with him. I still want to be really really good friends with him. How do I say that I don't want to go out with him? (link)
tell him that you had a change of heart and you would like to be friends if that's aright. and if not, you understand. hope that helped :)


Hey guys. Sherry here. My little sister (10) got like white stuff on her underwear like a few weeks ago and yeah I knew it was normal but she told me just today that she got a really small red spot on her underwear...I never got these spots before my period or anything so do you think she'll get her period soon? She's really young though so idk! thanks:) I'll rate! (link)
it's possible to get your period at 10. i know somebody that got theirs in 4th grade. i don't know if it's normal or not.. but i think she might get her period.


does braces hurt when they tighten them and o yeah what are some good colors for them 2 and well not being racsit but i need some people who wear braces to tell but if anybody elese wants to answer feel free. (link)
it hurts for a couple of days.. believe me i've had braces twice :-\.. and i like the lighter colors.. light blue, light pink, basically light anything. darker colors don't look as good. hope that helps!


my boyfriend said we were going to hangout today and he called me last night and told me hed call me today....well he hasnt called me or anything and its 3:30 already...i called him at 1:30 and his brother answered and said he was in the shower...and hed have him call me back...im mad because hes home and stuff and he hasnt even called me....its like...we only hangout if i call him....why doesnt he call me? but when were together its amazing....i love him alot...he said we'd do something today....=\ (link)
talk to him about it - be like "hey, i love hanging out with you and stuff but why do i always have to call you?". if that continues, i'd either break up with him or talk to him again. good luck! hope i helped!


is it unacceptable for a guy and girl who are just friends to kiss? even if the guy or girl has a boyfriend/girlfriend?

thanks everyone! (oh yeah, if you wanna look at my column! i'm rice06. i'm good at giving advice but i wasn't sure about this one ^^) (link)
if you kiss somebody thats taken.. it's wrong. if it's two single people.. then it's alright. hope that helped!


MY DOG is 12 years old and is suffering from arthritist.and last year he started to eat charcoal and vomiting it out.Do u think this is normal?does your dog do this? (link)
nah that's not normal.. does your dog still do that? if so, take it to the vet because i'm sure dogs aren't supposed to eat charcoal.


i have a question. if you wear skater clothes but you dont skateboard or you used to but not anymore are you considered a poser? (link)
who cares what other people think? i'm a girl and i used to be "skater" and i shopped at pacsun and hot topic. now i wear both.. who cares what other people think? wear whatever u want to. hope that helped =)


ok my best friend is going out with kid and he is younger than her and he is crazy and jumped her brother and pulled a knife out on him and said he was going to kill me and our other friend to but she wont listen to me,.. i tell her to dump him but she said she loves him and i dont no what to do and they had sex and he is two years younger (sorry i cant spell) and they have only bin going out for like three weeks and i dont know what to do PLEASE HELP!!!=( (link)
wow that is a doosie. tell this girl's parents about this guy. he is obviously not safe for your best friend or you could take someone that she really trusts there to witness him threaten you and your friend.. good luck! hope i helped!


when me and my bf fool around, it makes me feel so good...the slightest thing he does to me makes me orgasm..this turns him on...ALOT..and im beginning to think that hes using this to his agvantage..i dont really mind cause he deserves it too...im wondering whether or not to take it one step farther and have sex with him... everything else he does to me is wonderful, so why wouldnt sex be??? does anyone know if this is a good idea?? (link)
that one is up to you. if you do decide to have sex, use a condom. you really don't want to have a pregnancy scare. i'm sure it would be a horrible situation to be in. and if your scared about being preg., make sure he pulls out! hope that helpeD!


How do i know if my bf is just using me?
We went out last year for like almost 9 months but i broke it off because i started at a new school and i couldnt handle the relationship too. He begged me to take him back and after 3 months of getting settled and really missing him...i did. But it just doesnt seem the same anymore. Now when we do see each other all he wants to do is make out, feel me up, get down my pants. Ya know. Its not like we're hanging out. Its like i'm just there for sexual stuff. What should i do? Is he using me?
female, 16. (link)
i'm in the same situation.. except im 14. i think he's just using you because my boyfriend is doing the same thing. talk to him about it. ask him if everytime you guys hang out, you have to do things sexually. if hes a smartass about it, break it off.. good luck!


I used to like this guy since kindergaten and he's been in my class ever since(except fourth). Now that I'm in Jr. High, I'm not interested in him or any other guy anymore. everyhting has changed since I started. Is this normal?
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yes that's normal! you realized that there is more than one guy out there..


What are some really good movies to watch with friends..im 14/F?? Thanks (link)
i know some funny movies would be like.. napoleon dynomite, anchorman, or something retarded like that romantic movies would be like.. a walk to remember.. scary would be liek.. taking lives, enough ((its scary for me lol)) and some others! hope that helped!


sometimes i get forget to put deoderant on n i get mad bo so i just dont lift my arms.
any solutions? (link)
get a little stick of deoderant for your purse if ur a girl.. if ur a guy.. ahha idk!




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