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he's going away and i'm scared
my boyfriend is leaving for the coast guards in november. he has boot camp and then is enlisting for 3 years. he's 19 and i'm 15, will be 16 by the time he leaves. i'm scared about what's going to happen.
we've been going out for ever a year, since june 18, 2006. back in august 2006, my family had it so we couldn see eachother until late october 2006. during that time, we both said we were together, but both cheated on eachother. i made a mistake because i was lonely and didnt think i'd be able to see him ever again and same thing happened to him.
i dont want the same thing to happen, especially since this time, it wont be for a few months, it'll be for several years. i'm scared out of my whits about theis, to the point where i'm in tears bawling right now.
my boyfriend and i are madly in love with eachother, we plan on getting married together some day and having children together. actually, he doesnt know this part yet, but i'm actually pregnant right now. i dont want to be without him, but he says this will make life for us better when he gets out.
how can i make it so we can stay together? has anyone else gone through this before and made it? please help me, i really need it.
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At 19 he is still very much in the middle of a maturing phase.
Hell, Im 22 and Im still very much in the middle of a maturing phase.
Anyway, he might well come back a different person. This could be a good change or a bad change.
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I didnt read the "Im pregnant now" part till just now.
Crap.
Tell him. Immediately. Go from there. I can make no predictions because its all about how he reacts to the news.
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oh boy.
well, if you two are meant to be together, somehow you two will overcome this long distance relationship for the years. I suggest you tell your boyfriend your pregnant as well. You could send him letters, text him on his cell phone if he has one. Ask him to have a picture of him and frame it so you always can see a visual of him when you want too. This is going to be a very hard situation for the both of you. If I think of something else i'll submit another answerr<33
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if your both madly in love, you wont cheat, write letters everday, and before he leaves.. tell him your pregnant im sure he defffff. wont cheat if he knows he has a baby. sorry if this isnt helping /=
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