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The other night I had sex. My period left about 8 hours before I had sex that night. All of a sudden in the middle of me and my boyfriend doing it, I started bleeding. It was weird thought because we stopped having sex and the next morning, nothing was on the tampon. Did I bleed because I had my period or could I have just been sensitive down there? (link)
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it could possibliy be sensitivity, if you were on your period you woulda had mood swings and probably would'nt want to have sex. but you should get tested to see if your pregnet. Anyway, hope this helps
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ok last month after a 4 month relationship i accused my gf of cheating ... idk sum random girl popped up on aim and told me this and i was the dumbass who believed her. n e ways we kinda stopped talking for a while and i really want her back, i've liked her sooo long i cant even imagine NOT liking her, shes the only gf i've had and im the only bf she's had. and i really want her trust back.
and i dont want the "just start randomly talking to her" thing i want honest answers that require thought, also i would prefer girls answer this question (link)
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i may be no girl but i know your situation. Any woman, honestly, wouldn't give you any good advice. Okay, so you screwed up. Usualy it's the girlfriends, friends taht try to break you up just to interfear cuase they have nothing else to do and they're jealous. the thing you want to do is wonder why you have a girlfriend anyway. you're 14, you REALLY shouldn't have feelings for anyone. lession learn, think before you act, i've done some dumbass stuff like accuse someone but it was diffrent. Anyway i shoudln't sweat it lil man, besides, she'll come to you, just forget about it. Hope this helps
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I am rarely sexually aroused and then when I become "excited" I lose interest as soon as foreplay begins. What is my problem? Is there anything that I can do to fix this problem? Any advice is much appreciated. thank you! (link)
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It just means your not interested in sexual activity right now. I'm not as sexually active cuase i have no intrest right now. It's probably becouse deep inside your not as interested as you think you are. The body's another mind and both melt into one. so realy, there's nothing wrong with you. Just phycological. Hope it helps
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Hey
Does anyone know any good novel books you would recommend reading. I want to read but i want to read something good. Help! I rate 5's.
Can it be for ages 12-16 PLEASE?
thanks again! (link)
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there's a book called "The Blue Dragon" it's actually pretty good. and "Cutless Empire" both are good books, cutless empire though's pretty old. so might wanna try a thrift shop or ebay.
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is there a tracking device in an ipod nano? mine got stolen and i dont know who has it. we have a very big school too. =/
thanks ill rate (link)
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That's too bad that you got your ipod stolen, but as for the tracking system im not sure about it. I don't have one but im sure if you tell the sellsman about it he'll probably tell you something. seriously though, take care of your stuff. i don't care if it was in your backpack or anything , you shoulda just either left it at home or have it in your pocket, rather than a backpack. Hope this helps
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is it odd to date somebody a year younger then you, and he's a little bit shorter then you?
Im a female.
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usualy the guy has to be taller than the female, and a lil older. That's just the standard thing though. If age and hight don't matter then theres really nothin wrong. it's better than a year younger instead of a couple years, know what i mean? hope this helps
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So I've been trying to use tampons for a while now but I still can't seem to get it right. I used to be afraid of them but now I'm over it. Their tampons...whatever. But every time I get one in, I can still kind of feel it, like, at the end...which sounds wierd, I know. It's like it's not in far enough and I keep trying to get it in farther but its just not working...am I stupid or something? I mean, I'm trying, but it just won't work. It doesn't hurt or anything putting them in Are you supposed to be able to feel them? Any tips as to how far to put them in? I'm just confused as to why it won't work cause I have to swim tonight. (link)
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na na your doing fine, just don't put them in TOO far otherwise you'll have a hardtime getting it out. Just put it in enough so teh lil string could come outso you can pull it out. Hope this helps
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About 3 weeks ago i had sex with this kid hes 16. Well While we had sex he didnt use a condum untill i asked him to. (i know i should have asked a head of time)(but its to late for that now)well im having the feeling im pregnant (scary thought) i was going to wait a couple more weeks and take a test. And Suggestions? and if the test is positive what should i do? please help im almost 15 and really scared at this moment (link)
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well, first you need to be tested if your pregnet and if you have any HIV or STD's, next if you are pregnet and you don't want to take care of it, you could take it to your local fire station and have them take care of it, no questions asked. If your not (god hopeing) i hope you learned a vauleable lession on sex, yea the media says it's a normal thing but it only is if your MARRIED. hope this helps.
