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I'm a 19 yr old mainly agnostic ex philosophy student with rather strong views about a lot of things. I'm very liberal, love the diversity I live in in London and hate that America hasn't separated church from state.I'm engaged to the love of my life, but agree it is a little bizarre to get engaged at 18.
I'm confident, quite literally crazy, caring and crippled. My manual wheelchair is called Sebastian and he gets scared when he goes too fast, my electric is called Jermaine (after the Flight of the Conchords character) and he really does not like ice.
I can read Braille and I know basic sign language because I believe everyone should be given equal chances. I dislike it that money doesn't have Braille on it.
I'll do my best to help out with your situations, I've been in and seen many a family conflict, I've had my fair share or love life crises, I've had about every illness known to man (could tell you a lot of amusing stories about psychiatric wards) and I'm "The Queen of Hair Dye" so hopefully I'll have some idea about advice. If it looks like I don't give lots of advice, it's because I only advise on things I know about. I also detest poor spelling and grammar so although having dyslexia makes me a bit hypocritical about this.
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How to open a charitable trust in India ?
What are the modalities involved and terms and conditions for opening a trust?
I dont know but ive been looking how to do it for a while, if you find out can you tell me? thanks
Hope you find out!
Take care xx
Okay, I have this REALLY good riddle that 80% of kindergarteners got compared to 17% of senior COLLEGE students... I know the answer, too!!
(And they all have the same answer)
What is greater than God?
More evil than the devil?
The rich need it
The poor have it
And if you eat it, you'll die!!
Answer me, or guess, and I'll post the answer on your feedback!
thats crazyness, nothing ehy? where in hell did you make up those stats, i asked the lil kids in my family and they didnt even understand it, maybe thats because htey dont understand the whole got thing tho
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I'm really confused about a lot of things. I think that I may be bisexual, but I'm not really sure how to tell. I wonder if telling myself I am is what's making me that way. I've never done anything with someone of the same sex, but I've talked to people about bisexuality and I think about it a lot. How do you know you're bisexual? I know it's probably different for different people, and please don't say "you just know". Thanks in advance, any serious answers will be helpful.
Hay i used to feel the same as you so dont worry about it, most people go through it, even if they dont turn out to be bi or gay at the end.
The most important thing to remember is that it doesnt matter whether you are bi or not, what matters is that you are happy with yourself.
It doesnt matter knowing whether you are bi or not, although it can be frustrating not knowing sometimes, but you cant push these things, just let whatever happens happen and it will all be ok in the end.
Take care xx
ok well theres this website www.iconator.com and i was wondering how you make an icon. I want to get one but i dont know how! Can anyone help me?Thanks
Paint or Photoshop to make a series of pictures, then download unfreeze, its free, and it makes an animated gif for you which makes them move,
Hope i helped take care xx
what should i get peirced for my 18th birthday. i was thinkin nipples, i dont know why. It sounds like that would hurt more than some other places, though. I dont know..... how much do body peircing usually cost? anyone know?
Get your belly button done, its blatently the best piercing! lol
Its usually between £30 and £40 for a titanium bar, which i suggest because its less likely to react
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whats a good program that i can use to get rid of the viruses on my computer and make it go faster? and also to get rid of junk thanks
Spy bot, Ad-aware and AVG anti-virus, all free, hope i helped
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how do you make destroyed jeans...any ideas?...well i know you use paint and sisscors but i heard a cheese grater was good too?
wire brushes are good, bleach, cheese graters are ok but they can make it a bit too destroyed.
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hi im thirteen and my moms been having really bad neck pain, i was just wondering if this could be a problem like a deadly thing because shes been getting headaches and she has been really tired lately and she doesnt seem very comfortable. but my main question is: is this serious?
It depends what it is caused by, i would advise her to go to the doctors, or if she can, try to strengthan her core muscles, eg the stomach muscles by doing crunches etc. this might decrease the amount of pain in the neck as this might be caused by not enought body strengh and could explain the headaches.
Take care xx
For some time now i've thought i was bi. I've never done anything but i've realized how i was thinking was totally different and unusual. It's been a year and i still haven't made up my mind. Once in awhile i'll "decide" that i'm not but then it ALWAYS comes back and drives me nuts until i'll decide i'm not again. But even then i can't get it off my mind. I know that raging hormones has to deal with this too, but what are the chances of this coming back EVERY SINGLE TIME?!?!?! My family is against it and my friends are okay with it. So please don't tell me to talk with my parents. I just need to know what's going on and why i can't decide. I'll rate ya high!!!
This is almost exactly like what i went through, i still get doubts when i tell people im bi, but i wouldnt bother about trying to figure it out if you cant, because to be honest it doesnt matter if you are bi or not, just like who you like and to hell with the labels.
