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Fattt


Question Posted Monday February 11 2008, 10:11 pm

I think i am fat, and i think i am ugly and i dont want to think that.
How can i lose weight without giving up on it and what are good hair and makeup techniches i can use that will make me feel better about myself?
and what are some ways guys can like me and i can flirt with them?


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aidenisfire answered Tuesday February 12 2008, 3:51 pm:
the best way to lose weight is to cut back or eliminate junk fods and foods that are high in sugar, such as sodas, chips, and desserts. it's okay to treat yourself to a cookie every now and then, just not every day. instead of eating three large meals a day, try eating five small meals a day. this will make your metabolism work harder, and may also increase how fast it works. the faster your metabolism is, the faster it burns calories. it's been suggested that working out before you eat breakfast is a good idea, because there's no calories in your body to burn off, so fat is being burned instead. however make sure you have a little bit of something, even if it's just juice because you don't want to work out on an empty stomach. try doing work outs that are fun so you want to do them, like dancing, playing a sport, or doing some activity with a friend. as for hair and makeup, it's difficult to make suggestions without knowing what your face and hair look like. there are a lot of videos you can find online (on youtube and such) that will give you makeup techniques. for your question about ways guys can like you, and what you can do to make them like you, let them know you're available. when you find someone you like, talk to him. find out what he's interested in. show him you're confident and he may be interested. give subtle hints that you like him, like looking him in the eyes for a long time, leaning close to him when you talk, giving him hugs, etc. good luck.

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CalamitySami answered Tuesday February 12 2008, 12:14 am:
If you want guys to like you, you need to be comfortable in your own skin. So if you are really self conscious about how you look, and your weight, it will be noticeable.
I suggest, that each day, write down five things about yourself that you like. It can be about your appearance and your personality. Five things, not four, or three. But Five.
This will help build up your confidence, and that is the sexiest thing a woman can have. Now thats a start.
Also remember that You are always going to be your own worst critic. While people may look at you and think that you look pretty, or cute, or beautiful. You may not always feel the same way as people see you.
So if you want to wear make up, make sure to find a brand that works well with your skin. Less is always more! so don't layer it on.(and I'll let you in on a secret: Guys love it when girls don't have to wear make up. They think girls look so much more beautiful with out it.(guys also like it when your hair is down)

Learn to not be so critical about your self. the more positive you think, the more it will show in how you carry yourself

-CalamitySami

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Solcito answered Tuesday February 12 2008, 12:11 am:
I will answer what I can. (I'm a guy and don't know anything about makeup). I would say that joining a gym would be a good way to lose weight. I find that taking classes and being around other people when I work out keeps me motivated. Long runs by yourself are great and can be relaxing, but until you get really motivated, it can be hard to keep it up. Try to really think about what you eat as well. Also, keep track of your progress. Take a picture of yourself and weigh in now. Then, in a month do it again. Make it a competition against yourself. Setting goals for yourself and accomplishing them can be one of the most rewarding experiences ever.

As far as guys go, I can tell your biggest problem right now. Your self image is horrible. Confidence is one of my biggest turn ons in girls. It has often been said that if you don't love yourself, how can you expect anyone else to love you? Work on getting in shape, but more than anything, on thinking positively about yourself. When you start to do that, guys will notice you and the flirting will be irrelevant.

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