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Alright. I have a bit of a dialema on my hands. I really like this guy [who happens to be my boyfriend]. I think I might love him but I'm scared to say so because of previous experiences.
But I goofed up. Big time. I cheated and gave a guy a handjob. It was a dare. And I know that doesn't make it any better at all, but you have to understand, I didn't want to.
So I told my boyfriend because guilt has been bothering me for a while and apparently, alot of people knew about it. He was mad. I haven't talked to him in three days unless you count a minute long conversation yesterday.
I need to know he's okay, that he doesn't hate me; even though I know he has every right to. I betrayed him. So do I try and get him to talk to me? Or do I back off? I don't want to bother him and make him more angry but I don't want it to seem like I don't care enough to see how he's doing! Argh! I'm so damn stupid. Why would I do that?! (link)
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"I'm so damn stupid"
Slutty acts call for such a reaction from your boyfriend.
You can always turn a dare down, and saying that you couldn't is a bunch of bullshit. Don't deny the fact you could have.
Did you not turn it down because you wanted to? I don't know many people that would do that for the hell of it... (I lied. I do, but they're a bunch of sluts who fuck anything that moves. Is that what you are or are becoming?)
Give him some space, I'm sure for one he isn't happy with the entire fiasco sifting through the school halls. Hell, I know I wouldn't be happy knowing my GF just did that to some other guy, and I'd be incredibly pissed to know she'd do it off of a dare and didn't have the balls -rhetorically speaking- to actually turn it down.
Leave him alone, but try to talk to him here and there, to let him know you're at least interested. Just say you apologize for being a slut to him by way of text, either by phone or by aim etc.
Completely ignoring him would make him think you've moved on and he should do (if he isn't already preparing to do that.)
As for you last question "Why would I do that?"
That's really fucking great. Why would you? Give it some thought and rethink where your heart really is. If you actually loved this guy would you have done what you did? Why did your past relationships break up?
Don't make up excuses for yourself saying "it was a dare I HAD to." That's a bunch of bullshit.
You've gotta rethink your priorities.
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Does it actally hurt your first time? Why? Do you bleed???? how long does it last? (link)
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Possibly.
Yes.
That depends on how long you want it to.
*EDIT*
In reply to your comment in the rating; I'm not exactly sure. I'm a guy, so it's all fun and games the entire time for me. You'll have to wait for the girls to start answering to know the actual extent of it.
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ok i just bought a camcorder from the pawn shop, and it didn't come with instructions :/ it has a tape in it and the tape has something on it but i don't know exactly how to start recording, the tape doesn't have much stuff on it but do i need a new tape? it came with all the cord's and stuff but i don't know how to work the thing. site's would be helpful, much loveeee:]
k'laaaa (link)
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You shouldn't need a new tape, most tapes when just rewound are capable of being written over.
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i want to get a pet rabbit. i want a reeallllly small rabit. what type of rabbit could i get that is really small?
thanks! (link)
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A baby rabbit!!
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okay well yesterday i went to the doctors for my check up and they made me pee in a cup ... which they never make me do and she said it was to check for any diseases ( is an HIV/AIDS test done by peeing in a cup?) or could it be a drug test
Thanks i was just curious =) (link)
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If they said they were checking for diseases, that's what they were doing. Generally, your doctor/nurse wouldn't lie to you about what they're doing.
No doubt, if you are on a certain something, they could pick up traces of in your urine.
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Hello =)
I've had an Ipod Nano 2 generation for a little over 6 months, and I love it to death. But it's just a silver one, and it only holds 2gs and i'm afraid i'll soon run out of room on it. I was looking on the internet and seen a new mp3 player called a Zune, and thought it was just the cutest thing. At first I wouldn't dream of trading in my Ipod, but the I noticed that the Zune held 30gs!
What do you think? Should I trade in the Ipod for the Zune or not? (link)
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Keep the iPod. Zune was a failed attempt at Microsoft to compete with Apple.
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what does it mean when they say find yourself? and how do i do that? because i want to find myself this summer! (link)
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Watch the movie "Fight Club."
Perhaps that will help.
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alright so i have two questions my first is would you use a condom if you have sex in pool, and would the chemicals like harm the condom so it wouldnt work?
and my other question is are the chances high that you would get pregnant if the guy cums inside you while your in a pool? and the guy isnt wearing a condom. (link)
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Condoms see a wide use in other scenarios aside from sex, these scenarios include water-proofing things.
