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oh my GOD


Question Posted Saturday September 17 2005, 6:10 pm

i think my mom has breast cancer!!!!!!!!!!! she had to go for second pictures and now her friend's sister just came over and said "shelia told me, are you ok?" and she said yes. and she was on the fone with her friend, and this is what happened:
My mom: My friend lisa just was called to get second pictures taken! but i just told her and then she told me she had to get second pictures so i feel so bad because i think i scared her a little!

and shes saying to a couple of people "its been a rough 10 days, i cant get into it right now" whenever im around! but when its just me she says "its been a rough few days" and ill b like y wut happened? and she wont answer or will shake her head! even if she was going into get surgery all she would say to me would be "im going in for a checkup" nd if she had to stay over night, shed say "its not a big deal, they just wanted me to stay over, dont worry" so you see, she would never tell me if anything was really wrong, but thats good because i dont get worried.
but now i cant help but get worried because people are saying all of these things and stuff!

shes not like TOTALLY sad all of the time. shes just a little out of sorts.
its really scaring me!!!!!

what can i do? how can i make sure (if she does or doesnt have it)?

thank you so much for reading this long, but important entry!


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Melanie4981 answered Saturday September 17 2005, 6:32 pm:
Hey.... before you do anything DON'T PANIC!!!

The best thing you can do is make her a coffee/juice/breakfast and go and ask her what's going on.

If she doesn't want to tell you it's not cos she thinks you are too immature, it's noy that she thinks you don'r understand, it's cos she loves you and doesn't want to worry you unneccesarily.

Am sure you AND your Mom will be just fine,

if you need a chat then inbox me.


Take care

Mel



Hey,

I don't want you to think that I'm tposing or hassling you but how are things?


I went through this myself with my Mom but she had funny cells in her cervix.

12 years later she is still alive and kickin hard!


If you need a chat then please inbox me.


Whatever happens taje care and be strong cos even tho she's your Mom she'll need you to avt strong!


Mel


XXX


Saying of the week...... "That which does not kill us will only make us stronger" - Tupac Shakur - 1997

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