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Ok how do i put my column into my AIM profile? Plz help me cause i want to put it in there so my buddies can also ask for advice!


Thanks so much!

Go into your column and copy the link, paste it into your profile

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when should i look into a boyfriend? i'm 11 now, and i think i'm way too young. whenever i have sex, it will be when i'm married. i will not ever use a condom, because it's against the catholic religion, which i am. so i'll have two kids at the most (maybe). and i will definately be having one child. when should i have a bf? i don't want to go throuhg a break up...should it be when i am old enough to get married, just in casE?

When your ready for one. You will probably be around 13!

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How the hell do you get a tampon it! i have been trying for ever! i even used some KY Jelly and the slender sized ones! i found the hole and all but i just cant get it in! anyone have any tips or anything??!! EMERGANCY!

read the directions , maybe your doing it wrong. Use a little more KY jelly, oh and relax, that might be making it harder on you

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I have a question that i hope someone can help me with. Is it right to change for a guy? I use to have this one boyfriend that was a punk and I was jusst a normal 13 year old girl. all of his friends were punks to and at that time I was overwhieght and diddn't care about what I looked. Well then all of a sudden my boyfriend just dummped me w/no explanation. And a little while later I started getting into the punk music and cloths and i lost 20 pounds. Now I'm obsessed w/punk music and cloths but i don't know if it's b/c i want him to see what he missed out on or if it's really what i want. About 6 months have passed since my break up w/him. Since our breakup was just b4 the summer no body not even my friends have seen me, so I can't wait till school starts so i can see everyone's reaction esspecially his. But do n-e-of you think this is righ? Pleae someone help me.

Always
Nat

Never change for anyone, Including a guy. Be true to yourself, you will be much happier. Better guys will always come along. Just take awhile to think about if that is what you wanted...

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What does Imao mean? I know what idk means but what does this mean? I try to answer questions but these abrevations get in the way of me understanding sometimes. Could someone tell me? Thanks in advance!
advice~gurl

Laughing my ass off

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I really am inlove with this boy that my family and i have known since in was 2 years old. we are so in love that i think i want him to be my first. i know about safe sex and all and i am 15 but i am planning on spending my life with this guy. we have everything in common and he is so hansom and sweet, not a jock at all. we really want to be with eachother. but i wonder, does it reall hurt that bad the first time, and how do i get him in the mood for sex?

It hurts some girls really bad, but other girls just feel a little discomfort/pain. To get him in the mood, you gotta know his turn-ons. Just kiss him, run your hands through his hair and down his back and go on from there. :) good luck:)

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hey im the one who wrote the poem about the girl who ran away, heres another one:

Your eyes are the color of the sky,after days of rain, hollow and empty, just to cover up the pain.

I want to scream and I want to know, what terrible thing has made you so.....

You hide inside as you let your body take the blame, youre to weak to handle all the shame.

Maybe all could be better , all of this could be through, if youd take the time to listen when I say that I love you.

how was it?

:) Awesome. Keep it up

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hey, i heard this song on the radio that i love. but i don't know who wrote/performed it (it was a woman though).
some of the lyrics go..
"i held your hand through all of these years"
Anybody know?
i rate

my immortal by evenesence. Very kick ass song. You should check out other songs by them also!!

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Hey everyone, I just got back from being away for awhile, and I wanted to know what happened with Advicenators. I've only been away for like 5 days but the last time I checked they were doing something new with the questions. Is that still happening or is it back to normal now? Thanks in advance!!

It's back to normal, thank god :)

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My boyfriend, we'll call him *Bob*, and i always fight...like seriously, we can't get through a day with out fighting about something. but i love him with all my heart...and couldn't break up with him even if i tried...but what should i do? i can't handle all the argueing?

I think yall just need to take a break for a few days. Then hopefully yall will have time to sort out your feelings and the arguing wont be as bad. Good luck

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ok, sry if this is real long:
last summer, at the pool i belonged to, there was this guy that i liked. he liked me too i thought bc we would always like give each other stares and stuff but we never actually met. we dont go to the same schools so i didnt see him but once the whole schools year and that was at the freaking vet. so now, ive seen him at the pool again this summer, but i dont think he likes me any more bc he never like looks at me or anything like he used too. i just relized how much i do like him and im really mad that he doesnt like me back (bc im pretty sure he doesnt) does he just not want to show hes """affection""" or does he just not like me and i cant stop thinking about him...I NEED HELP

**and i rate!**

Only way to figure it out is to ask him :)

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i know this isn't really important, but im doing a poll for summer school.. im not in summer skool, but were supposed to be doing this to get ready for our upcoming high skool year, and well here's my poll...

Bush?
or
Kerry?

moderators, plz don't rate this low, it's for skool, also please don't delete this Q!!!!

Hmmm Kerry

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What does idk stand for?

IDK= I dont know!

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I need some songs... any song would be good and who its by!!

Maroon 5-She will be loved ( so cute)
Seether F. Amy Lee- Broken
Britney Spears- Everytime
Dashboard confessional- vindicated
Usher- Yeah, Burn , Confessions
ANYTHING by Greenday or linkin park!

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When you bowl a full game , you bowl 30 times , am i right ? ( not counting the second time you bowl if you don't get a strike on your first bowl ) So , a perfect game would be 300 , right ?

300 is the best

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im 14 years Old nd i was never kissed or never had a bOy .. my friends say im pretty nd everythin but yeah i dont feel like that ..y ?


o nd hOw can i nOt b shy rOund them its soo hard fo me ??????PLEASE HELp !

It's fine that youve never kissed a guy. Lots of girls your age havent! One of my best friends didnt have her first kiss until she was 17 & she was a pretty girl. About the shy thing, you just gotta suck it up, they are probably really shy too!

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Im so nervous that im gonna pop my cherry having sex and I dont want to bleed all over the place. Does that really happen? What should i do to prevent it from happening. What can he do? I dont know help please

No, you wont bleed ALL over the place. It will be a SMALL amount of blood more than likely.Some girls dont even bleed when they have sex for the first time, because of the possibility of them popping theyre own cherry during various activities like bike riding, dancing, cheering, stretching, masturbating, or anything physical Theres nothing you can do to prevent it. Dont worry about it. He probably knows there is a chance that you will bleed and he will be expecting it. Remember, it will just be a LITTLE blood. Good luck, and use protection

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Okay I don't really know what it is...but I have a discharge in my vagina sometimes...is that what it is? and if so is it bad? and how do I get it to go away?

Yes,It's discharge. No, its not bad at all. Its completely normal to have between periods. The only time you should worry is if it smells horrible or looks funny/ diff. You cant make it go away :| sorry!

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What are some things you can do while kissing someone...like to spice things up?

If your on a " sexual level" with them, then you could use your hands to spice things up if ya know what I mean ;) Or you could just kiss their neck , or stomach. Run your hands thru their hair and down the persons back

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I've always strived for straight hair.. but it never seems to stay straightened.. when ever i flat iron it.. it always goes back to its natural fall.. and when ever i blow dry it straight.. its all poofy.. and i can't get rid of it.. any suggestions on how to get my hair to stay straightened?

use a chi straightener . Starts at $100.00 . You can find it at a hair salon!Its the best straightener ever! Your hair will stay perfectly straight alll day

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