They have seen wide use in the US Navy mostly by the Navy Seals in protecting equipment that can get damaged while wet.
If there are no under-water mics available at the time, reporters will improvise by putting a condom over the mic.
The condom will work in the water, however I would assume the chlorine would kill the sperm if it were to somehow escape.
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For my first car, I want something "newer looking" so I don't anything under a 2002, fast, automatic, and 15,000 or under. I made a list of possible cars.
- 2004 Subaru WRX
- 2002-2004 BMW 325i or 325iC
- 2005 Hyundai Tiburon
& if i can find a Infiniti G35 coupe that is in my price range, then that too.
Out of all of them:
What car do you think fits my standards?
What car do you like the most?
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Which car do I like the most? The G35 Coupe, mainly because it reminds me of a Nissan 350Z.
Now which car fits your standards? I don't really know what your standards are.
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hi, i'm a girl of 14 and am hooked on porn sites i know this is dirty and bad my family and friends would be disgusted if they found out i'm practically addicted i'm a really good person inside what shall i do and how do i stop????
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Watching porn is not a bad thing. You may be under age, but don't worry about that bullshit.
Your family would most likely be unhappy (let's not go with disgusted, you're experiencing something normal.) and your friends, however, MIGHT be but probably won't.
Pretty much, if you want to stop, just don't go visit the sites.
If the only reason you're stopping is because you think people would be disappointed to know it, then continue doing whatever you want.
If you don't get caught, what's the trouble in viewing it?
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my boyfriend keeps on trying to have sex with me and i keep saying no but he got me naked on the couch 3 times!
and he tryed to finger me!what should i do? (link)
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Tell him that "No" most certainly means No and isn't some push off for the time being.
If he keeps it up, kick him in the balls.
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Can you get pregnet on your period? (link)
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Judging by the tone and urgency of this question, I assume you're going to in a very short time find that out.
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I am a 14yearold girl with a bazillion guy friends. ok maybe like 10 and only 2 gal friends. Some people think i am weird but i honestly feel more comfortable around guys. These guys are not the hunky-hunky-baywatch guys they are more the nerdyish-computer-advanced classes-bandgeek guys. Now i have to tell you that i am much like them besides the computer part. Everyone else besides my friends talk about me and my gal friends and think that we are gay because we hang around guys. and that we are "nerdy girly girl virgins". I hear them talking down the halls and in the classroom and at lunch.
But now that summer has come i have mostly forgot about besides the fact the Drivers Ed. came up and i am now constaly reminded. It drives me crazy.
Should i drop my guy friends or what?
HELP ME PLEASE!!!! (link)
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You should never drop your friends based on outside opinions.
Ignore the sluts who fuck every guy that moves in the hallway. What they're calling you would be an extreme opposite of what they are. They're most likely the kind that go to a party, get trashed, bone that "kinda cute guy" or get double teamed and every guy after hearing that is after her.
You're young, being a virgin isn't an insult, it's a choice. Ignore that completely as it holds no water as an insult.
Just smile and think about the fact that they have more STDs than Ron Jeremy could have accumulated his entire career. (I exaggerated just a bit there, but I'm sure you get what I mean)
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Does anyone know any songs that I can google and listen to that are like like this guy or something that has to do with a crush. Somewhere along there that you guys would reccomend? (link)
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Extreme Ways - Moby
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okay so I admit I put a suggestive video of myself on youtube a long time ago, like in september. (it contained NO personal info whatsoever)
I took it off about 3 months after that though.
I got a disturbing phone call on my cell phone last night from this REALLY sketchy sounding guy with a new york accent and he says "Hi, is this Liza?" and i said "Why do you ask? Who is this?" And he said "My name is John. And I saw your video on youtube." Then I said "I have to go, bye." and I hung up.
I then called the non-emergency police number and they started a report number in case this does develop into a stalking case.
I'm so scared still, and I'm worried that he's going to call me again/rape me or something. (the call was anonymous)
What should I do?
I'm really really really worried about this.
any advice appreciated. (link)
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If you didn't give any non-personal information how could this guy figure out who you are? Did you have information regarding yourself on your site's page?
Putting suggestive videos of yourself online at a young age are a very bad idea. I hope this teaches you a lesson many children ignore about online safety.
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me and 2 other friends want to start a business what should we do (link)
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You should figure out what you want to do.
Come back to Advice once you've figured that out.
Also, as a side note, partnerships almost never work out.
