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i am an average teenage girl...i guess.
i have brown hair, not too long, but not too short either. i have multi-colored eyes (brown, green, blue, yellow & black), and i about 5'4ft and that's about it physically.
i play soccer, i play the flute and am learning the french horn, i love to read, hang out, go crazy, write, be myself.
i love to listen to music. almost any kind of music sits with me...but some types, i just can't stand. rock n' roll or heavy metal is basically my favorite.
i am still in school, and i am crazy for taking the classes that i take...
and well, that's about it.
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E-mail: thepresident89@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: montana
Occupation: student
Age: 17
AIM: noggindude22
Member Since: August 10, 2004
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Last Update: December 31, 2005
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hey i was just wondering where i can find some really sexy *backgrounds* with stuff such as paradise scenes, abercrombie, hollister co, laguna beach, paris hilton stuff like that! please help (link)
go to google and type in paradies scences backgrounds. usually they come up.


I am trying to plan a great slumber party for me and my friend but I need some help on finding some great slumber party activities like pillow fights,chick movies,and etc.

I will rate very high for great ideas!!! (link)
pillow fights are always fun.
have a contest for who can stay up the longest.
put make-up on your friend when she sleeps, or shaving cream or whipped cream...
freeze her bra and yours...ummm
chick movies...a walk to remember, never been kissed, how to deal, she's all that, clueless, fried green tomatoes, any of the disney princess movies, ella enchanted, princess diaries...there are a ton more, but i don't want to type them all.
get things to paint like from michaels or a craft store...
bake something...
hope i helped in some way


I have a coworker that I am very interested in getting to know. I have heard from several people that he is interested in me too but the thing is we are both shy. We make eye contact and smile at eachother but that is as far as it goes. There has been several times where I have come close to telling him how I feel and asking him out but I am too shy when it comes to situations like this. We dont know eachother personally but we have been working together for about 2 years now and I recently began feeling this attraction toward him. I know I should just say something but I would get nervous. What should I do? (link)
go up to him and give him a big sloppy kiss...ok not really.
i think that you should just start talking to him before you tell him how you feel. get to know him, like what he likes to do. and if you find that he likes to do the same thing as you, ask him to do that thing (i.e. bowling).
then if you find that you actually like him after getting to know him, then you can tell him how you feel. and then see where it goes from there.
hope i helped.


hey guys i'm lookin for any good games for ps2. i usually like rpg games, action is good, well i'm into anything. so can anyone give me some suggestions on good games. (link)
it's called...get a life outside of ps2


how can a girl not get pregant when having sex? (link)
use a condom. use birth control. don't have sex and then you won't have anything to worry about.


Ok this morning, I woke up and there was this tiny blemish/zit thing down there..idk what it is!! Please help me..im freaking out..It's like a dot smaller than a zit but bigger than a blemish and there's a whitehead or something in it...I've never had sex..and no one has been "down there"..please help! (link)
its a zit. cool it. it is not going to kill you. it is a clogged pore and all you need to to is to unclog it. i know that sounds gross, but it is the only way it will go away.


i was wondering if there are any techniques to running. like any specific ways to move your body? or any way to control your breathing and stuff. thanks. (link)
for breathing: brethe in your nose and out through your mouth.
make sure to move yor arms because that not only helps you breathe, but it also works your abs. just makes sure not to move them A LOT or else you will be really sore.
hope i helped.


Is wearing a blue jean jacket with jeans too much denim like if i have like a colorful shirt under it? like if the jacket and jeans are close to the same color? (link)
no,its not too much.
if you are a guy, then that is cool.
if you are a girl, then its cute.


Ok I was talking to this boy that I like online, and tomorrows the last day of school and we have a half day so he asked me if I want to come over his house tomorrow. So I was like yea and I asked what he wants to do..and he was like I don't know we could watch a movie, makeout, have sex, or I will eat you out! and im like um ok..I really want to go but I don't really know if I want to have sex with him I mean I do want to but I don't...its really confusing. But he says its totally up to me up to me..so what should I do? Thanks iLL rate hiGH!!! (link)
slap him. good grief...what a perv.
if you don't know if you want to have sex with him, then don't. you will regret it in the long run. just watch a movie and make out or something if you really want to. just don't have sex...its not worth it.


Hey 16/f, theres this guy that i like but he has a girl. There were times that i told him that i had a b/f but it didnt stop him from kissin me and tellin me he loved me. He even told my cousins that he loved me and that he wanted me badly and that he would do anythin 4 me. I want to play hard to get and tease him and do things to make him want me more. What could i do....plz help! I rate HIGH! (link)
so basically, you want to play this guy until you want him...how about no...
no one likes to be played. just tell him that you like him and do something about it.
stop playing around with his emotions...that is the worst thing to do to a guy.


me and my boyfriend broke up probably two months ago. i dumped him because he changes and stuff and gets really quiet. i dumped him because he wasnt being the guy i fell in love with. im 14 and you might not think its true but i did fall in love with him and he said he loved me too but after we broke up we didnt talk or anything and it sucked. about a week ago we finally started talking again and i realized yet again what i loved about him and that i do still love him. i dont know if i should keep it to myself and try to get over it or if i should tell him (link)
you guys are too young to worry about such things!
live your life!
forget having a boyfriend...just go out on a bunch of fun dates...who says you have to going steady. that is ridiculous...
shesh...kids these days


ok, well here's the deal. my bofriend and i hav been going out for about...3-4 months. and i love him,but i dont no if its because HE says he loves me every few minutes im with him. ive thought about breaking up with him, but wen i told my best friend she said "he loves you too much. if u broke up with him, it would kill him" and hes tried to make out with me, but i rejected him. wat should i do? (link)
dump him...he is insucure and only says he loves you because lust is covering his eyes...he sounds like my ex-bf, so dump him...


