Am a bit of a wrinkly now (i was 24 on 4/9/05, but I had the best birthday I've ever had in my whole entire life!!!) but I know an awful of stuff about an awful lot of stuff!
I am COMPLETELY NON-JUDGEMENTAL and you can always inbox me with stuff you wouldn't ask anyone else @ MelanieHarvey81@Hotmail.Com
Mel xxx
"Dance like no one is watching and love like you've never been hurt"
E-mail: MelanieHarvey81@Hotmail.Com
Gender: Female
Location: Long story, born in Germany, Parents are Spanish but grew up in the UK!!!
Occupation: General Superstar and all around heroine!
Age: 24
Member Since: December 24, 2004
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Okay i need to contact hotmail about emails i'm recieving from people i've never emailed...i cant find any place where it says "Contact MSN Hotmail" or contact us or w.e so if anyone knows the link to contact them please let me know. (link)
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Hi there!
I get this all the time too!!
There is no "contact us" thing for Hotmail so to speak as it is free and would cost them a fortune to employ people to answer the millions of e-Mails that they would get everyday.
Try this link, there's loads of info in there
http://support.msn.com
If it is SPAM you should forward the e-Mail to report_spam@hotmail.com
If it's an abusive e-Mail then forward it to abuse@hotmail.com
Other than that you can change your settings so that any e-Mails recieved by people you don't know go straight into your trash folder - the only problem with this though is that occassionally an e-Mail from someone you know but don't have in your addy book get's deleted too.
Hope this helps!
Mel
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I really like this older guy and he likes me. The age difference is quite big, he's in his mid 40's and I am 27.
We both like each other and have been on a couple of dates, but I'm worried about other people;s reaction to us.
For example, we had many raised eyebrows when we went out to a restaurant together. Someone asked me if he was my father!!
Also other friends of mine that have met him don't find him attractive and don't know what I see in him. I've always gone for guys with nice personalities than good looking guys who were jerks. So what if he's a little overweight and going grey?
He treats me well and I feel like I can talk to him about anything.
What should I say to everyone who is trying to break us up? (link)
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Hi there!
First of all I'd like to say congratulations on finding someone you are happy with!!
Do not listen to what these so called "friends" and others say - it is your decidion and if they were true friends they would be happy for you whether he's 40 or 140!
You should try (I know it's hard) and ignore them and if they persist, despite seeing you so happy, then firmly tell them that it is none of their business and that by making these comments that they are upsetting you!
Stay happy and don't listen or take any notice of what Joe Public thinks, it's your life - not theirs!
Mel xx
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Okay,
I have a scalp condition so I have to shave my head...completely. I'm 14 and I use an electric razor to shave. My doc says I should keep it as short as possible all the time. Is it safe/smart to use an electric razor on the scalp just for spots that are growing fast/faster?
Thanks,
NewToBaldness=) (link)
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Hi there,
I would have thought that you would be ok shaving your hea with an electric razor just as long as you don't have any open wounds or sores on your head.
If your doctor has told you to keep it short all the time then I'm pretty certain that he would be ok with you using an electric razor.
You could always try asking him whether it's ok, cos then if he says not to use them then he can offer an alternative way of doing it.
Take Care
Mel
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hey ppl. besides sleeping and medicine and stuff and there any like little thing that helps get better quicker? i have a cold and i've tried everything. i didnt go to school today but i need to tomorrow....HELP
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Hi,
I don't know whether you get it in the US but iver here we have this stuff called Lemsip Flu Plus Max Strength! If you can lay your hands on it then get some - it's magic.
Also drink a load of orange juice as it's full of Vitamin C and avoid dairy products for a coupla days as it stimulates the glands that produce snot - which is never a good thing!!!
Hope you feel well again sson!
Mel
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I am a seventeen year old student. I have had my resume done professionally but I don't have any retail experience (just volunteering, interning et cetera).
I was just wondering what you look for in an applicant? Being extremely honest. What factors do you consider more: experience/looks/personality/et cetera?
If you aren't a manager, your feedback is also appreciated but please indicate that you aren't in your apply.
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Hi,
I was a weekend manager while I was at college.
In my opinion what counts most when people are considering you for a job in a retail environment is how approachable you are to people and what sort of people skills you have.
Experience can sometimes come into it but everyone has to start somewhere - right?
