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Does Zach Efron really sing in the first high school musciacal? I thought he did, but they say Drew did. Who's Drew and why didn't they just give him the part of Troy. Won't people notice when Zach has a totally different voice the second movie? Does Efron even sing for himself in the second movie?
well, drew seeley helped write 'get cha head in the game' for the first one. and he took zac's spot on the HSM tour. but it wasnt just his voice, it was his combined with zacs. so there not totally different. but in Hairspray and HSM2 zac did all the singing. and i really wouldnt have noticed a difference if i wasnt told about this :D
I have two questions..
Well i have two friends that are leaving.
One of them is my best mate.
The other is the guy i, well love.
What is a good song for my best mate thats leaving??
And, what is a good song for the guy thats leaving??
for your best mate - cry by mandy moore ( idk if your girls or guys so that might not help any. )
and idk about the other sorry.
14/f
Okay,
so I've liked this guy forever (since I first met him a year ago) !
We have one of those "flirty relationships", but we're just friends.
I've gone out with other people but still like him.
I know I can't have him, he's said he likes me before but he won't ask me out or take any next step forward.
I haven't talked to him all summer and I hope it stays that way.
I like him alot ! but I think the only thing that's an option is getting over him. I can't.
Plus, I feel like if I ever see him again (school) then I'll like him all over again. HELP.
if he wont ask you out, ask him out. theres nothing wrong with that.. also you cant help it if you like someone, the only thing i can think of is just tell yourself. you dont like him. thats how i get over guys all the time.
how much would it cost for all of the vaccinations etc for an 8 week old kitten, because i recently bought one and was wandering how much it would cost. thanks :)
its pretty expensive, my mom had to get one of cats a vaccination recently, also our dog so this is probably way over, but the total came to about 250 dollars. the best thing to do would be call the vet and ask.
my boyfriend is leaving for the coast guards in november. he has boot camp and then is enlisting for 3 years. he's 19 and i'm 15, will be 16 by the time he leaves. i'm scared about what's going to happen.
we've been going out for ever a year, since june 18, 2006. back in august 2006, my family had it so we couldn see eachother until late october 2006. during that time, we both said we were together, but both cheated on eachother. i made a mistake because i was lonely and didnt think i'd be able to see him ever again and same thing happened to him.
i dont want the same thing to happen, especially since this time, it wont be for a few months, it'll be for several years. i'm scared out of my whits about theis, to the point where i'm in tears bawling right now.
my boyfriend and i are madly in love with eachother, we plan on getting married together some day and having children together. actually, he doesnt know this part yet, but i'm actually pregnant right now. i dont want to be without him, but he says this will make life for us better when he gets out.
how can i make it so we can stay together? has anyone else gone through this before and made it? please help me, i really need it.
if your both madly in love, you wont cheat, write letters everday, and before he leaves.. tell him your pregnant im sure he defffff. wont cheat if he knows he has a baby. sorry if this isnt helping /=
why do babies have super long eyelashes? how long does it take to grow them that long?
im not sure, but if i had to guess eye lashes like your eyes dont grow from the time your born so if they had really tiny ones, we probably wouldnt have any when we got older, thats jsut a guess though.
i tried this neutragena acne face wash the other day, and the next morning, the areas where i used it looked a little red, but i didnt think annything of it. later that night, i realised it had swollen a little, had spread some, was warmer than the rest of my face, and was a lot redder. this morning it has started to itch and sting a little bit, plus it has spread further. im guessing its from alergies. i need it gone by tomarro... anny mirical advice?
go to the doctor sounds like an allergie to something in it and your gonna need medicine to get it gone.
I want to lose the belly buldge
but does that mean I will have extra skin?
UGH? I just want a flat stomache,
I'm doing the correct exercise and dieting,
so should it be more toned and not all loose or whatver?
16/F
like the other person said you SHOULDNT have extra skin, but it all is luck i guess? ha, you might have extra skin, but most likely not.
To make a long story short, I really want to write my own songs. The lyrics are not much of a problem, however, the melody is a different story. I've been playing the piano for seven years, but I can't seem to figure out how to put chords together well. Does anyone have any tips on how to write a melody? I'm a little overwhelmed.
