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So lately I've been getting IMs from a LOT of people (including people I barely/never talk to), all saying things like "check out my new pics! [link] " or "this reminds me of you [link]" etc. basically all have a random statement and a link to some obscure location, etc.

i haven't clicked on anything. but i'm pretty sure it's a virus because these messages KEEP coming (like every once in a while) from the same people and they're the SAME messages from every person.

how exactly does this 'virus' or wahtever it is work? and does it do anything else other than force you to spam your entire buddy list? (link)
This has been happening to me,
Disregard what the person below me said.
I could even understand it.
Your friends AIM SNs have been getting hacked, and the hacker is sending out messages containing spam links so if you click on them, they can hack your AIM/Computer as well.

I'd inforam everyone who's been sending you threse things so change their passwords.


Not actually 'with' this guy, we just hang out/ text and stuff, only when we do, it;s never really great or good conversation, it's mostly just physical stuff..He only really texts when he wants something, and seems uninterested, I'm not dumb, I'm thinking to ditch this guy.
Opinions? (link)
That what it sounds like to me.
I'd definatly ditch him. He's useless.


how do yu double your pictures for myspace (link)
Could you please explain what you mean?


ohkay so my aunts a hairstylist and she has this one costomer thats my age. he comes once every 2 weeks and shes been casually talking to him. she thinks hes a good guy and my perfect match. so she was telling me about him and he sounds perfect. so i asked a friend to fcb him so i kan see how he looks like (i don't have fcb) i saw a pik and i must say hes sooo cute. i saw that he has msn and since i do i added him. i pretended the whole i added the wrong person etc etc. and then i was like anyways my names lilly and the conversation went on. i thoughtt it was pretty descent and casual oh lets not forget when we started talking i put the best pikture of me i could find on my display pikture. and then he asked me if i had fcb. i said no and now i think he thinks i'm one of those "fakes" on msn. sum creep pretending to be the girl on my display picture because evrywun my age (16) usually has fcb.not to mention my piture had daisytang.< i was wondering what to do.. because i really wannt to havea good conversation goin with this guy so in a few weeks then maybe on the phone and then possibly meet up! how do u get sumone to msg u on msn what should i do. >.< arghhh !! (link)
You could always just 'happen' to stop by your Aunts hair place when he's there getting a hair cut, and he'll know who you are and feel like a fool for acussing you of being fake.


so when i woke up earlier i had a friend request on myspace from a guy "bob".
i went to his profile and me & "emily" were his only friends, & he only has two pictures.
there is another girl that was my best friend last year and she made a fake profile of a guy named Jake and i found out that it was her. my [ex] best friend hates me & "emily" like really bad so im thinking that this "bob" guy is just a fake profile that she made because its kinda obvious because his only friends are me & "emily" which she hates. its hard to explain but i dont know how else to do it. how do i find out that its her. it has no use to send a message because if its her then she will just go along with it to be a guy. is there any way that i can find out the email address or anything else? thanks.i rate 5 for all. (link)
No, since everyone's email info is private on MySpace.
The only thing you can do is just block the guy/her


i have long hair like almost to my elbows and i was wondering if anybody can help me figure out a haircut or style that would be good for me? i have long hair and im scared id get the wrong cut even though im diein for one lol.
want to keep it long but ill cut some off the overall length, i used to have the scene style hair a year ago but its totally grown out and blended with non showing bangs. i dont use hairspray and it was short an layerd uptop but medium length at the bottom. i loved that but i want it longer or to try something new. i have dark redbrown hairs which alot of people love but im thinking about going darkbrown purple? should i get side bangs or none, with what type of layer cut? any pictures or ideas or help would be perfect thanks! 15/f (link)
Is you're hair naturally straight?
Do you straighten it?
A picture of you would have been easier to decide.

My hair is down to my ass. Not even kidding, and it's naturally pin straight.
I have regualar bangs, try that.

This is a picture of me I took legit just today
http://tinypic.com/r/1yu0xe/6
Thats how bangs would look with long straight hair.
If you have anything else you'd like to ask, this is my email.
KlutzyKim@aol.com
I swear I'm not a creeper, haha.


