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My names Jenny and I'm a 16 year old girl, oviously. I'll help you with anything you ask, so ask away. But if your gonna ask a dumb question, you'll get a dumb answer. And try not to start shit. This site is for helping people, not a way to bitch at people beacause your board and have nothing better to do. I know most about sex ;), Buddy4u Profiles, Xanga's, Html, Mental help..Like cutting, depression, and suicide, and love life. I will try as hard as I can to help you, and give you my honest awnser, weather it may upset you or not.













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My friend and i have been best friends for a really long time but now i think i am losing her to a girl she used to not like but now does for some reason my friend thinks she has to lie to me about what they r doing this new girl is really nice and i love her to death but i dont want to lose my best friend to her how shud i handle this shud i talk to her about it and let her know how i feel or shud i just let her have some space???

Aw well thats hard. You should let her have her space but still tell her how you feel. (Really telling somone how you feel helps) She will probably understand and I'm sure she doesnt want you to feel this way, and try and make you not feel like that. If shes your best friend your not gona losse her. Your friend is probably just making some new friends. Maybe you and them can hang out together. Good luck!! If you have ne more q's or more to add about this u can ask me again! - Jenny

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ok i just dyed my hair dark brown and it looks almost black and i was wondering of some cute wys to do my makeup so it doesnt look bad it is a rly big change and i dont kno what to do!!

Use a pinkish lip gloss and black eyeliner with a little black eyeshadow. It doesnt look goth or anything, it looks really cute.

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muh lil sister , is always tellin me what 2 do and i've tryed almost everything to let her no that im older and that im not always gonna listen 2 her but she still finds wys 2 push me around can sum 1 give me advice im out of option?

Dont let her push you around, stand up for yourself. If she tells you to do somthing just ignore her. Let her knows whos boss. She'll get the idia soon that she isnt if you push her around a little.

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im bored and i really cant call muh friends and every time i get on the phone muh lil sister is always there tellin me to get off its like she's muh boss what should i do she bosses me around every where and everything includin muh fiance' and i dont no what 2 do anymore and i give her so much and the sad part is she understands everything that happens she's 13 plz write me back

Dont let her boss you around. You are bigger and can tell her to stop bossing you. Just stand up for urslef!! Dont let her get her way all the time.

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i am a swimmer, i want to be on the high school team but i am nervous!!! about that i am not going to make state quals.
please help me!!
-ginger

Dont worry about it. Just do your best and I bet you'll make it!

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Well,i have a problem.

Me n this boy started going out. He was so sweet to me, and so damn nice, i really loved him. Then he started to get a lil more being a jerk. Thats just him, i let it pass, because he was just being a guy. He said a few things that bothered me, i told him, he told me he was sorry millions of times. You know. i let it all pass. Then he broke up with me, cause " He didnt want a gf" We've been going out for 3 months and he was my first boyfriend and i really loved him alot, he seemed like he really loved me to. I was heartbroken. Then about 4 days after we broke up, he went online and i was talking to him. He told me " God i cant take it anymore, I love you more then anything, will you be my GF again?" and just because im stupid, i said yes. Should i stay with him and risk getting hurt again.. or break up with him.. IDK what to do, cause i really love him..He even told me if i broke up with him he'd practically kill himself because he couldnt live without me.. please help!

I think you should stay with him. If he said that I'm sure he ment it bcuz he could have found a different girl. But instead he wants you so he must really love u and care about you. If you really love him then you should stay with him. Guys a lot of times are always jerks and make big mistakes that they later regret and are really sorry for. Take a chance, everyone makes mistakes. Good luck, Plz rate. -Jenny xoxo

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Does any one here like the sims?? if so please tell me some cheats.

Rosebud then type ! and i have a lot more too much to type. U can send me more q's if u want.

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hi there i have a big black head problem i have a million black heads on my nose and a few around my eyes...whats the best way to get rid of them without them coming back???????? HELP!!!!

Proactive really works!! I use that. Also just washing your face twice a day with clearsel helps.

