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well i havn't used this site in FOREVER!!! but i use to give people advice every single day i love it and i hate it when i can't help the people.

well i'm 14 years old i'm short lol 5ft 1in. i have brown hair and brownish goldish eyes. i have some freckles but they fade out in the winter.

on the weekends i like to hang out with as many people as possible. i usually go to the movies bowling the mall or anywhere else that is fun. but of course if i'm there its gunna be fun!!!


well i don't no what i am i dont' like to label myself but i would have to say i'm out going crazy hyper loud. i dress preppy and skaterish depends on my mood.

my fave color is pink it deff. describes who i am.

well thats all i can think of right now so i'll talk to yawl lata

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My parents got divorced and i'v been living with my mom, brother, and step-dad for over a year. I feel really bad for my dad because he lives alone and seems lonley. I think he should get a pet too bt he works and say`s he wouldn`t be able to take care of it and stuff. I think i want to live with my dad, but if i do i know my mom will cry and get alll upset.. :/ what should i do or say?! Plez help

well your dad may be lonley, but if he works and can't even take care of an animal i don't think he can take care of you. so stick with your mom for right now. hope i helped

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The guy i like cant stand me. but for the past three months i have been trying to get over him. i know he doesnt like me. i know he is a pervert. i know he is a plyer. i know he is jerk. but for some reason i cant get over him. why?!?
(im a 13 and im a girl)

wow we have something in common i like this guy too but he can't stand me and hes all of those things u just said. i try to get over him but what i do is try not and think about him it may be hard but just try and think about other guys. only time can stop you from likeing him but u will always have feeling for him. hope i helped.

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I was invited to a black tie event for the first time my escort is wearing black and white so what should i wear im 5'5 132 pounds should i go with a short dress or long one please help.

short us cute with a little sway 2 it and sparles so cute

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if i wanted to be a model... how would i go about doing that? (not as a lifetime career)

look on the computer thats all i got

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sorry, didn't know what category to put this in. i get really bad razor burn/ bikini bumps. i get razor burn on my legs too but they go away and the ones on my bikini area don't! i use shaving cream and a fresh razor blade (venus) and i put on lotion and neolsporen (sp?) when i'm done but its still not going away! so my question is:

a) how can i make it go away now
b) how can i prevent it in the future
c) will waxing or somehting else help... or hurt?

thanks! i RATE HIGH!

answer A: i would stop shaving down there for a few days.
B: start useing conditioner instead of shaving cream and don't use lostion afterwards it makes it hurt more.
C:NO!!!! waxing is painful.

hope i helped
*ash*

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(sorry its long...)
you see...i've known this guy since the summer..hes 3 years older then me but he always said it doesnt matter! he lives near me and we went before for about a week. and then i got grounded and couldnt see him or talk to him so he dumped me. after that we started fighting more and more. but everytime we would be friends again. it was no big deal but now its getting worse and ive liked him ever since the summer and there feelings wont seem to go away. i feel like he doesnt even like me. he already likes another girl but hes always saying that he will always have feelings for me and he does. and everytime we hang out all we do is kiss and stuff..but his profile and away messages always have different girls in them saying that he loves them and that hes always thinking about them! and when alot of people are around he doesnt even talk to me! it seems like hes using me but what could he be using me for?? i know your probably going to say for me to get over him and jsut stop talking to him but i cant! i really like him...i need to know what i should say to him or ask him i live right near him and hes also a really good friend and really fun person to talk too! so i dont know what to do i cant just STOP talking to him! but i like him more then a friend. and he says the same about me. we dont go to the same school but he hooked up with a couple of my friends weeks ago. one of them was one of my closest friends and he stopped talking to me and started talking to her.i was really jealous. and then he hooked up with my other friend and i was even more jealous but NOW hes talking to my other friend that I introduced him to! she said she wouldnt hook up with him but THAT was when she had a boyfriend and her boyfriend dumped her a few days ago and then she asked him to be her special and only valentine! and hes mine too...but he also has a valentine which is the girl he likes. i really need advice!! what should i do? PLEASE I NEED HELP! i cant stand it anymoree!! i rate!

