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Friends, lovers, or acquaintances?
I'm a 16 year old highschool female and I have really liked a certain guy, who's also in highschool, for a long time now. We've flirted for awhile but I never really knew how he felt bout me. Recently he gave me his number and we talked for a few days. I thought it was going pretty good. He came over and we a nice time together enjoying each others company. Now I have tried to call him for the past 2 in half days. He doesn't pick up when I call from my phone but when I call from a different phone he picks up. I asked him if I was bothering him or if he just wanted me to leave him alone and he said no. If I'm not bothering him and supposedly we had a nice time together, why is he not answering his phone when I call? Does he wanna be friends, boyfriend and girlfriend, or just acquaintances? How do I get him to tell me?
~Confused Chica~
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hmmm well looks like he may be a little shy or confused him self. lets just say you should take it slow. stop calling him. then he will have to call you. if he doesn't then just call him and just plane out ask him. you've really got nothing to loose. hoped i helped.
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if you call him alot maybe he gets anoyed by it of he doesnt want to hurt you feeling. or maybe he knows you like but he is too embaresst to tell you that he doesnt like you. i think tou should just be friens cause if he doesnt answer your calls hes probly not even good enough 4 u ..
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Just talk to him. Don't seem like your desperate though. Do something like this: "Hey what's going on between us?" "Do you want to just be friends, because that would be cool with me." "Do you want to be more because I would have to see." "Do you just want to hang out once in a while because it really doesn't matter to me."
By asking these questions you are not pressuring him and also show that you really don't care much and he would feel more comfortable giving you the right answer so you know if your not wasting your time.
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This is tricky, it's difficult to know whether people really mean what they say (as in, whether he does want you to leave him alone or not) Is there anything you've done that pissed him off or upset him? If there isn't, then I'm sure it's something to do with him. He's possibly not ready for an relationship, and doesn't want to get too serious. It's probably best to ask him upfront how he really feels, and why exactly he doesn't answer his phone. Another thing it could be is he could be shy. It could be a number of reasons, but I'm sure it's nothing to do with you.
Good luck!
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its a hard puestion to answer, you han=ve to be brave and say do you love me?
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