If you have the right personality then I am sure that your prospective employer will see that quality in you - that is after all why they are the manager!
Good luck!!
Mel x
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Does anyone know where I can find song codes from the band BAYSIDE to put on my xanga?? Very, very thankful for anyone who takes the initiative to help! (link)
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Not sure whether it has exactly what you want but try "www.xanga.com/AnGeL_of_MuSic"
If it hasn't got exactly what you want then do the "contact us" thingy and they'll tell you where to find what you want!
TC
Mel
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Ok so i have a friend Maria and i have a crush Adam. I have liked Adam for so long and one day Adam telles my bestfriend Maria that he likes her. I am totally emotianal. What should i do? I need serious advice on this one.
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Ah,
This is a hard one.
The best thing you can do is tell your mate how you feel - cos good mates lars a lot longer than boyfriends.
Other than than I can't really sat what to do.
It happenef to me when I was 13-14 and I was gutted thar rhis guy Chris liked my mate more than me, but I tld her how I felt and it all worked out.
There a very good saying "Lo que sra sera" Whatever will be will be, and everything happens for a reason honey.
Whatever happens make sure you don't lose a friendship over a boy - honetly in my experience - it's never worth it.
Mel
xxxxx
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Ok, well my choir instructor told us that we needed to record ourselves singing. So I did. For a while, I thought I was a good singer (soprano, especially since I got myself in an advanced choir a lot of people have told me I have a good voice. So I recorded myself passionately singing The Witches Chorus from Verdi's "Macbeth" and the recording sounded terrible! Awful! I've never heard myself on a recording before and I don't feel very good. Does this mean I have been a terrible singer all along, or does everyone think their voice sounds bad on a recording? (link)
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Hey lovely,
Don't stress about it!!
Everyone thinks that they sound like they have a REALLY bad cold when they hear themselves on tape!!!
I've been singing since I was 9! (Forcedley!), and everytime I hear a recording of myself think "oh my GOD! I sound terrible!!"
It's not the case - as long as you can hold a note and people are telling yu that you sound good don't worry!
Take care and don't give up - if people tell you that you are good than than you are!
Mel xxx
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I am having heartburn today - I think from my garlicly dinner last night. Any quick remedies I could use here at my office. I am stuck at work. (link)
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Best thing you can do if you are at work and can't get to a vhemist is drink a glass of MILK!
It a natural alkaline and neutralises anything acidic!!!
Hope it works!!!
Mel
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hiya
i live in ENGLAND... so if you live in america dont answer :( sorry lol
does any one know where i can buy GHD's from??
HELP i need them by monday! :(
please ill rate all of you fives. o i live near brigton, east sussex
thanx A BUNCH!! :D
emma xoox
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In this kinda emergaency the best thing you can do is go to your local salon (I know that there's a Toni & Guy in Brighton!!!)
Cheapest way to do it is go and have it straightened professionally at the sakon and then buy a pair from e-Bay!!
That's where mine came from!
Take care
Mel
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ok do you know where you can get those black tights you wear with regular shows ans skirts like they arent complete the stop at your ancle area. (link)
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You should be able to get them from any good shoe store or department store.
TC and hope you find what you are lookin for!
Mel
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I love helping people, and when I say that, I mean the kind of "giving advice" kind of help. I know I can be a psychologist, but are there any other options? I don't want to be a psychiatrist, so please don't suggest that. Thank you! (link)
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Hiya,
I have a degree in Psuchology and I don't do the whole "let's sort peoples heads out!"
It's a good foundation subject..... there are SOOOOOOOO many things that you can do with a psychology qualification!
I am a youth worker! I love it - I get to help people when they feel that they have nowhere to turn and make them realise that htey have their whole lives ahead of them, and that the possibilities are endless!
Whatever you decide to do make sure it is what YOU want to do.
Take care
Mel
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My friend told me her doctor said it is possible to get your period while your pregnant once or twice. I would guess she means in the earlier stages of pregnancy, but im wondering if thats true. Also, lets say you had unprotected sex and then 3 days later got your period which lasted for about 2 and a half days, is it possible that you are pregnant or is it certain you are not? (link)
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Hiya!
Chances are that the person that had just got her period would NOT be pregnatnt BUT it has been known for a woman to go through a whole pregnancy having periods.
If she thinks that she is pregnant or if you think she might be than the best thing you can do is get her a pregnancy trst.
