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My name is Hailey. I love giving advice to people ! Because it makes me feel wanted in this world, and that people trust me and my oppionions. And im not exactly the best speller. So sorry if I spell things wrong. Spelling isn't my strong point. I will try my best to give you advice your happy with. I will always be 100% truthful ! No matter what it's about. You can drop one in my inbox at anytime ! & I will answer as soon as possible ! I appreciate anyone who has me as a favorite columnist. And it makes me feel really special like I give good advice.

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I get headaches alot and they hurt soo bad it feels like my head will come rite off! What do I do? (and medicin doesint help)

-girl, 13yrs

Ok what I usually do is i take 2 advils than after that I go and lay down and take a nap. Than when I wake up I feel alot better ! hope I helped

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ok you guys! i need help with a s/n. i've tried everythingggggggg and i juss can't think of one. here are some examples of things i like.

-my names meg
-15
-like stores such as abercrombie, hollister, american eagle, etc
-tall/long legs

i juss want something unique er cute er something. basically it's an easy 5 if you guys juss answer

thanks!

Ok these arent the coolest but here they are

AbercrombiexBaby

x hoLLiSteR chiC

AmEriCaN eAgLe 5 ( or you can change the number but it has 2 be a one digit or u wont have enough room )

xX LoNg LeG mEg

AbErCrOmBiExmEg

BeauTiFuL x mEg

O uNiqUe BaBy O

if i think of anything else ill add them. all these fit because i used AIM to see so. hope these helped

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Alright so my boyfriend and I have been going out for about a month. He went away to camp for a week last week. I missed him like crazy and couldn't stop thinking about him. So on saturday I called him and left a message. A couple of hours I got a picture sent to my cell phone of him. At first I was like WTF? Because he was leaning up against a wall and he had his legs bent and kinda of spread...and then one of his hands was between his legs. Since it was taken from a cell phone the graphics are horrible...so it's not crystal clear. But I freaked out because it looked he was masturbating (and i found that disgusting, like do it on your own time but don't tell me). My friend called him and was asking wtf was up with the picture. I'm a lot more calm about it now, but I want to know how to bring it up with him...without making him think that i don't like him anymore and without making too much of an awkward moment. Any advice will help.

Ok my advice is that when he gets home and you guys get togther make one of your friends call you. So you have a reason to bring the picture up because he snet it into your self phone. And than once you get off ask him about it. Because he would probally be puzzled look on his face when you pick up on your phone. Than when you get off ask him about such as " I recived your message and I was woundering what was up with the picture " than what ever he says you should go " I dont want you to have the idea i dont like you anymore because I still do " so than he'll tell you about it. Maybe it was a inside joke. i know this isnt my best advice. But thats a way to bring it up. Hope I Helped

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One of my best guy friend wants to go out with me. But I'm scared it my ruin our friendship after we might break up. Should I risk my friendship and go out with him or don't take the risk and save our friendship?

Ok the question is do you like him ?? If you do than give it a try. If you dont than I would just say no because you dont want to ruin your friendship and you think of him as a Friend nothing more. So if you like him than go for it and try it out. If you dont than dont risk your friendship and say no. hope i helped

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16/f. I'm really into a guy at my school, and we're friends and we chat all the time, talk on the phone and online, and whatever. He likes me too, and we've considered dating. The only problem is, he's pretty overweight. Now, I wouldn't care, I don't just look for visual appeal in a person. But I'm really active, I love to play tennis and swim, and I do a lot of biking and jogging. It would be really nice if a guy that I dated would be able to do all of those things with me, and since he's not an active person, I don't know if we'd be able to. We're both really into European history, and we love to read and do those Cryptoquips in the newspaper, and I have a really good time hanging out with him. But are we compatible enough to build a relationship on?