15/f if that helps.
get a beat in your head and a tone, and go from there, thats what i used to do [:
i need sites with pictures of hair cuts. or just any cuts. i really want a bob kinda hair cut but not so short i can't put it up in a pony tail. i have side bangs now but they don't sweep across my face like i want them to. i really just need pictures of celebrites or something. please help
i can only help with part, but i thnk short hair makes people look thicker sometimes. i have long hair and my face looks thin, but i know girls who cut their hair short and their face looks way thicker. i have long (about down to my breast) hair and its layered underneith.
fourteen / female
Background: For the past two years of my life, i've had really bad social anxiety. Becuase of it, i've had to switch schools to an alternative school. I wasn't going to my regular middle school last year, I was skipping out of class and I did that for about five months until someone intervened.
The next month I was in my new school. It had very different kinds of people, and it was more diverse as far as race went. It made me feel a lot more comfortable. When I was going through this hard time, I lost a lot of friends. I only have three really good friends now, and because I switchced schools and they have other friends besides me, I don't get to see them a lot.
My parents think that i'm becoming a recluse and I won't ever leave the house because of my anxiety. I spend a lot of time on the computer/in front of the TV, and my parents see something wrong with that and seem to think i'm anti social, when i'm really not.
I don't hang out with my friends from my new school because all they really do is hang around and smoke and go party, and i'm not into that.
My problem: My parents want to send me to boarding school. While I do have some issues, I don't think it's anything that can't be solved where I am.
It's not just that they want to send me away, it's that they've already picked a place for me to go, and i've been accepted. But we still need to get money from my public school in order for me to go. But all that aside, if my parents decide I don't have to go, I don't go.
I've talked with them and explained all of this, i've improved my behavior around the house, and tried to put reason behind all of my actions. But neither of them seem convinced.
Going away to boarding school would kill me, and they don't understand.
How can I convince them not to send me away?
tell them why you dont hang out with the kids at your school and say 'now would you rather me sit here watching tv and being on the computer all day, or become a usless person who smokes and partys?'
my best friends birthday is coming up and i want to get her something special...and i cant get her a neclace bc thats what i got her last year..and it cant jus be money or anything
i need ideass
thanks in advance.
get her something that reminds you two of an inside joke. or make a college of silly photos of eachother. i made my friend a video of pictures we took together and had mandy moore - cry. playing in the backround i made it on windows media player it was so cute she loved it [:
I have a problem saying thank you to people older then me..I don't know why it's not like I have a grudge or something it's just that it jsut doesn't come out.
I used to say thank you in school to everyone and the teachers everytime they hand me a peice of paper but now when people give me something the word thank you won't come out. =S
Liek as a treat, the teacher handed us candy and I couldnt' say thank you and it really slipped off the back of my mind
I really wanted to thank my mom for walking all the wya to the drug store to get me cough drops when i was sick but i dunno..the word just won't come out
hm. i would say that if you think about it youd remember. but that might be annoying to think about that all the time. so i know this might be a little weird but sit in front of a mirror pretend your mom is in front of you and practice what your gonna say. and then when you go to say it to her pretend your just in front of your mirror again.
all i do is get heartbroken lately.
by the same boy, and idk if you saw my other post./
but, he has a girlfriend, and like idk. :(
i want to get over him, but all ive known to love is him lately.
and its so hard, nobody wants me to even like him.
my parents dont even trust him. :(
how, do i get over him. ;(
please, help. please!
think about other things that matter to you. i liked this guy for over 6 months once, and i got over him by telling myself i didnt like him. and i focusing on things that mattered to me more.
Can your metabolism change? Like if you have a slow metabolism over time can it change into a fast metabolism?
Same with fast metabolisms. If you have a fast metabolism can it change into a slower metabolism?