Take care xx
Anyone know any songs that have to do with death? Kind of like a "R.I.P" or "In Loving Memory" type of song. Thanks :)
Hear you me - Jimmy Eat World, thats an amazing song
Why do atheists have a problem with Christian's trying to spread their religon? They seem to always get so defensive and mean. It really bugs me because they can't have an open mind to what someone else says without flipping out. Like Christian religon says "help those who don't believe in God" or something, and the atheists just FLIP out. I've been open minded to many atheists I know and listen to what they say about it calmly without saying their opinions are dumb, but then when I mention my relgion, they say it's so stupid and get mad at me for talking about it.
Anyway, to sum it all up, you basically just need to read the first sentence.
I think the real problem here is your generalisation. I am an athiest and I have listened to many veiws about god, christian and otherwise, and personally i think its a load of bollocks. Im not saying other people shouldnt believe it and people are perfectly intitled to their oppinions. including athiests.
You have to realise that ok, maybe people might not believe in god bu just because you dont believe that, its wrong to tell them to change even if your religion tells you to help them. You can 'help them' in other ways other than trying to convert them. Many athiests know about religion though and have chosen not to follow it, thats why they might get annoyed at someone shoving it down their throats.
one day i just woke up with this bump kinda thing on my lip. its sensitive and really annoying. today i think it popped or sumthing but idk wht to do about it. easy 5's for wht it is and how to get rid of it
Well the things i can think of what it could be are:
A blood blister
or a cold sore
If it is a darker colour than the rest of the lip it is probably a blood blister, in which case, leave it and dont touch it too much, if it has already popped clean it and leave a small amount of toothpaste for sensitive teeth on it to steralise it. It should heal quite quickly.
If its a cold sore it will be bumpy and possibly lighter than the lip, for this you should get a cream to treat it, like blistex. It should go within a week
Take care xx
hey
well i am 16 and i am having a baby. In fact i am due in 3 days. I was just wondering whats a good song that i can put on for my baby girl katy. Something so that she can fall asleep. I dont want any gay songs from the tv something different thank you
Umm, Jimmy Eat World - Hear you me?
Its about death but its really pretty!
Try some R.E.M.- Nightswimming or Everybody hurts
Good Luck with ur baby, ur very brave going through with it at 16
Hope I helped xx
I have a wart on the back of my hand. I heard somewhere that it could go away by itself. Is this true? If it isn't what are some things I might try to get rid of it?
It will go away on its own in the end, but it often takes a long time. You can get things to get rid of them in chemists but they dont always work too well, i would suggest getting a prescription for something that would get rid of it. Hope i helped
Take care xx
how do you approach a stranger at a party? i'm a really shy 16 year old, and i can't approach strangers. what's an easy way to? what's your experience with approaching people? don't be scared and just do it? but do what?
get a mate to come with you, or try to get your group of mates to collect near where his is, and then just turn round and say something like hey good party or something. Chances are that other people you know might know him so that might be an option too, to talk to someone who knows him, and then get him into the conversation.
Hope i helped take care
what are sum good quote websites?
www.goodquotes.com
thats great, but try gooleing it.
okay
so i did something
and now im getting liek these sores in my mouth
like open sores kinda and they hurt
could it be an std ?
Well its possible it is oral herpies, but it is unlikely. do a search for it on google and see if the symptoms match
Take care xx
My boyfriend and I were having sex, same as normal. We put the condom on correctly, but it still broke in the middle of us having sex. He hadn't cum yet so we just stopped there and finished in ways other then sex. My boyfriend said he didn't pre-cum, but I'm not sure that he knows exactly what that means, and I'm pretty sure you can't control that kind of thing. Is there a good chance that I could still get pregnant or anything I could do?
I need a real answer, so please, no 13 year olds that are just guessing.
There is a chance that you can get pregnant yes, but it is a very small chance. If its within 36 hours i would suggest taking the morning after pill, but if it isnt then there isnt much you can do but hope.
Take care xx
Does anyone know of any plugins for msn that can resize display pictures?
i dont personally but my mate found one on www.messbe.com
i think thats the website anyway...
Take care!
i got 16 speakers in my houce that i have no use for, i was wondering how i could hook em up so they work togather.
what i gota buy to plug em all in? or can i just cut and strip the wires and interconnect em all that way
sorry guys but im to cheap to throw out my huge sonny and bose speakers so i gota do something with em.
you probably could just strip the wires etc, but it would make them quieter i think and i dont think the amp would cope, why dont you just pick the best ones, probably the bose, not the sonys and plug them in, maybe several sets but you dont ned 16, however if you wanted them in different rooms you need to get a big amp, not a little stereo box thing and plug them into that.
Hope i helped
Take care