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My b.f and I have been dating for 10 months and we are really in to each other. Have even made plans for our future. The thing is that hes so ambitious! Were both in our second year of univ. so we both work pretty hard. Thing is that he also has a new part time job thats making him work late hours. I am afraid im not going to see him as much and that our relationship could suffer. Am i being selfish and what should i do? Oh and hes missing out on valentines day this Thursday cause he works. Our first valentines together as well. Im a little down about it. (link)
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it is perfectly normal to be a little upset about not getting to see him as much. however, you have to remember that he needs to have a good job and such to support his schooling and such. but i think it's okay to be upset about him missing valentine's day. esp since it's your first. maybe you could talk to him about it, and tell him you are happy that he is getting more work, but you miss seeing him and ask him if there's any way you could see eack other on valentine's day because it's important to you. good luck.
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Ok, So I downloaded Lime Wire!Result!But everytime i try to search a song it says "lime wire is currently connected to the network.you may not return many results until you are fully connected with the network" and I dont know why!
- i downloaded it perfectly
- internet connection is perfect
- it has downloaded....fully
What could be wrong? how can i fix it
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when it says limewire is currently connected to the network all this means is that you don't have full connection yet. you know the five bars at the bottom left of your screen? they start being red, and then after you connect the bars will start to turn green until you are fully connected and they are all green. if you start a search when less than four bars it will say you are connecting. it doesn't affect the search too much though, and all your songs will download just fine.
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I think i am fat, and i think i am ugly and i dont want to think that.
How can i lose weight without giving up on it and what are good hair and makeup techniches i can use that will make me feel better about myself?
and what are some ways guys can like me and i can flirt with them? (link)
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the best way to lose weight is to cut back or eliminate junk fods and foods that are high in sugar, such as sodas, chips, and desserts. it's okay to treat yourself to a cookie every now and then, just not every day. instead of eating three large meals a day, try eating five small meals a day. this will make your metabolism work harder, and may also increase how fast it works. the faster your metabolism is, the faster it burns calories. it's been suggested that working out before you eat breakfast is a good idea, because there's no calories in your body to burn off, so fat is being burned instead. however make sure you have a little bit of something, even if it's just juice because you don't want to work out on an empty stomach. try doing work outs that are fun so you want to do them, like dancing, playing a sport, or doing some activity with a friend. as for hair and makeup, it's difficult to make suggestions without knowing what your face and hair look like. there are a lot of videos you can find online (on youtube and such) that will give you makeup techniques. for your question about ways guys can like you, and what you can do to make them like you, let them know you're available. when you find someone you like, talk to him. find out what he's interested in. show him you're confident and he may be interested. give subtle hints that you like him, like looking him in the eyes for a long time, leaning close to him when you talk, giving him hugs, etc. good luck.
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im really stressed out
just alot of stuff has been going on lately and its really eating at me, i can't shake it off.
valentines day and my birthday are coming up and i really want to be in a great mood for my boyfriend and friends but i feel horrible and moody. how can i help boost my mood and energy and get rid of this stress QUICK? (link)
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well it's difficult to de-stress in a very short amount of time. however, try doing some things you find fun and relaxing, like reading a book, painting a picture, or watching your favorite movie. try hanging out with your friends. let them know you're little stressed but want to hang out with them and have a good time. i'm sure they will understand. and, having fun with them might help you get rid of some stress. you could try some calming activities, like taking a bubble bath, getting a manicure or facial, or getting a massage. you could also try exercising. not only will this help you get (or stay) in shape, it also releases endorphins, which are chemicals in your brain that make you feel good. hope this helps.
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13/f
what can i get rid of scars with, without letting my mum know.
p.s most stuff i get my mum gets for me. (link)
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there aren't many things that get rid of scars 100%, but there are products that can help. there is a treatment called bio oil, that helps remove scars and stretchmarks, and it can be found at most drugstores, but it's kind of expensive. and if you can't find that you should be able to find some other kind of scar treatment at the drugstore, and since they are sold over the counter your mom wouldn't have to know.
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Umm im an ex-cutter and im usings the rubber band thing but i think im gettin addicted to it.
Im after any advice or input on this matter.
thanks in advance.
P.S dont tell me to see a counsellour or sumthing.
P.P.S dont tell me thats its not a good thing to not want to see a counsellor. (link)
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well, my answer may be kind of biased as i am also an ex-cutter and have used the rubber band method, but i think it is okay. i know a lot of people that use this method, and it's way better than cutting. if it is a good outlet for you then i think that is all that matters.