SO just recently I attempted logging into my facebook account,with the correct email and correct password that i have not changed.It wouldn't let me login because it says i have to many "failed login attempts". Even though I have typed the correct password in each time and then it was saying how "reset password isnt avaible right now etc." So i don't know what would be the issue here. yet last night I was at my best friends house and she typed in my password so i was thinking maybe she tried to go on and lurk my stuff but she couldn't remember my password or something like that? I dont think she would do that but it's very possible.Has this happend to anyone? (link)
Have you ever heard of Facebook Freezer?
It's a hack that lets Person A freeze Person B's facebook for as long as you want, saying there are too many failed log in attemts.

This maybe be whats happening. If so, Person A would have to stop the hack for you to ever log in again


Is it just me or is he so cute? i wish i new him he is so cute, i would so date him!!! ughh i wish i new him, he seems so cute and nice i love himm!! what do you guys think of him??
This is my fav. youtube vid of him idk why i just like it i love watching him dance (link)
This isnt the place to anounce you're love of a singer. This is an ADVICE website. Take it to Facebook.


17 f
My brother and I share a wii, he is 17 too. What are some fun games that we can both play together, or (for girls) what are some fun games that girls would like to play. I dont necessarily mean fashion stuff, just fun games in general. Thanks! :-) (link)
Mario Kart.
SO much fun.


Oh my goodness. Our (my roommate and I )friend is very nice, but not really to other people. she's pretty, too, but she smells! Before we go out, she will take a shower, but she still stinks! We thought it was just us, but we met these nice boys and one liked her. Well, we became good friends with them and the boy told us that he stopped talking to her because she didn't smell good. How do we tell her? We don't want to embarass her or let her go through this without knowing again. AND she is kind of defensive in a way......

Thanks! (link)
You just have to sit her down and be like
"Dude, you're amazing and we love having you as our friend. And we REALLY REALLY don't want to be rude when we say this, but you don't smell too good"

And take if from there.


There are these little crusty things in and around my nipple. Can you tell me what they are? It is like the stuff that you wake up with in your eyes after you sleep if that helps. Thank! (link)
I had this around the time I was in 8th grade for some reason, and I had it for a few months.
I have no idea what it is.
But I kind of forgot about it over time untill one day I realized it was gone.

I wouldn't worry too much. Hopefully is disapperes like mine.
If it's still there within a few months I would maybe contact a doctor?


Does anyone know how to tell when you are going to get your period? I am 13 and I haven't got my period yet. :( ALL my friends have their periods and I am the only one who doesn't? Why me?? (link)
The day before I got my very first period I had cramps that hurt so bad I couldn't move.
Hopefully this doesn;t happen to you, but if you're having horrible cramps one of these days, you may be able to look forward to your period in a day or two.


Is it ok to hide things in vagina? I feel stupid asking this but I have something I want to put up there but i am afraid it will go up into my body where i can't reach it anymore so is it possible to hide things in (up) your vagina or not? No it is not drugs!

THANK YOU!!! (link)
Stick ANYTHING in your vagina could get stuck in there.
If you stick something somewhat small in there, it will more then likely get stuck and you'll need a doctor to remove it.

Do you want to risk the embarrassment?


My dad watches porn.... I know, like how creepy right? he is like old. what do old people want porn for? he is like 35!!

I found his porn and i have been looking at my dads porn. i think it is so gross that he watches porn when he is soooo old why is that? why is it ok for me but not for him?

17/f (link)
It's not okay for you.
You need to be 18+ to watch porn. In some cases 21+
You're seventeen, it's illegal for you.

Your dad on the other hand, can do whatever he pleases.


hi 14/f

I'm always wondering how i would look like as a brunette. I have like a golden blonde look you could say, it's light and dark on the bottom. I have fair skin and blue eyes. So what do you guys think? I also wanted to know some different ways to style my hair. It's short and it's a bob layerd style. I'm growing it out, but is there any ways to make it really pretty?

my hair supplies are:
-straightner
-curling iron
-volumising moose
-brush (of course)
-wave enhancing spray
- tousle me softly spray

Any ideas? They can't be to hard, or long to fix because i don't have a lot of time in the morning.
Thanks in advance! :) (link)
Do you have a picture of yourself?
It'd be alot easier for someone to decide if you would look nice as a brunette.


I need a really good display name for my myspace. I don't want to be lame and just have my name like I have had. I really can't think of anything that sounds awesome. What are some really good display names for myspace? Something cool, please! :D (link)
Someone may be able to help you if you told us your name.