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Ok, so me and this guy were going out, and I mean everything seemed pretty good. We both loved each other, or at least I thought he loved me. But then we broke up, because he said that it felt weird, and that our love felt like we shouldnt be together now, but in the future. And he told me that he was raelly messed up in the head about this whole thing, as was I. So we broke up, and we hadnt talked for a few days, then I find out he already has a g/f and he's already had relationships with her before. So, I've been having a difficlut time letting go of him, because I really do love him, and I want him. But EVERYTHING, and I mean everything reminds me of him. And so its sorta difficult to let go, when everything reminds me of him. So what do you guys think I should do? Because right now, I am real confused about if I should let go, or just wait for him? And what are some good ways to let go of him? Like how am I supposed to do it, cus I've tried alot of ways, maybe I'm trying to let go to fast...Thanks for any help, I'll rate 5's for all answers.
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For a 13 year old you seem to be cought up in this "love thing. Although i understand how you must feel. Love is a very fickle thing, it changes one way to the next, not all things end up as happy as those damn pre-teen movies. The best way to let go is to just live your life, im not saying just forget ti ever happened couse that could surpres emotions that will grow into insanity. For someone so young you should focus on other things in life, like school, having fun, and or any hobbies. I was tought that love was nothing more than a shallow emotion that will distracted you and leave you in sarrow. I'm sorry this happened but guys usualy make up things like this, i don't know why but most men are jerks anyway. Be strong young one and just let go, let go of your sarrow for you have bigger and better things in the future than boys and relationship. why be everyone else when you could just be yourself? i hope this helps, good luck.
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i can't really explain my love for this one guy. And it's not like teenage-i-like-you thing. i think about him all the time, and some nights i literally cry myself to sleep about him. i don't know what to do. my friends say i should ask him out or they could ask him out for me, but i just can't. i talk to him a lot but it's just not enough...please help. what should i do? (link)
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aaah i see, well i guess you know what this means but are afraid to do it ya? Your going to have to tell him how you feel about him. The worse thing to do would be to have your lil friends talk for you, it shows that your an immature lil pre-teen, who can't handle her own problems. Seriously you should tell him befopre he's taken away by fate. If this... "love" emotion people have is serious enough to have you cry yourself to sleep then you have face your fears and do it. When i was in high school i used to like this girl, she was very very pretty; jet black hair, classes, the whole sha bang a' bang. Anyway agenst all odds and rumors waiting to be put on me, i successfully told her how i felt, although i was rejected it's great to know what could've and what coulda been. what i do, i do with no regrets. I hope this helps, good luck
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I am in desperate need of some advice. My girlfriend, I am so worried about her. She is always saying how fat she is, and she is not. But I know every girl says that, but she is going to the extrememe and it is stressing her out so much. She is trying to become anorexic again, and I just don't know what to do to help her realize that she is the most beautiful girl to walk this planet, and that she is not fat...I tell her that every single day...and she still is like this...I am so worried, please some advice on something I can do to help her understand that she is beautiful..
Oh and I forgot a lot of this came from her dad calling her fat when she was little... (link)
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I see your perdicamint, it seems that while she was young and emotinal and mentaly valnorable, her dad seems to have scared her pretty bad. i'm not saying that there's nothing you can do, pretty much there's not much you can do except confront her serious one on one talk. You'r going to have to tell her that what she's doing is completely dangerous and could lead up to a desease that could end up consuming herself. this type of shit's pretty bad. Just talk to her, if you guys go to the same school or something talk to a counsiler. Hope this helps
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okay i need really good advice for this. my friend, he has some problems from the past dealing with family and friends. that's understandable, but he's really controlling. he used to cut and now threatens to kill himself. would he go through with it? probably not, but there's always that chance one day he might just break, ya know? well he doesn't like people i hang around with like my bf, friends, etc etc. he's very very controlling and today he asked me to choose my friends or him. well i obviously want to be with my friends, but i'm afraid he's going to do something stupid like he says. i really need help. everyone says "you shouldn't be friends with him if he treats you this way" but if you were in my situation (maybe some of you are) you definately know what i mean and how i feel about this subject. any ideas??
thanks!! (link)
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i would consider talking to himone on one. just pull him away and treight out talk to him, tell him how you feel and how he should be himself. That life itself is hard on its own and to just move on. If you dwell on some things it will consume you and you will be lost in the past forever. In order to have a happy life, he has to move on and just forget. Tell him that suicide is just a pussy way of getting out, and it wont solve anything. Also, tell him that he is the bigger man to just let go and not let it get the best of him. hope this helps
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are your wisdom teeth suposed to hurt when they come in? If they do does it eventually stop once they completely come in? See mine are coming in. i Have 2 already and the other two on my right side is just killing me. i see them coming through and there in the same spot as the other ones on the other side. but they just hurt. i dunno why. And to top it off im so affraid of the dentist i just dont tell anyone they hurt. I CANT go there. biggest fear of mine.