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there is this boy i like but he is dating someone but she treats him like ____ i want to get him a rose should i (link)
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it is probably not a good idea to get him a rose when he is in a relationship with someone else.it would most likely cause conflict with his girlfriend and stress him out and confuse him. the best thing to do is hope that he sees he is in a bad relationship, and make sure you stay friends with him and get to know him better so when he does realize he can do better, he will think of you.
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I want to be an interior designer or a marine bioligist . How can I choose between the two? and what colleges should i go to (link)
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well hopefully you have plenty of time to decide which career path you want to take. but to help you choose you could make a list of pros and cons that come with each job, and see which one has more pros. you also have to consider what you're looking for. if you're looking for a job that will let you be more creative, then you would choose interior designer. if you want a job that pays more money, you would probably choose marine biologist. also, you have to consider how much work you are willing to do to get your career and how long you are willing to go to college. becoming a marine biologist will take more years of school and more complicated classes, while becoming an interior designer will take less. a good college for becoming an interior designer would be the fashion institute of design and merchandising, they have about 3 or 4 different schools but they're all in california. the university of maine hasan excellent marine biology program. hope this helps.
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13/f to be 14 i'm having a dance bday party. I want some good ideas for party games.
also any decoration ideas (link)
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it's good that you have a theme for your party because that gives you some ideas to start working with. there aren't a lot of games you could play that relate to dancing, but if you have a game system like a playstation, you could play dance dance revolution. you could play twister, because that can be a lot of fun when played with a lot of people and when there's music involved. you could have a dance competition and see who has the best dance moves. you could watch some popular dance movies, like flashdance, footloose, step up, and center stage. if you have a video camcorder you could record some people doing funny dance moves and watch it later. as for decoration you can decorate however you want with this theme, even things as simple as streamers and balloons would be okay. if you're going to have good music playing and the people you invite like to dance, you shouldn't really have to have much more stuff to do besides that, i just went to a five hour dance party and that's all we did and it was plenty of fun. good luck.
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so this guy who im practically in love with
fingered me for the first time a few weeks ago
and like it hurt but i thought it was cause he was using 2 fingers
but that night i realized that i could fit my whole finger inside me
did he pop my cherry?
i don't recall blood though (link)
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he probably didn't pop your cherry because there should've been at least a little bit of blood, however it is possible, the first time i had sex it hurt but i didn't get very much blood at all it was hardly noticable. it's probably just because you were being stretched though.
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14/f
so me and this guy, we have no interest in a relationship
we've liked each other on and off for 3 years
i really love him
he loves me
i've given him a blow job
hes eaten me out
fingered
handjob
we've made out with just bottoms on
we've talked about sex
i love the feeling of being fingered while we're topless
am i ready for sex? (link)
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if you have to ask if you're ready then you're probably not. it's something you have to decide yourself, no one else can make that decision for you. you have to know. physically you're probably ready, but maybe not emotionally.
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This is for any cutters out there.
Im an ex-cutter who is still stuggling.
It would be greatly appreciated if anyone could tell thier cutting stories.
Also mention the country you live in-this is out of curiosity as im an aussie and would like to know how much this happens in australia and other countries. (link)
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well... i started cutting in 7th grade on my arms i would do two or three a night to the point where i had fifty to sixty on each arm, but then i stopped cuz i didnt want to get caught. in eighth grade i started again but only under my watch and stuff so it was hidden. i did it in ninth grade on my legs and i now have 20-30 permanent scars on my thighs and always have to wear long shorts :( my mom caught me and yelled at me about it awhile ago, but im in tenth grade now and have started again. i live in america btw.
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umm on the radio i heard this song.
the first 2 lines are "i never made it as a wise man,
i never made it as a poor man stealing"
and in the chorus its like
"this is hoe you remind me of who i realy am, its not like you to say sorry"etc.
ta. (link)
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"how you remind me" by nickelback
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Ok, so, I had sex with my boyfriend for the first actual time on Feb. 2. I really love him, and we have been together for a long time, and we were both ready. We stopped a few minutes before he came, and he had a condom. What are the chances I'm pregnant? [I'm sure you hear this all the time, but, it's a question that I feel is serious.]
Thanks. (link)
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if he had a condom on and he pulled out before he came it is HIGHLY unlikely that you are pregnant. really. condoms have a 98% efficiency rate at being effective in protection, and if you stopped before he came there is little to no chance you are pregnant.
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I loathe silence. I cannot sleep if it is quiet.