Thank you.
fast metabolims usually do slow which is why people usually gain weight, if they had a fast one when they were young and then it slowed with time but they kept eating the way they did.
slow metabolisms i heard can get faster with hot sauce? im not sure if thats true though. so i wouldnt know that anwser.
ok so ill make this as short as i can. some background info: i went to a private school for 9 years where i had a small extremely close-knit group of friends. their parents were always very strict on them and they werent always allowed to do things most kids/teens can do, which basically irritated me because my mom let me have my freedom as long as i wasnt a little hoodlum you know but they became very close-minded basically because of their parents i guess, although they were good friends. soo after 8th grade i switched schools and sadly lost touch with most of them except my best friend of the group. two years ago in 9th grade i got my cartilage pierced [i already had 2 holes in each lobe.. and she had just gotten her first hole done like the yr before i think because she wasnt allowed before]. she hated it. she said if i get any more piercings she wouldnt talk to me. honestly what kind of friend says that? i was basically like wtf? but let it blow over. and nevertheless i pierced the cartilage on my other ear that summer. she never said anything about it, so it was ok. well our communication became less and less since we both had busy schedules, and we basically didnt talk at all for a long time.. occasionally on myspace or text but didnt see each other. now a month ago i got my industrial pierced but havent seen her since then. well im hanging out with her tomorrow, were going to an amusement park and my hair will have to be up and i know she'll see it.. and cant WAIT to see what shes gonna say about it. same with her mom. what should i do? im obviously not gonna take it out or anything just because she doesnt like it but i know im gonna end up pissed off when she says something about it. i dont care what people think about me with the exception of my close friends and family, so if it was anyone else i wouldnt really care.. but yeahh.. any ways on how to deal so i wont be stuck with her for hours tomorrow being pissed?
tough, because i know i would just get pissed and most likely not say something. i usually deal with my shit online. if she says something just like realize shes acually probably jealous her parents wouldnt allow that. if shes like 'shes a little sleeze bag' or something because i know girls with alot of piercings and people think that about them, i would bitch her out right there, but if its like 'oh.. you got ANOTHER piercing?' be like 'yeah, so?' or something. ha [:
No matter how well my boyfriend fingers me or arouses me, I can't orgasm! I get to the point where I feel like I can't take it anymore, my muscles tense up and have involuntary spasms but then it just stops and my vagina like .. goes numb. I haven't been able to orgasm with a vibrator either. Is something wrong?
take a break. just stop for a while. build up tension and whateverrr. and then after idk a week? try having him finger you and all your sexual pleasurs [sp?] will be released and idk youll hit one.
Okay well im a 13 years old girl im going into Jr.high and like all my friends are going to a different school. Accept for ONE, and she is nice when its just me and her but like she is two faced like alot when she's with me she talks shit about someone and then i'll ask her is there someting about me you dont like? and she say no and then from other people i hear she does talk shit about me and wont tell them what she has said about them. God i mean its horrible. can you answer how i should react to this? and one more question how can i be like top gog/ and or popular in 7th grade? like just popular. ya know
Thanks in advance! :D
part one to your anwser - how to deal with her.
on IM ( i usually deal with shit on IM and im 13 also ) be like hey whats up and stuff and a little on in the conversation not meanly just be like 'so why do i hear your talking shit about me?' or something. and if she says she doesnt be like well i dont want to rat on anyone but ___ amount of people had said so, i like you your a good friend but i dont want to hear your talking about me. and just go from there.
part two - i am popular and i knew i would be from the get go because in my town we have town cheerleaders and almost 90 percent of the girls become popular. and i was one who did become popular. join sports and such thats what i did. ive been in soccer since i was young and most cheerleaders also played soccer, so yah.. ha.
Hello people.
My little sister told me this site gives good advice so i'm just gona use her account to ask this question.
I'm 17 years old and half way through year 12. About 3 months ago i found out i was pregnant which my boyfriend was ecstatic about but anyway this is about university.
I wanted to do something to get into childcare and i know you have to do a course on it for one. because i like children and i would love to work with them and two. because i am going to have a baby soon myself and i would be able to take my baby to work and won't have to leave him/her. My mum works and i know she will be able to take care of the baby sometimes but it's my child and i do want to take care of it myself. I was wondering if there was any other kind of jobs that would allow me to take my child to work? I didn't think there would be many but any suggestions would be good.
Please, i don't want bull about how young i am to have a baby and that i can't possibly take care of it myself i just would like some ideas for different careers i could look into.
P.S Any young mothers out there if you have any advice please tell me.
idk if your planning on going to college or not, but a daycare worker, you could take your daughter to work with you. she would meet new babies and might be friends with them when shes older, im only 13 so im not expirenced here, but thats the only thing i could think of.
anything new only i like different remix's too thankss
buy u a drank - t pain featuring shawty snap
its like oldish newish. like a song thats been around and on the radio for about 3 weeks.