Okay, so I am a 10th grader. Last year there was this girl in one of my classes. Like we weren't friends or anything. Apparently she's pretty popular but i dont know and i dont care Like I've talked to her about school things.. and I think like general things.. like occasionally but I wouldn't call her my friend, at all, lol. Like i dont know how but she looked me up online on some site and found a few nicknames I have that I wrote on it. and I was wondering why she looked me up in google in the first place.. I still dont have that answer. So she was like thinking it was embarassing and stuff when she said it during class, probably,.. when it wasn't. there were like 3 other girls with her in that posse.. well like a class-posse. one of them was just a follower.. essentially a tool. she's on my bus and she bugs me.. people who are like that, sheep, bug me. the other like she was the type of girl like im sure she was making fun of me and also one girl in the class i'd talk to.. i guess i can call her my friend but we're really different and i dont like a lot of the things she does.. but she was someone to talk to in that class basically. we used to be closer but she changed. then there was one other girl.. er.. i forget what she did, but she was there too, lol. ANYWAYS, the main thing is the first girl i was talking about. okay so that was last year and i havent talked to her since.. and then all of a sudden this year she keeps randomly saying hi to me in the hallways. usually when shes around friends. like i have volleyball after school and she has cheerleading so its usually then and she like says "Hi/hey [mynamehere]!" and its like totally unexpected. and i check to see who's saying hi to me and when its her its like wtf cause im not friends with her or anything.. like it catches me off guard so i just act like it didnt happen and ignore it. like today i was in the middle of class taking a quiz and she like does it again in the hallway too when she was in a diff class. like i dont know what to do. like i cant just ignore it.. like if she truly wants to be my friend which shes currently failing at then i dont get why she'd do that. but im assuming shes just trying to make fun of me or something so how can i put an end to this? i dont want to have friends who do stupid sh** like this anyways. i like when people are straightforward. like i was going to send her a message on facebook but i dont know what to say or anything.. or should i say something IRL instead? please help me guyssss. thanks. (link)
Her and her friends probably find you attractive.
So there for she's probably going around telling her friends she's friends with you.
And to 'prove it' she's starting to talk to you in the hallway, ect.

I'm a girl, and used to have a best friend like this, and the guy could not stand her.
And she used to do this too make, basically trying to make me jealous.

^Take that into consideration.

But the only way you get probably get her to stop is to tell her to back off and just to not talk to you.


my friend copies everything i do. like, i will make up a word and she will use it all the time after she hears me say it. or i will wear sweats to school and the next day she will wear sweats. my mom said don't look at it in a negative way look at is as she looks up to you but i hate it! my outfits are my style and i dont want anyone taking it. nobody reply "just talk to her and tell her how you feel" because she is the kind of person where you can freak out on her and she will just laugh or she will change her attitude that day and then go back to her normal self the next. help, please! im at wits end! (link)
Had the same problem in like sixth grade. Only it was a tad bit worse.
You may not like it, but I found the only way to stop it
Is to stop being friends with this person.
Cut off all comunication.
Tell her you're no longer going to be friends with her, then ignore her.
Eventually, she may get the hint and stop. She may not.

I understand how utterly annoying this is.
And there may be better ways to handle this.
But this is how I did, and it worked fine.

I now talk to this girl again, but we are no where near as close as we used to be.
Keep that in mind.


so yesturday my best friend started to ignore me. i had no clue why, so i asked around. today i found out that another friend told her i said something like she was giving out blow jobs or sumthing like that, but i didn't i was joking around with a friend and she got the joke. but then she told someone who didnt take it as a joke. i even told my bestie that and she thinks i'm lieing. also she and my boyfriend are good friends and im affraid that he'll break up with me over this whole mess. i need some advice please. what should i doo?!?
*female age 13* (link)
Tell her to grow up and stop acting like a child.
If she doesn't believe her 'best friend' then she's ignorant.


I just watched an episode of Spongebob and it really got me thinking. I am a total fan of Spongebob, but I am now curious if the writers are trying to make him gay. On this particular episode Spongebob is looking for the perfect Valentine's Day gift for Patrick. Normally, on Valentine's Day a guy buys the perfect gift for a girl, not for another guy. Sandy, the female character in the show, isn't treated the same as Patrick. Spongebob doesn't look for the perfect gift for her.
Patrick is suppose to be Spongebob's best friend...not his boyfriend or lover. It's really bugging me. Are they making Spongebob into a gay guy? (link)
http://www.ew.com/ew/article/0,,363124,00.html




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