I used to have my TV on at a low volume, and it was usually on the news, but then my TV broke, and the with the new one, there isn't a sleeptimer.
What are some soothing artists to sleep to? Nothing nature, please.
But some calming indie instrumental songs or artists.
Thank you. (link)
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secondhand serenade is a great band to listen to at night, all their music is acoustic (or sounds it) and is very easy to go to sleep to. also, a lot of dashboard confessional songs are peaceful and quiet.
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What are some good love songs
Not like buddy holly but new age
Such as
Amazed by lonestar
Im crazy for this Girl Lifehouse
THanks (link)
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-"the best thing" relient k
-"must have done something right" relient k
-"i'm taking you with me" relient k
-"take me with you" secondhand serenade
-"hands down" dashboard confessional
-"stolen" dashboard confessional
-"all around me" flyleaf
-"love song" anberlin
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does sex hurt the first time? like what type of pain is it? could you give me an example of what it feels like. also, like what happens? how much blood comes out of the vagina? Also, how long does sex last? on your first time, do you feel regret or guilt after "doing it" ? (link)
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how much sex hurts depends on the person. you have to think about something the size of a banana or cucumber being put in your vagina. its going to have to stretch and thats going to hurt. bleeding also varies. you could bleed just a little, or a lot but it shouldn't last longer than a couple days. how long also depends. guys have told me their first time was usually very short, between 1-3 minutes. you shouldn't feel regret or guilt about doing it, if you do you weren't ready so make sure you are before you do anything. however, you might feel a little sad, because you only get your first time once. good luck.
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please help! ok i know there are probably tons of questions about valentines day and i know i've seen a bunch but please bear through this one for me! hahaha :] it'll be greatly appreciated! ok so i dont know what to get my boyfriend!! hes very into sports but i have NO idea about sports. and music but he lost his ipod and i do NOT have enough $ to buy him one :/ hes also Christian and collects monopoly games (well hes been given so many its like he collects them lol) maybe something romantic or something we can do together? also i was thinking of buying him a nice shirt but hes not that into clothes-but i am. he said he would like it if i got him a shirt but should i?? when it comes to buying him a gift i get really stressed out because im worried he will secretly not like it/want it! im gonna kiss him for part of his gift and i bought him a card and i bought him a box of chocolate but idk what to do for like a main gift! He is good at buying me gifts and sumtimes just does it to be sweet but im so bad at it! and i know he will love anything i get him but i never believe that-even when he says it!! PLEASE help and THANK YOU!! I hope you all have a wonderful valentines day! :] (link)
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you don't have to buy him a new ipod for a gift, but you could buy him a cd of his favorite band or one that he likes and you know he doesn't have, that way he can have some music to listen to without his ipod. if you know what his favorite sports team is, you could get him a shirt with that on it. you could make him a mixed cd with songs you know he likes, or songs that remind you of him, romantic songs, etc. if you happen to know a type of monopoly game he doesn't have you could get him that. or, you could make him a nice dinner if you can cook. you could offer to do something he wants to do, lke go bowling or go see a movie he wants to and offer to pay for it. if he reads you could get him a book by his favorite author. it sounds like you already have a little bit planned out, and as long as he sees you put thought into it and took some time he will appreciate it.
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Im making a cd for my boyfriend for valentines day. I have some songs...but im having trouble finding enough. I wanna put songs that say something about like being in love....and all that but i dont want them to be like mushy songs...like songs he might like.... (link)
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here are some songs i have used in my cd's:
-"taking you with me" relient k
-"the best thing" relient k
-"must have done something right" relient k
-"all around me" flyleaf
-"stolen" dashboard confessional
-"chasing cars" snow patrol
-"wouldn't it be nice" beach boys
-"hands down" dashboard confessional
-"first time" lifehouse
-"my wish" rascal flatts
-"our time now" plain white t's
-"love song" anberlin
-"take me with you" secondhand serenade
i hope you like some of these and find that some of them will work. i tried to include a variety of song types (genres, artists, etc.) and i think almost all of these are songs that a guy would enjoy listening to. good luck.
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umm well..my boyfriend ate me out..sorry this is kind of a weird ? but like is this weird cuz im only 14(female) and he fingered me like 2 weeks ago and a week after he did that i got my period and now this happened..i feel like something could be wrong with my vagina..any advice??
sorry kind of a stupid question haha.
thanks! (link)
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its not weird that you got your period a week after or that he ate you out, although you might be a bit young for that. besides that though, its doubtful that anything is wrong. i'm sure you're fine. however, if you start bleeding and its not from your period you may have a problem.
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