any ideas? 5's for good advice (link)
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mine used to hurt too when they were commin in. The reason why is cuase they're normally browing in the back. People have them pulled out cuase usualy they rub agenst the other back teeth cuasing serious pain. I still have mine cuase they didn't interfere, all teeth hurt when they come it. The gums are sensitive for now, but if they hurt so bad that you can't stand it after they fully grow in. Get them pulled out, hope this helps
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ok there is this guy that im starting to like again. we used to date about 4 moths ago but we were never boyfriend/girlfriend then he stopped talking to me and we didnt talk that whole 4 months now he broke up withhis girlfriend a couple weeks ago and he started talking to me again for the past couple days everytime he saw me he came tell me hey. do you think that he is starting to like me again?? or do you think that hes just being friendly?? (link)
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the emotions of a male carbon unit is quite more complex than what a femal says. He could be just going though about his business or he's making room for you. Just play it by ear, he may like or not. Either way just keep talking to him, communications the key. Hope this helps
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so ive taken preg tests from my school twice.. nd they both came out that im NOT pregnant and they are sposed to be really good pregnancy tests.. but im sitll 8 weeks late for my period..
WHAT SHOULD I DO? what do you think? (link)
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hmmm, sometimes women can be late by a natural status. even so you could ask your mom about it. If it becomes a wee problem you could also go to the nurse at school or doctor. Hope this helps
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So I really like my best friend's baseball coach. No, not a joke. Really have feelings for him. Sound stupid I know. He's 28, single and gorgeous like no other.
At fist it was just a crush on older guy type thing. Now it's a he's soooo great, easy to talk to, and actually have feelings for him type thing.
How on earth do I get over this? I've tried to stop talking to him and stuff but then I just end up think about him all day.
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kinda tough to have feelkings for someone who's older than you. Although you may think it's "love" or someother 4 letter word, it's just a phase that will pass.
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I am thirteen years old and I have two dogs and two cats. As much as I love my dogs right now, they are very old and they cant run or play or anything. Ive always wanted a small dog of my own but my parents say I cant have one. Should I keep on trying to get them to let me have a dog or should I lay off? (link)
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i have two dogs and three cats,( which are pretty old) i had my dogs for a while and i too want a lil doggy dog ^^ But as much as i would love one i have these to take care of. It's best to accept what you have and appriceate it. even though mines senile, fat, and just plain lazy at least i know that they'll be with me as mans best friend. For now i guess just stay with what you got. even though everything doesn't last forever, the present is what is worth more. Spend time with the old doggies, make em feel loved. Well hope this helps
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Ive never really told anyone this but here goes... I am 13/f and I like hollister, abercrombie, etc., I have alot of friends, I have a boyfriend, all the usual. Anyways I dont know how to explain this but I feel like a boy. I wear girl clothes, and I like boys and stuff(im not lesbian) but inside I just feel like a boy. I think its really weird. I used to wear guy clothes and stuff but that was when I was younger. Do you guys think this is weird or what? Is there like anything I can do to fix this annoying problem? Or at least I hope im not bi... (link)
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no no it's nothing sexual or bi or anything. Nothing wrongs happening. Just means your a tomboy. You like to do things diffrently then the stereotypical girly girl thing, which i wish a lot of girls did instead of pretending to be fo damn helpless and stingy lil punks. Anyway, its great how what your feeling, why not express it. Just be yourself you have a full lifetime before reality destroys you. hell wear baggy pants, do guy stuff, your boyfriend will probably converse with you more cuase he like a women who understands what he feels and wants to do. Hope this helps
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i have that and whenever i run scans the critical objects are usually tracking cookie and Booked Space.. i dont use internet explorer and i dont get how i can get tracking cookie because i deleted it ..but it still runs and what is booked space? what can i do to get rid of it.. thanks . ill rate 5's if you help (link)
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looks like you need a system clean up. ok here's what you do, go to start and use search. then type in disk cleanup, a lil hardrive witha lil brush should come up. what it does is cleans up all the excess files in there. Next go back to search and look for disk defragmenter. It tightens up all loose files so it will make your compy run a lil smoother. Go to search again and look up cookies, they're just a memory log of what you looked up. just highlighte and drag to the trash bin. hope it helps
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Tomorow I have an early morning practice for volleyball, and you have to shower afterwards. Well, I'm on my period, and I'm not yet comfortable with tampons. I don't want to be bleeding in the shower infront of all the girls so I was gonna wear a tampon with a bathing suit just in case. Well my flow is really light right now, so I don't want to use a tampon, but I don't want my bathing suit turning red or me bleeding in the shower! What should I do? =D (link)
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you should tell your instructer before the game about your predicamint. hopefully he/she will understnd about it and ask if you can shower after the rest of the girls shower. Or you could do the bathing suit thing, i mean you could always wash it later right? either one's good. Still though, just ask the instructer before hand ya? well hope it helps
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