Whatever happens please be happy!!
If you need to talk more then please inbox me!
Take care
Mel
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if a boy asks you if you have started your period and you answer yeh and the boys says real loud YES what does that mean? (link)
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It means he is a boy still! Not a young man!!!
Don't worry about it, he probably doesn;t even know what a period is!!!
It's part of growing into a woman for us girlies!!! Unfortunately it doesn't work the same way for guys!!!!
Their brain will catch up though - promise........... it's normally when they are about 40!! LOL!!
Take care
Mel
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Why can almost no-one on Advicenators spell correctly? It isn't really that hard, and don't use the excuse that people are young, because I'm not at all old and I can spell without too many mistakes, or none at all. (link)
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hello!!
I love it that there is at least one other person that ca spell and understands the meaning of GRAMMAR!!!
People do things different ways, some PPl spel lyk dis, and some people don't!!
It's partially that some people cannot spell and partially the lastest fad (abbreviating EVERYTHING!!)
Either way this is a forum where EVERYBODY can ask for advice or help and it doesn't matter how you spell your question!
Good night
Past my bedtime!!
LOL!
Mel
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i think my mom has breast cancer!!!!!!!!!!! she had to go for second pictures and now her friend's sister just came over and said "shelia told me, are you ok?" and she said yes. and she was on the fone with her friend, and this is what happened:
My mom: My friend lisa just was called to get second pictures taken! but i just told her and then she told me she had to get second pictures so i feel so bad because i think i scared her a little!
and shes saying to a couple of people "its been a rough 10 days, i cant get into it right now" whenever im around! but when its just me she says "its been a rough few days" and ill b like y wut happened? and she wont answer or will shake her head! even if she was going into get surgery all she would say to me would be "im going in for a checkup" nd if she had to stay over night, shed say "its not a big deal, they just wanted me to stay over, dont worry" so you see, she would never tell me if anything was really wrong, but thats good because i dont get worried.
but now i cant help but get worried because people are saying all of these things and stuff!
shes not like TOTALLY sad all of the time. shes just a little out of sorts.
its really scaring me!!!!!
what can i do? how can i make sure (if she does or doesnt have it)?
thank you so much for reading this long, but important entry! (link)
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Hey.... before you do anything DON'T PANIC!!!
The best thing you can do is make her a coffee/juice/breakfast and go and ask her what's going on.
If she doesn't want to tell you it's not cos she thinks you are too immature, it's noy that she thinks you don'r understand, it's cos she loves you and doesn't want to worry you unneccesarily.
Am sure you AND your Mom will be just fine,
if you need a chat then inbox me.
Take care
Mel
Hey,
I don't want you to think that I'm tposing or hassling you but how are things?
I went through this myself with my Mom but she had funny cells in her cervix.
12 years later she is still alive and kickin hard!
If you need a chat then please inbox me.
Whatever happens taje care and be strong cos even tho she's your Mom she'll need you to avt strong!
Mel
XXX
Saying of the week...... "That which does not kill us will only make us stronger" - Tupac Shakur - 1997
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what does libido mean? (link)
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Hey!
As per the first answer!!
To be fair though when you use it in everyday language it is the equivalent to saying "Sex Drive"
If someone's libido is slow then generally thier sex life is slow and vice-versa!
Take care!
Mel
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Hi Im a 13 yr old f, and was wondering if anyone had an awsome idea for a halloween costume. But the least expensive the better. thank's!
and please no stupid ideas, and i rate high!
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Hwy,
When me and my best mate were your age (many moons ago!!!) we went as the headless horseman.
One BIG white sheet and your best mate in a headlock does it. (his/her head under your arm (obviously you have to put the sheet over your head!) and it looks like you are carrying a head!!
Whatever you dress up as have a good night and be safe........ remember what your Mom usedd to sat....... Don't talk to strangers.
Melxxx
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me and my best friend (amy) were wondering
if was to marry her cousin (jack) would me and amy be related? like sister in law or what ever?
its kinda weird lol
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Hi,
If you married someone's cousin, you would be their cousin-in-law.
That's the way it works over in the UK.
You wouldn't be blood related obviously but would be a member of their family.
Hope this helps!
Mel
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Whatz a hooker? (link)
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Someone (male or female) that has sex/performs sexual favours for money.
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