Well, there is this girl that I'm okay friends with, but now don't really like her that much anymore. My boyfriend is starting to hang out with her more and talk to her more. Sometimes talking to her more on AOL than me. While I was away for two weeks my boyfriend went on a choir trip to Six Flags. Ashley (the girl that I'm okay friends with) and my boyfriend hung out the whole time. IE. Rode rides together, walked together, got food and ate it together. That doesn't make you're girlfriend feel very good, but now she's in his info. It's an inside joke with her, but surprisingly it's about the same lenght as me in his info. Well, my whole info is about him. Am I being stupid to be mad, that's what he said. (link)
no you are stupid for being mad.
no offense, but if you are still going out with him, then that is being stupid.
he is not worth your time, get rid of him.


Hey! I like this guy but I don't know how to go up to him and start talking see the problm is he barly knows I exist plz help. (link)
just go up to him and say hi, and how are you... things of that nature. that usually starts a conversation. if it doesn't work the first time, keep talking to him just not too much. girls make the mistake of talking to the guys they like too much and it makes the guy get annoyed. so if you have the opportunity, talk to him and say hi. it works most of the time.
hope i hepled.


On the last day of school, I was particularly mad at my friend for ditching me at the mall to hang out with some other people, so I was telling my friends how mean and stupid she was when I realized my crush was behind me and he accidentally heard me ragging on my friend. He said, "I didn't hear what you said," and walked out after I gave him a look of complete shame because I was upset he heard me at a bad time. Since it was the last day of school, I have no time to make it better.
I live near him though- should I go talk to him to make him remember me on a good note? (link)
no...first of all you should go talk to your friend. tell her what was up and ask why she ditched you, then you can worry about what the guy thinks of you.
but i do think that you should go and talk to him. not necessarily for a 'good note,' but just to talk to him since you like him.
hope i helped.


Alrighty...here i go...well i was supposed to graduate this year but like a week before graduation my guidance counselor calls me and says that i don't have enough credits to graduate...so im not...she said i would have to come back next year...I ABSOLUTELY HATE MY SCHOOL...i get in fights and everything bc i have a bad temper and ppl just piss me off...i was seriously thinking about dropping out...but i dont know...i need some help.... (link)
go back to school. there is nothing worse than trying to get good jobs if you don't have your diploma.
school sucks but trust me, its worth getting that diploma because that piece of paper sorta has an impact on the rest of your life.
go back to school.


is it possible for your metabolism to increase over time? bc i'm losing wieght and i'm not relaly trying to. its good, but i was just wondering if age or something has to do with me losing weight. (link)
it is possible. or maybe you aren't eating as much as you used to, like eating more of certain foods than other. i lost a lot of weight from not eating certain things that i used to eat in bulk...
age may have a difference, but also as you get older, you tastes for certain foods either gets broader or is shrinks a little.
hope i helped.


when shaving "down there" for females, is it normal for your skin to turn a dark color? (link)
maybe sorta reddish...i don't know if darkish is such a good thing. it also changes from person to person, though.
hope i helped.


ok well my best friend set me up on a blind date with her boyfriends best friend. well we hugged and we cuddled in the movie and i gave him a hug at the end of the date and i thought everything was fine but his friends didnt think so and hes saying im prude because i didnt kiss him. should i have done more i mean i would have but i mean i didnt want to take it to far on a blind date and i always wanted the guy to make the move i was never to (btw i have never hadeout before)so i wasnt sure if it would go there i was worried i would mess up! please help! (link)
that guy is a freak. just because you didn't kiss a dude that you went on a blind date with, does not make you a prude. what would make you seem like a prude if you didn't touch him at all...and you did. you cuddled and hugged. there is nothing wrong with that. if you didn't feel comfortable making the first move for the kissing, then don't. it's not your problem that he's a pervert and expects that much out of blind date. *mumbles idiot under breath*
it is ok to wait for the guy to make the first move. and unless you feel like you want to make the first move, then just sit back and relax. forget what he said...the dude's a jerk. you are not a prude, he is.
hope i helped.


Hey I am 22 years old and i have a boyfriend named Gus.We had sex last night and he kept on biting my boob and I kept on telling him to stop because it hurts and he kept on doing it and now my boob really hurts please tell me what should I do! (link)
well first of all, you need to talk to you boyfriend and ask him what the deal was, because that was just uncalled for. no offense but he sounds like my ex-boyfriend...a jerk (don't take that in the wrong way).
as for the pain, take some advil or something of that nature. heat may help, too.
hope i helped.




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