woah thats a little confusing for me but i'm going to try and help. i think if yall kiss and stuff yall r probley like friends with benifits and i no you can't stop talking to him so don't. you and him seem to be really close. what i would do is stop introducing him to your friends if your getting jelous. well hes a guy and hes probley trying to find the right girl right now and hes just getting a little confused thats why he wants to muliply his girls if you know what i mean.
hoped i helped
*ash*

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ok im 12 and my best friend and i have been friends for 2 yrs.lately though shes been hangin out w/ one of my other friends and wont include me in anything even if i hint her i want to go.should i tell her how i feel or should i stop being her friend? wat would u do?

i would tell her how u feel and maybe she will include you.

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I'm in love with my best guy friend at school. I think he likes me cuz we talk a lot on aim. And the guy who sits next to him in math (thats our only period together) said out loud, "you like her, you know you do." We caught eyes and he looked away. I hope he was talking about me. One of my friends was bugging us two that we liked each other and fight like an old married couple. Is this fate, or just a crush? I'll rate high for good answers.

ummm well its hard to say but its not fate but it could be a crush and could turn out to be fate. you should ask him if he likes someone next time to talk to him.

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Me My friend and my other friend were at my house and so i go down stairs and i hear all this yelling i run up stairs and i see my 2 best friends yelling and screaming at each other over nothing. I was like stop and now we are all in a fight. i dont want to be in a fight and i didnt do anything and we are all mad and i dont want to say sorry cause i didnt do anything.

well just go up to one of them and be like this is silly we were fighting over nothing. they should understand. if not then just say sorry its not going to hurt you and if you want to be friends with them u have to take the first move.

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I hate this kid but i love this kid... He thinks his girlfriends a whor* and he wont dump her!! I love him and i want him to freeking stop if he hates her anyidea to make her belive me?? (( she doesnt belive me ))

- Erin

well theres lots of ways like tape rescording writeing a note and him initionit and then you can always get him to tell her.

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i'm 13, 5'1 and i weigh 110 pounds. i have a big stomache that bulges and also huge thighs. please give me some advice on how i can lose this extra fat quickly. because of my enormous thighs i can't wear certain pants without looking fat in them and because of my stomach i can't wear clothes that aren't baggy without my stomach sticking out. so please, if you have any good advice to give, please tell me ways i can lose the fat in my legs, and my stomach before february 9th. thank you so much!

ok well i don't think you can become as skinny as you want in 4 days. but you can try and loose as much as you can. stop eatting a lot try and just eat 3 times a day. run for about an hour since you in a hurry if you aren't in a hurry i would say start slow and run for about 10 minutes and do 50 crunches and sit ups. but ur in a hurry so run for about an hour do about 1000 crunches and sit ups and stretch it makes you look skinnyer. hope you loose ur weight in 5 days

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ok i have this boi friend and he is like really into me and he asked me if iw anted to ahve sex with him and i told him i dont kno and he got all pissed and so now i dont kno wut to do? got ne ideas? im 14 and ima girl

well i hate to say this, but you don't need to your too young and all he wants is sex he doesn't want you. i'm sorry i learned that in sex ed i actually listened i would be the one having sex hahaha j/k j/k!

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My computer sucks.

Everytime I try to go onto any site that has anything run by Java, IE just shuts down. It doesn't say that anything is wrong, it doesn't give me an error pop-up or anything.

I've tried re-reinstalling Java. That worked for a week.

I've also tried downloading Firefox, thinking there might be something wrong with IE. But it does the same exact thing.

Does anyone have any idea why this is happening or how I could fix it?

i have firefox and java works for me. i had the old internet and it would like just freeze so my brother told me about firefox. you should own load spyware and get rid of all the vireses and it should work.