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How can my friend get a pizza grease and sauce stain out of her white feather bed? (link)
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Bleach.
Or Vinegar.
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hmm where to begin...i saw this boy at one dance that i'd never seen before. he was really cute so i just smiled at him and he smiled back. at the time i didnt really think anything of him, just another cute boy at my school. it turns at he was a year older than me so i wouldnt have any classes with him. then as the year went on i started seeing him more and more and thinking about him more and more. then at a school event we finally talked for to the first time. he kept smiling the entire time. then like 2 weeks later a friend of mine who is also a year older than me borrowed on of my soccer hoodies that had my name on it and she had a study with him. after seeing it he started asking a bunch of questions about how long we knew each other and everything. then he told her i was cutee. :) then one day i got a pass to one of my friends studies and he was in it. needless to say i went like everyday. we talked and flirted a few times. and it started getting to a point where everytime i saw him he'd say "hey, whats up" and we were getting close but now its summer. and i dont see him much. i need to know if 1) hes interested and 2) how should i try to see him
im friends w/ him on myspace, i have his screen name, and one of my friends is dating his best friend, but i dont want to come on too strong. help meee please ! (link)
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"i need to know if 1) hes interested"
That made me laugh. You aren't looking into your own question very deeply.
When someone asks questions about you and comments on you being "cute," generally that means they're interested.
Since it's summer your chances of seeing him have dropped greatly. You're probably only going to see him by running into him. You'll have to wait for the new year to start.
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I need guts to answer this!I'm just curious but guys what do you always look for in a girl?And nothing perverted! (link)
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Nothing perverted? You just stopped almost everyone guy on this site from answering.
You can't be one of those girls who goes around with every guy fucking anything that moves. How 'bout that?
You should be interesting and attentive. Don't act stupid/play stupid. Looking like a dumbass is very unattractive.
Also, to be completely cliche and not think out of the box at all, JUST BE YOURSELF!
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Alright,so for the past 2,3 months i've been having these weird symptoms that occur almost everyday. i know you can't diagnose but i just need help from anyone to give me some clues of where its going,if you know anything at all.
I'll give you the symptoms and examples,it might be long.
- Unable to focus
*i never know whats going on around me,i
feel like really lazy and tired. i always get
9+ hours of sleep,its not the lazy tired
people think,its like exuastion all the time.
- Unable to think straight
*I'll mix 2 thoughts and think they're real,
imagine things and for about 30 seconds think
they actually happend.lose track while in the
middle of a story (all the time.)
- Lack of emotion/thoughts
*sometimes i'll just stare at something and
think of nothing,i get out of focus and dizzy
then after a little while i get back into
focus and notice i've been doing that for 3
minutes.
- Sometimes when i'm reading the words will shake on the page.
*only happend a couple of times. im just staring
at the page and then it like gets out of focus
and hurts kind of.
- Sometimes my hands get shakey
*didn't really happen that much but still,
its happen to my right hand it just spazzed
or something. weird.
- Unable to get back into focus for awhile
*like i said,everything blurs out and i
also forget what i was doing after it happens.
- Bad hearing?
*i ALWAYS have to ask people one,two,or three
times to repeat things. mostly because i
can't listen. i try but i just fade away..
i literally don't pay attension every time
i try too. its too hard to pay attension.
the weird part is nothings even on my mind
to distract me. i'm always zoned out?
- i really feel like my head near my eye
area is heavy or something
*like towards my forhead,it just feels wrong.
- always feel dizzy-like
*unable to focus and like i'm looking at things
as if im just watching a movie. i don't think
things are real sometimes either. i ALSO feel
really delayed.i dont know if i already
mentionedthat.
- I CANT REMEMBER THINGS AT ALL.i'm not just
saying it,i literally forget MOST* things i do.
for example,we learned a dance in cspa today.
and tonight i really can remember anything
about it other than it was really hard.
and i'm probably going to have to learn it all over again.
- confused easily
*self-explanitory.i feel slower than the rest though.
-delayed reactions.
- FREQUENT ear popping in left ear.
*yeah,and i have to pull my ear a cirtain way
to clearly hear out of it.
Some other facts: My old sister has been having this too lately, and YES,i eat right, YES, i've been getting my vitamins (i take vitmin pills). YES,i've had enough sleep. thats why i'm taking this seriously. I'm 14,female. (My sister's 20)I DO NOT do drugs,sex,drink, or smoke. if that makes a difference.
any help at all on this,thanks.
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You have an iron deficiency.
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