Yes ! Just because you have some differences you can still have a relationship with him! And since you really like him than it 99% it will deffinately work ! Because all that matters is you both like each other and are willing to settle your differences. And even if he doesnt like to run than im sure you can just go with your friend. So try it ! And since you really like this guy it will work ! hope i helped

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This might sound retarded but- how do you kiss someone's neck?

You just kiss like you would kiss the persons cheek or lips. And also you can suck it (thats where hickeys come from) hope i helped !

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i have been cutting myself for about 4 months now, i dont know how to stop, but i dont want to do it anymore. how do i stop and deal with my emotions in other ways?

Dont Cut !! Its not the soultions. But im glad that you want to stop you can :
- write down your emotions
- talk about them with your friends
- instead of cutting just let out a good cry
- throw away all your cutting objects
- listen to some music
- watch some tv
- take a nap to get your mind off things

ill add more later if i think of. but i hope these helped

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All right, I need help... I went out with this guy for 3 months... But we were friends 2 months before we started going out... He had a crush on me, and I ended up liking him and we went out (like I said) so our relationship was more like 5 months it's just, for the first 2 months we didn't do anything, and everything was going great, or, so I thought... He broke up with me ON our 3 month anniversary, and yesterday WOULD HAVE been our 6 month anniversary and, it made me really sad... The thing is, is that he verbally abused me... He would say something and I wouldn't understand how he meant it, so I'd get upset, and he would call me stupid and tell me it was all my fault. After he broke up with me he got drunk and messed around with this that liked him, but, he didn't really like her because, he never talks to her anymore... Well, we still talked after he made out with that girl but, about a month ago we got into quite a few arguments and he told me I am not worth it, I can't handle anything, I don't deserve him talking to me, and a lot of other things that really hurt. He's friends, that I am also friends with, tell me he doesn't care about me AT ALL... But yet I still care about him, and everything that happened still REALLY hurts... Oh, and now he likes the school slut and thinks she is "amazingly hot" and wants to do stuff with her... But, my question is, why? Why does it still hurt when I know he is a really mean person, and it's been 3 months since we broke up, so why can't I shake this? Please help... (Yes, I will rate high for serious and helpful answers. Thanks in advance and, sorry for making this so long.)

I think you have a kind of crush where you just cant keep him out of your head. I dont think its love. But I do think its the kind that lasts a long time. Ok so what you should do is take a break from talking to him. And get to know other boys. And maybe you will find someone else (sweet nice and everything you want in a guy right now) because you dont know whose out there until you give everyone a chance. So my advice is take a break from talking to him all togther. And than when you get to know other guys you may like them. So dont worry it just takes time. I mean you really liked him alot and he broke your heart. So take a little break. I hope this helps.

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(13//f) ok well i have had my period before and yesterday i got it and i was bleeding like a ton. usually when i first get it, i only bleed a little and it is dark brown. but yesterday it was blood and a lot of it! and i ran out of pads so i put a tampon in and when i went to the bathroom an hour later there wsas blood all over my pantilyner ( i always wear them when i wear a tompon) so i took the tampon out and i didnt even have to like pull! it was sooo full of blood! is this normal? i know that it could have been my heavy day but normally they arent that bloody! and now it is just as bloody as yesterday!...is this normal??

please help ASAP!!!!!!!!!!

sorry, it was long...

thanks!!

Dont worry about it .. its completely normal !! My period did that to once. Just when you get new pads I would suggest wearing a pad and tampon. Or if your not comfortable than just wear one of them. Dont worry your body still getting use to it. Once your body gets use to it, your period probally will come on basic schduele and wont be so heavy the first day. hope this helps!

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does anyone know a good hair straightner?


thanks

I have a CHI Ceramic HairStyling Iron. I have this hair thats outta control. After I would blow dry it .. it looks like ive been electcuted. so if this works good on my hair .. it will deffinately on yours. It is pretty expensive. You can go to a place to get it. But I got mine from my hair stylist so check one of your local stores. And if they dont have one than ask your stylist about it. And any Ceramic ones are good. hope i helped

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