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I have liked this guy forever. I dont really talk to him in person, but I do on AIM all the time, and we fight constantly. The wierd thing is tho, at school, he stares at me all the time. We just got back from a retreat type thing, and there he always sat pretty close to me, like right in front of me. Yesterday, he IMd me saying "Ive changed, im sorry for being mean to you". But then a lil while after that he asked me if i had done this assignment so he could get the answers. Do u think this guy likes me, or just wants to use me for school related stuff?

haha. i think he likes you. he just wanted to know because he didn't do it and he thinks if you will give him the answers then you like him and he will like tell you that he likes you and then there you go you got yourself a boyfriend.

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well i went to my school dance with my friends they guy i like (kinda my best friend) couldn't go i was kinda sad he came up to me and said sorry but i can't go tonight and he huged me but i still went then when a slow song came on i danced with someone else i use to like and to danced to every slow song then he started holdin my hand next think i know i'm so outside making out with him omg ! what should i do ??? hes older than me and i like my other friend to alot errr so now when i go back to school things are gonna be werid

hmmmmm well if you like this other friend then why did you make out with that other guy. yes it will be weird but if you like the guy that didn't go to the dance then just pretend that the making out thing didn't happen. if you like the guy that u made out with then tell him. hope i helped.

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okay there is this guy i really like, sam, i've liked him for a long time, yeah i told him, hes all like i like you alot but maybe we should star friends for now but who no's what can happen... well we are REALLY good friends now we talk all the time he always lylas which kills me!!!!!!!!!! it makes me sad anyway
valentines is coming up... well im not sure if i should get him anything... what do you think and if you think i should get him somthing what should it be?!?!? PLEASE HELp i rate high

well since it is middle school witch i am in and i know a lot about this because i see girls getting upset and made fun of behind there backs. just send him one of those candy heart things. we do flowers and everyone gives everyone a flower. you can get him a card too if you want. only time can tell if you will be the right couple. i hope it all works out and i helped.

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I'm a 16 year old highschool female and I have really liked a certain guy, who's also in highschool, for a long time now. We've flirted for awhile but I never really knew how he felt bout me. Recently he gave me his number and we talked for a few days. I thought it was going pretty good. He came over and we a nice time together enjoying each others company. Now I have tried to call him for the past 2 in half days. He doesn't pick up when I call from my phone but when I call from a different phone he picks up. I asked him if I was bothering him or if he just wanted me to leave him alone and he said no. If I'm not bothering him and supposedly we had a nice time together, why is he not answering his phone when I call? Does he wanna be friends, boyfriend and girlfriend, or just acquaintances? How do I get him to tell me?
~Confused Chica~

hmmm well looks like he may be a little shy or confused him self. lets just say you should take it slow. stop calling him. then he will have to call you. if he doesn't then just call him and just plane out ask him. you've really got nothing to loose. hoped i helped.

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as crazy as this may sound i am a columnist here and i have seemed to top myself with this question it is about myself when i was in secong grade it was this boy i really liked and we would flirt but nonthing more and went like this until 4th grade then we went to diffrent school earlier this year i went to a diffrent school but had to move and he was there and we went back to flirting and everthing else and sonner or later he asked me out and i said no because i did not know if he was playin or not even thought he seemed serious and i did not want to look dumb now that i am at another school i miss him really bad and i feel like it is my fault that we are not together what should i do?

call him and ask him if he is still avalible and if he says yes tell him you like him a lot and you want to go out.

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what can i do to destroy someones life completely ?? i freakin hate this girl . she's turning everyone against me and calling me a bitch , a slut and a poser . she sucks up to everyone ! at first not many people liked her , but now she sucked up to everyone and told them that i hated them . so nobody talks to me except like 2 people .

hmmmm that happend to me when i was in the 6th grade i'm in 7th grade and everyone hates that girl now. just let time do its thing.

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If I don't eat at all but exercise, will I lose weight?

yeah but you will die while doing it.

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