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Do you think my brother's gay? He got caught looking at male porn once and hasn't had a girlfriend.. he's 23..

Hey, I think your brother is gay. If he hasnt had one and looks at male porn, I'm sure he is. good luck.

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what's a good way to make friends?

By commenting them at first. That always starts up a converstaion.

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ok well i like someone alot and that person likes me alot too, i wanna ask the person out but everybody tells me not to that i should wait for the person to ask me...should i just ask the person or should i wait? cuz it does seem like the person is gonna ask me...what should i do?

Hm well I would wait for him to ask you out. The guy ususaly asks the girls out ne ways.

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My boyfriend and I are going to become sexually active soon and I just have one problem. I told him I'm a virgin and I'm really not. No one knows that I've had sex once before and I cannot tell him or anyone because of specific reasons. He's not a virgin either, but will he be able to tell I'm not?

No he wont be able to tell.

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I was at a party and i started to really flirt with this kid and he responded and everything went ok...then someone told me that everyone thought i liked him so i stopped flirting right away, but he started asking me questions about who i liked and he started telling me about his g/f and what's wrong with her. He asked me if i dance and i said yes, then he started trying to do like splits and different dance steps. Everyone started to think he liked me...do you think thats true or was he just being nice?

I think he likes you!

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Hey...I'm just starting the 9th grade..and it sux! Last year I had SO many friends and people I knew in my classes and alot of people knew me...but they split the middle schools into 2 different highschools..and this year there is like NO ONE I know in my classes and at lunch! I can be a really friendly person but I'm really shy and just can't seem to make any new friends? Please Help..

I would try hanging out with your old friends and let them invite some new ones that they made. That way you can become friends with them and they might be in your lunch.

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I am 14 and i havent started my period. I have been have this white stuff come out for about a year now and sometimes very heavily. Is there something wrong with me? I thought I would of started my period by now..

Nothing is wrong with you. You ususaly get that when your period is about to start or because your period is a little late.

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Today when i went to the bathroom i noticed that i had ALOT of discharge in my underwear what could it be? should i do anything about it?

That could be a yeast infection. U can get sum medicne from a drug store to help out with that.

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hey, guess who?

I'm glad it is all trendy 'n shit for everyone and their sister to ask for a screen name. But you konw what, if you can't think of one yourself, what the hell? And people asking for nicknames - most people I know get nicknames from their friends, not random strangers on an advice site...

But for the love of God, can we stop it with the "give me a screen name" requests? That's just kinda sad.

I mean, how many of the same exact "question" do we need?

They just rnt creative n cant think of one. It's not a bad thing.

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I keep making myself throw up in the shower and my boyfriend just broke up with me but i dont think im fat or anything whats wrong with me? Am i bilemic? i dont think im fat... but i am kinda suicidal and i do cut myself sometimes.... is it just a way for pain or what... someone help me out!!

Hey I think your throwing up just might be another way to harm yourself, like cutting. I dont think you are bilemic but you might be trying to get pain out of throwing up. If it continues, and you are starting to have feelings that you are fat you probably are bilemic and need to see somone about that. Good luck. -Love Jenny :)

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um i was wondering...what does an orgasm feel like? like right before it happens and when it does. im not sure if i almost had one bc if felt like i had 2 pee..it was really weird thx for the advice..xoxo..i rate good!

Hey..Um an orgasam is kina hard to explain how it feels. It almost feels tingly and REALLY good. You would feel it coming on. Idk..lol..good luck. -Jenny

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Ive liked this kid for almost a year now and I like him a lot but he likes another girl. He told me he liked me and he wont go out with her because hes been thinking about me but there always together and it bugs me. I cry a lot cuz i really like him. What should I do?

Hey I think you should let him know how you feel. Tell him that you like him and possibly want to be together. Let him know that it bugs you to see him and that other girl together. If he litsens to you then he really does like you and I'm sure you guys will end up going out. Good luck!! -Jenny xox0

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